How to start a new life witout my ex boy,how to move on without pain inside..i know maybe its stupid but i realy need your help!!!!
2007-11-19 22:14:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with friends have a good night out, get a new haircut or get your face and nails done, do something that you enjoy doing that makes you feel good about yourself. Focus on something new get a new hobby such as taking up a exercise class such as dance, yoga or something you enjoy exercise really boasts your mood and makes you feel good about yourself. It will hurt for a while but eventually your pain will end, think about the benefits of being single, doing what you want and pleasing no one but yourself and when you feel the time is right you will met someone else whom will love you for you, know the good thing he has got and think your ex was a fool to let you go.
2007-11-19 22:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenny,
It is not a stupid question. I think you are quite bold in asking this. First of all, dont ever think that it was your fault or his fault that you broke off. Think it was certain different preferences you had between each other. That will remove the guilt in your mind as well as the anger towards him. This will remove the pain to a major extent. And you will feel more confident. Having settled that much, you concentrate for a while in other things than BFs or romance. Let the time heal you and it will also make you wiser in choosing relations. If your ex continues to bother you or texts blaming you, take a firm, but, diplomatic stand with him, tell him it was just some non-correctable differences between you two and so let us forget it. That will make you less stressed. Look around, this world is beautiful and there are millions of wonderful people out there. Make good friends, spend some time in your hobbies, enjoy doing things for yourself. And you will see the right guy one day... Then be happy with him..
All the best..
2007-11-19 22:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain is going to be there for awhile. It sucks but it is true. Start off slow, get to know yourself again. I mean take some time for you do what you want when you want how you want. Have a pj day and just watch your favorite movies and cry and after that day make a vow to yourself that each day is going to get better and work on that. Have fun knowing that you can do what you want because you only have you to answer to and no BF to worrry about. Then one day you are going to wake up and realize you are better and can move on.
2007-11-19 22:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jedday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no quick remedy to what you are going through the best way to handle it is let time heal the wounds and try as much as possible to do other things like going out with your friends and focusing on yourself rather than your ex, I know it seems like life is no longer the same ( i have been threough it myself) but over time you will feel better,perhaps even meet somone new
2007-11-19 22:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very simple dont think to forget your BF. when you always thinking abt to forget hi itself is a thought abt him. Concentrate in some area where you interested else read this magazine "Frozen Thoughts". Its really excellent magazine abt life it ll give not onli relief from the relationship issue.. its an complete growth magazine.
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2007-11-19 22:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by hi2sakthi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for the wound to heal. A new bf in the meantime never hurt. Just don't get serious with anyone yet.
2007-11-19 22:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him, it would REALLY hurt inside and it will take a VERY long time to get over such love. if you love him and want to be with him then just tell him how you feel, dont keep it bottled inside it will just hurt more.
2007-11-19 22:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Daddiez Princezz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your number
block his from contacting you
and avoid place he will be for a while
and im sorry but you wont sop the pain inside :(
good luck
2007-11-19 22:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Chunky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs really difficult to lose love,, Its really painfull, but what you can do is to read http://ghiacy.myblog.com to know more about love... Love doesn't demand back... If I start to describe you what is love, this page will be enough, so please move to the above link.
2007-11-19 22:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ghiacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jenny,
dear just forget him from ur mind heart,by doing urself busy in other activities,and just brak all contact wid him and whinh belongs to him.....
god bless
2007-11-19 23:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by piyush_shand16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋