This 25 y/o guy invites a girl he went on 3 dates with to his housewarming party, and he asks her to crash over, but she chooses to leave. He has been pursuing her and impressing her for about 3 weeks and asked her to become his gf (too soon). His intention is just after sex (a lot of red flags) but she's not the type to sleep around. He thinks by making her his gf, she will more likely to give it up. The night before the party, he was so positive that she will crash over and sleep with him, that he already prepared an exit strategy after he has sex with her. He started telling her that he will soon be fired from his job and even asked her why she is still hanging out with him since he has nothing to offer her. At the housewarming, his plan to sleep with her failed and she only made out with him when he dropped her off. Will he give up pursuing her or stick around to make her his gf? How long will he stick around for if she never gives it up to him?
2007-11-19 22:43:04 · 3 answers · asked by angelgirly333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you have made it pretty clear that this guy just wants to have sex with her , then plans to dump her so i really doubt he sticks around afterward ... hopefully she see's through his act and wont give it up to a guy that is so unworthy of her
2007-11-19 22:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi well let me say if he is a honest man he will but face it how aften do we find men who stick around thay only want one thing and like the old saying goes if you don't put out he will walk ,but on the other hand keep what you are doning don't let him push you into something you dont want to do
2007-11-19 22:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by mary w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he really cares for her, or if he is only interested in having sex with her. Only time will tell. Don't give in until you feel he really cares about you. Take your time.
2007-11-19 22:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋