the short and sweet version- I moved in with a girl I used to be friends with when I was like 7. I've moved in about a year ago when I had nowhere else to live. Her mother is a great person but her daughter [only child and my old friend] has seemed to become increasingly unstable since I've moved in. she's incredible jealous. she's always the victim. she has no friends because she wants to lock herself in her room all day. she tells me she hates me and calls me a whore. she calls my boyfriend an asshole and tells her mom he verbally abuses her to try to make him leave the picture, which is all completely untrue. she's threatened us with wrecking her car and she's done it before last january when I was the only one with her. I honestly cannot stand her but I have nowhere to go. her mom is starting to blame it all on me. I'm not aloud out because she's told her mom I'm a drugaddict. I'm thinking about running away when I'm 17.5. I live in OH. can I do this without being arrested? I'm 17.
2007-11-19 05:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I ran out of room but my relationship with my parents is not good. my mother got remarried 3 years ago and now lives in germany because my stepdad is in the navy. we get along a little better now but living there isn't an option. there are plenty of factors to my current situation that I cannot possibly include. I just want to know if that I run away when I'm 17 and a half if I'll get into any legal trouble
2007-11-19 05:18:24 · update #1
It's a real sticky sensitive situation that you are in..At 17 your old enough to know right from wrong, have a relationship, vote, drive, and legally you could live on your own..I am an older woman, so this advice comes from 40+yrs of life and the heart...
The fact that your mother chose to leave you in the states and follow her heart is another issue altogether. I won't even begin to judge that or her..I myself have some skeletons and live in a glass house.. I would really advice that you call her and talk to her first if you can. If not then..Are you working? In school? Do you have a car? How about someone else to talk to? Is there anyone in your life that you look up to? Someone you could trust--other than a bf or male? Any adult that you would feel comfortable with in telling them your situation? I'll assume that in 7months you'll be 18? Legally, you could get yourself an apartment--if you have a adult co-sign for you. This is why I ask about any other adults in your life. In essence, your mother has abandoned you. Saying that to say that you could get assistance to help support yourself while you finish school..AND you MUST finish school. It is the key to your future and development into a responsible woman...
2007-11-19 05:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by sablelemarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it! If you don't you'll kick yourself for the rest of your life. Even if she says no, it will close the issue for you. But i'd try to rekindle a little bit, ask her out for coffee maybe, ask if she'd like to catch up ect. Just don't be too "friend" like, or you'll wind up the friend that gets to meet all her boyfriends. Thats always my problem. But go for it!
2016-05-24 05:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run away before you actually talk to the mother. Explain the situation and make her understand.
2007-11-19 05:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by DLCJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's all you wanted to know, then why the novel?
The first thing you should worry about is growing up. You have a long way to go.
Plus you can be sure if I pull you over, I will find a reason to arrest you.
Good luck.
2007-11-19 05:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SWEETIE YOU MAY BE RUNNING AWAY INTO A WORST SITUATION. SERIOUSLY WHERE WERE YOU PLANNING ON RUNNING AWAY TOO. YOU NEED TO PLAN THIS OUT BETTER. THIS MAY ALSO MEAN YOU WILL HAVE TO RIDE THIS OUT UNTIL YOU HAVE A BETTER IDEA ON HOW YOU WILL CARE FOR YOURSELF. RUNNING AWAY ISNT ALWAYS THE ANSWER.
2007-11-19 05:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by lauriravanell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea if Ur parents really cares they will say something to the police....but u wont get arrested u might go to boot camp recovery....or something like that....but i think you should move out ....because that girl sound crazy i would of killed that girl but good luck
2007-11-19 05:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Pick3lz And J@m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares ur life is in danger
leave..
and dont go back
the girl terrifies me and ive only read about her
so use ur brain LEAVE NOW!
2007-11-19 05:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by ahhh its ashlee apathy =) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get out before you get hurt
2007-11-19 05:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋