Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

For all the questions I ask, I think it's only fair since some of you have been following me through the whole process!
These are just the proofs so I am not happy with all of them....

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2007-11-19 05:34:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A female coworker, is a bully and has mentioned how she does the same to her husband. How come he stays? She always gossips and puts everyone down and many of the other coworkers indulge her. Has no one a spine?

2007-11-19 05:33:25 · 9 answers · asked by cgirl97 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay... my boyfriend and I haven't spoken in 5 days. He won't return my calls or anything. I'm extremely confused because this is all out of the blue. The last time we saw eachother, we got along great. It's not like we got into a fight or anything. He's just being really unattentive and I have no idea why. Here's the thing... I still have feelings for my first love. He wants to pursue a relationship with me again. He makes me so happy and at this point, I'm really tempted to end things with my current boyfriend so I can be happy again. Then, in the back of my mind, I think about the good times I've had with him and I can't fathom ending it... WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-11-19 05:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 16 but i will be 17 in december and i want to move out of my parents house. They are physically and verbally abusive and i dont know if i can face even one more day of living with them. The problem is i dont have any where to go i dont have a job or my license because they wouldnt let me. now im stuck and im starting to think that if i have to live in the streets its worth it. im just not sure if they will let me leave. I live in texas. anyone know the law or have any advice for me?

2007-11-19 05:27:52 · 15 answers · asked by Yolie 3 in Family

I remember when I was younger (15/16) I was always horny. I'd have to touch myself almost everyday. Now, I'm 20 & in a 1.5yr relationship and my sex drive has vanished. My boyfriend is great in bed, and on the rare occasion that i am horny, the sex is fantastic. I can seriously go a month or more without any desire.

I still have sex to satisfy my man because it's not fair to him! It feels like a chore even though he does EVERYTHING to try and pleasure me. He is so UNselfish.

I want to be horny SO badly. Not even foreplay really gets me in the mood. It makes me so frustrated!I would love to want to do it 3 times a day... i just CAN'T!

I've been on birth control since 16... but that's the only thing I can think of. What is wrong with me, and what can I do to get a CRAZY sex drive? I'd even settle for a NORMAL one :(!

2007-11-19 05:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking earlier that I needed the computer for work tonight, so I hope my husband doesn't have plans to get online and play cards with his dad.. then I got the mail and saw that 3 of his video games he ordered came in & breathed a sigh of relief in knowing he would be nowhere near the computer now for at least a week...

2007-11-19 05:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up with for 4 months. She broke up with me. In the last 2-3 months she calls me like every 2-3 weeks and tells me that she misses me and things about our relationship. She has been seeing someone else and she has told me more than once that she doesnt like him that much and that they dont have the same connection that we have. About a month ago I stopped taking her calls and havent answered her texts. She saw me a week ago with another girl and she called me at work 2 days later and told me several things about how she misses me and how special I am and then she started crying and told me she wanted to see me, and that she is thinking of leaving the guy she is with, etc. She never acts on her statements so I told her that I am moving on and that I think it would be best for her not to call me EVER again. When I said that she hung up on me(immature). I think I did the right thing, but I DO love her very much. What is she doing this for?What to do?

2007-11-19 05:18:38 · 12 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Singles & Dating

the short and sweet version- I moved in with a girl I used to be friends with when I was like 7. I've moved in about a year ago when I had nowhere else to live. Her mother is a great person but her daughter [only child and my old friend] has seemed to become increasingly unstable since I've moved in. she's incredible jealous. she's always the victim. she has no friends because she wants to lock herself in her room all day. she tells me she hates me and calls me a whore. she calls my boyfriend an asshole and tells her mom he verbally abuses her to try to make him leave the picture, which is all completely untrue. she's threatened us with wrecking her car and she's done it before last january when I was the only one with her. I honestly cannot stand her but I have nowhere to go. her mom is starting to blame it all on me. I'm not aloud out because she's told her mom I'm a drugaddict. I'm thinking about running away when I'm 17.5. I live in OH. can I do this without being arrested? I'm 17.

2007-11-19 05:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

be spending time with the baby not his new fling of the week?

2007-11-19 05:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by soupbone0106 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What suits you best? what do you think is better?

2007-11-19 05:14:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just turned 14 and i'm a freshman in high school. I am 5 10. Am I so tall that I scare guys away?

2007-11-19 05:14:13 · 3 answers · asked by animal luver 5 in Singles & Dating

OK, this might seem a little random or "really obvious" to you sex enthusiasts out there. But really, what is so appealing about it? Hmm? Because so many people love it, we have overpopulation. Because so many people love it, we have sexually transmitted diseases springing up everywhere (herpes, genital warts, HIV, etc.). So, what's there to love?

Not trying to be gross or rude to anybody who loves sex and lives for it, just wondering.

2007-11-19 05:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by the fire within 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for a little over a year and before him i have never had a boyfriend. Well im a virgin and he is not and he says that it bothers him that we have been together for so long and i stil wont give it up.. what should I do??

2007-11-19 05:05:54 · 17 answers · asked by ripcityangel 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess I have a friend with benefits, and I'm starting to regret starting this. I'm falling for him and he just doesn't understand why I get jealous when I know he's with someone else. He says I don't have a right to be jealous because I'm with him almost every single day. That's not the point, I just can't stand the idea of him with someone else, and I don't know how else to explain it to him...Also, when I told him how I was feeling and how I didn't know if I can keep having benefits with him and he said he felt like he should just end the friendship because that's what I would end up doing anyway, when that's not true. He says he has feelings for me but couldn't care less if I hook up with someone else. What do I do? I'm in too deep and don't know how to stop.

2007-11-19 05:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is trying to pursue him unofficially. I don't know how to explain it but most females have done this before (i stand to be corrected) like talk to the guy pretending just to be friends so you can get closer to him so his guard would be down and he'll feel more comfortable towards you. So that you can get him to know you first as friends then something else can emerge.

Am i just being distrusting about this single female and in fact all single females who try to be friends with married men?

At the end of the day no one can really prevent anyone from doing what they want to do. You can't be a warden in a relationship, all you can do is be the person who've always been. But i want to know should i be wary of her and her intentions?

2007-11-19 05:04:13 · 15 answers · asked by kwng 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we always lie on the couch and she usually puts her feet in my lap. we watch tv while i massage her feet which i dont mind. last night she said she realy enjoyed the foot massages every night but they would be even nicer if i would kiss her feet and even suck on her toes and she put her foot up to my face. i dint mind it but just wondered if this was a normal thing for a girl to want? should i keep doing this for her?

2007-11-19 05:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by coach 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing. I am talking to someone I haven't met in person. We were introuduced by someone via the telephone.

This guy and I started e-mailing each other everyday for 2 weeks. He would also call every now and then but mostly e-mail. All of a sudden, he stop responding to my e-mail. And if he did response, it would be a short "hi I am doing good, how about you" Keep in mind we were writing long e-mails for two weeks saying cute stuff to each other. All of a sudden, it stopped. Now he is slowing coming back and telling me that his internet is broken, he left his phone at his grandparents for a week etc.etc. I feel so stupid because I have written him lots of e-mail and leave messages and he hasn't reply or address any of my question/concerns. What do you think? He's only 21 years old and I am 27. Am I dealing with someone who is just too young to get this kind of thing?? You know, common curteousy kind of thing??

I haven't met him in person so maybe he has a GF?

2007-11-19 05:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm writing a short story and I need ideas as to what the groom to be does to his girlfriend and makes her realize she shouldn't be with him? I need original ideas! please and thanks!

2007-11-19 05:00:16 · 19 answers · asked by romanov 1 in Weddings

I got a handwritten letter from my ex 3 months post break up. She basically said she didnt like how things ended and I did mean a lot to her and she does care. She said I was one of the most important people in her life because I made her realize she needed to change. (No she did not cheat) I decided any girl who cared that much was worth giving a friendship a try. I can tell a difference in her. Its been 8 months since the break up and our friendship is very strong. Whats different from her then my first ex is my first ex cheated then slept with everyone after our break up yet wanted me without changing. Im developing feelings again for my ex who changed should I give it more time still?

2007-11-19 04:57:08 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 04:56:43 · 31 answers · asked by . 7 in Family

im going 2 get married by a judge, i live in indiana, will the judge marry me if im pregnant? When he marrys me am i emanicpated?

2007-11-19 04:54:54 · 22 answers · asked by PunnkPrincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It really sounds like my bf has the symptoms of ptsd. He was abused by his dad, almost got raped by him, then his dad was arrested, him and his mom lived on the streets for a year, his cat caught on fire and watched it burn, he seen his best friend get killed by a buss right infront of him, all his gf's verbally abused him accept me, etc.....he tells me he feels emotionally muted, cant show his feelings, even though he makes it feel like he really shows his love for me. Yet, he recently told me he wasnt sure if i wanted to be with him when i took him back(together 8 months, he dumped me, saying he was confused, didnt know what he wanted being too busy with his music)i told him i really do want to be with him and when he told me this : just keep in mind that my music comes before everything'' how can he say that? he also says he feels worthless all the time and never ever let go of his past. Im the only gf whos treated him good, and its complicated to know how hes feeling... plz help

2007-11-19 04:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by Canadian19 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 04:52:53 · 13 answers · asked by Soda 4 in Singles & Dating

Generally I hate boyfriends and relationships because they're too restricting on my free spirit. I hate limiting myself. But I'm noticing more and more how guys seem drawn to want to hook up with the "girls with boyfriends." It almost makes the girl look more "wanted" i.e. attractive, or perhaps less likely to blab about her fling w/ him in case he has a girlfriend himself.

I'm thinking of finding a "cover boyfriend"...it'd work the same way as a "cover business" that drug dealers operate simply to cover up the huge cash flow generated from illegal sales. I'd pass him off as a boyfriend, but be cheating on him haha. I'd have someone to show my family, since I'm 25 and hitting the "you-should-be-married" age. I'd draw in the guys that always go for the girls w/ boyfriends. I'd have someone to use in case I'm too lazy to go out. Haha isn't this a great idea?

I'd look for the cheating scumbag type to be my cover bf. That way, I won't feel bad cheating on him b/c I'd know he...

2007-11-19 04:52:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im with a guy who cheated for 2 weeks with this other girl that he doesnt love as much as me. he really wants to marry me and loves me a lot, thats why i think it could work. so i took him back and gave him another chance because i think his feelings are genuine. however, i heard from one person that he asked a lot of other girls to marry him and that he cheats all the time. i like him alot, and i think we really have something going on between us. thats why this scares me. i feel that im just another girl he fell for and asked to marry and claimed to love.. however, he is dead serious about getting married, he says im really the right one for him, his soulmate, etc., he dumped his girlfriend on the phone 3 way to be with me, and claims that i can trust him from now on. i dont know what to think. b/c of the rumors i remain skeptical of his sincerity but on the other hand, i get the genuine sense he changed for me... what do u think? could it work? can cheaters change their ways?

2007-11-19 04:46:25 · 11 answers · asked by Vern 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 04:46:11 · 18 answers · asked by DaisysMumma13 5 in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal, ive been attracted to a friend of mine for a little while now but she has a boyfriend and despite him not being the best guy in the world, it seems unlikely for anything to end there. She doesn't know about my attraction for her and recently i've also become somewhat interested in her younger sister, who is one year younger than us and i get on really well with.
Ive recently broken up with a girl i've been with for a fair while and dont know whether i should ask my friends sister out or not, if i do i think i would probably make sure my friends ok with it first but im a bit perplexed on this one.
Any ideas would be appreciated.

2007-11-19 04:44:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and is it only fair to return the favor?

2007-11-19 04:41:41 · 19 answers · asked by justinfaucher 2 in Singles & Dating

ok I have been seperated from my husband of 15 years for 2 1/2 months. He comes around little by little, He is not sure if he wants to come home or stay with the girl is living with. So yesterday he stopped by in the am and brought me some money and than he came by again in the afternoon w/ a friend of his. and was talking with me & my girlfriend for about 10-15 minutes and he left. My girlfriend said she can see in my husbands eyes that he is not happy & he is sad. but he made his bed--- so than after my girlfriend left she called me on her cell and said that my husband & his friend were parked down the road from my house for a few minutes and than after she pulled away he left and drove around the corner. whats up with him? why is he acting like this

2007-11-19 04:40:43 · 22 answers · asked by mm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any inhibitions or boundaries U won't cross in order to find love? What are they? And have you crossed them before, but will not do it again?

2007-11-19 04:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Singles & Dating