which ever guy is even nice to me i develop a crush and its ruining relationships or forming them can u help. I am lonely at mo so i think thats why its worse
2007-11-19 22:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old are you? At some point, you'll grow out of it. Crushes are good b/c they are fun!!
2007-11-19 22:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you might actually be confusing the feelings of friendship for something other than what they are. This can be difficult to spot, and difficult to break out of, I'd suggest that you spend some time with female friends you might have, as this solves your feeling lonely and gives you a chance to have friendships that won't turn to relationships, you might notice familiar feelings - enjoyment of anothers company, closeness and attachment, use this time to establish whether these feelings in friendships with males are what have lead you to relationships with them, or if there are other feelings. A crush doesn't have to have anything to do with relationships, it can come from admiration, or just feeling that someone has noticed you!
2007-11-20 06:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by pazza_sez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I develop crushes on a regular basis. That does not mean I am going to date or marry the individual. Personally, I find them a very healthy diversion. Keeps the monotony down. God bless****
2007-11-20 06:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your friendships and strengthening family ties, often we look to short term romantic relationships for attention and esteem when really those would best be found in long term, loving more stable arenas. Put some of this emotional energy in to the people that will be in your life always and in whose opinion you really should feel esteemed.
2007-11-20 06:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by *ifthatswhatyoureinto* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a hobby...
Im dead lonely :P
but i spendmy time drawing or being arty...
A relationship isnt woth starting if its not just the ONE person you know you want.
But i know how you feel.
2007-11-20 06:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about men for a while and try and hang out with and chat to your friends more.
2007-11-20 06:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this about a new man, or the same one as before, with the fiance?
2007-11-20 07:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what teenagers do.
2007-11-20 06:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋