my friend told me he always loved me, i didnt believe it as he got a gf... i wouldnt get sucked in, but sadly i am in love wth him
and he knows it
he always told me he was unhappy for a long time, but recently
he 'did it' with his gf for the first time...
he changed dramatically and was hypo very happy, very flirty and all over me.. i didnt tolerate that lol
and now hes distancing himself away from me, saying he 'needs to put another in my place'
why the wierd behaviour???
was he in love with his gf all along, or he feels guilty?
2007-11-19 22:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he never wanted sex from ME he knew from the start this would never happen as i am not tha kinda girl
2007-11-19 23:04:59 · update #1
well now that he has had sex he will never be the same now he is ganna act like every other d*mn guy on this earth sex complicates everything and sense u werent all over him like he was with u and he had to be mean about it maybe he is not as good of a friend as u thought
2007-11-19 23:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Christa_420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think he is trying his different methods to make you fall for his needs. First he said he said he laways loved you, then he said about his problems, then he tried to make you feel jealous b y talking about how good he was with his gf, and now he is distancing to prompt you to plead to him. So, dont give much importance to what he does. Instead, let us look at what your feelings are and what you need. You said sadly you are in love with him. You might have felt soft for him for what all he told you or did for you. Try to find whether it is really love or it is just feeling for him. If it is real love, then think whether you really need him. I think he is too insecure and also does not understand you or care for you. He has been only trying to win you over while all this time you had loved him which he knew also. I think he does not deserve you. So, it is better to leave him to his distancing ways. If he really needs you, he will come back. You decide to spend time on him at that time. Until then, concentrate in something else.
Take care..
2007-11-20 07:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not having sex. Don't you realize that guys think with their pen#s!! H is very happy now because he is getting some.
2007-11-20 07:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wants love as in sex he was trying to get u do it with him and when it didn't work he wanted to distance from u to get another girl.
2007-11-20 06:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got some booty and since you won't have sex with him he wants to find someone who will. this guys a looser, and you need to find a new friend.
2007-11-20 07:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋