I feel extremely embarassed bc I have never did it , but how do you do it? I want to with my bf but am afraid that he will hate it because im so unexperienced. Is this a turnoff? I need tips on how to do it. thanks.
2007-11-19 18:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur that nervus bout it then u arnt ready for it... dont let ur bf pressure u into anything u dont feel ready for... u dont have to do ANYTHING u dont want to girl... u will no when ur ready... wait til ur comfortible with it an not so nervus...
2007-11-19 18:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gold Digger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things can be taught in a book
Some things you have to learn from your elders
and some things are instinct
Making out is the latter
The first time I did it I wasn't sure of what I was doing either but just try and go with it and see what happens.
Let your tounges touch each others and slowly examine each others mouth with your tounge. Feel the teeth and the back that tends to stimulate passion.
If you must know the first girl I did this with thought I did a very good job and it was my first time
And of cousre if you need practice welll... I could help you out..... (just kidding)
2007-11-20 02:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by mattbadboy004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, what kills a "make out" session the fastest is when the other person is feelings awkward. If it's something you want to do and are happy about just close your eyes and go with it. Everyone has a different make out style, just remember to have fresh breath and try your best to relax. Maybe a few glasses of wine before hand will help to loosen you up.
oh, and remember to keep everything relaxed...arms, shoulders, mind, mouth, tounge....no one wants to make out with a sword. I hate when I kiss a guy and I feel like he's trying to stab my mouth with his tounge...and some people don't even really like kissing with tounges. See what he does and try to follow his lead a little.
You'll be okay.
good luck and remember to enjoy!
2007-11-20 02:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, ask him to teach you. He'll love this, it will make him feel in control and shows that you trust him, so... as long as you're up to learning and don't mind a few little humorous criticisms he's bound to give you, you should be fine. He will be able to teach you how to kiss just the way he likes.
Besides, when all else fails just remember not to think. Making out isn't about concious thought anyway. It's about connecting with your partner in ways that thought and speech can't accomplish.
Best wishes, and good luck!
2007-11-20 02:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ryoko_Michiru87 IsFor Da Ben Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I didn't have my first good kiss (I had my first one, a BAD one at 7....) until I met my boyfriend about a year ago. I had dated other men before him, but they were fast and sloppy kissers. There was no romance, no passion. Anyway, the best thing I can tell you is to let your lips flow. Take your time. It's such a natural thing! Don't feel embarrassed. Hopefully, you have a loving mate that understands and will take his time with you. That's how my boyfriend was. (With everything...LOL ^^;) with me and it paid off. Don't be afraid. Learning to kiss is fun. <3
2007-11-20 02:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Roni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn through some video online
2007-11-20 02:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really dont need any help just enjoy being with him and the sensations that you feel --- let him lead the way as long as you feel comfortable and you will both have a wonderful time --- best wishes
2007-11-20 02:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come clean with ur bf..tell him its your first time. Im sure he'll understand and he himself will guide u.
dont worry too much ya
2007-11-20 02:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by itikpunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not think about it and dont plan.
2007-11-20 02:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by saradabest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋