and is it only fair to return the favor?
2007-11-19 04:41:41 · 19 answers · asked by justinfaucher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely the woman should initiate. The women that initiate are the ones that enjoy what they're doing. And the man can tell if she enjoys performing or if she's just doing it because that man like it. It puts the man in more of a mood to satisfy the woman. It is only fair to return the favor.
2007-11-19 04:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by speedlump2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doesn't matter who initiates it...as long as it happens!! lol
Yes, I think it is fair to return the favor, however you should enjoy what you're doing when you go there or it won't be worth it...Persoanlly, I expect it and enjoy giving it also....
2007-11-19 04:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by str8talker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the man cause we expect them to step out of the "safety" zone for sex. he doesnt have to do it first but at least ask for it first cause i have been with a guy who didnt like it. (believe it or not) after we know they are into oral then we are not a shy about returning the gesture
2007-11-19 04:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by ... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should never expect it in return. It is better to give than to receive. If you don't like doing it than don't do it. I personally love doing it, there's nothing better than being down there and pleasuring a woman. Sometimes I'd rather do that than to actually have s3x.
2007-11-19 04:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by resurrected 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, sex shouldn't be looked at as to what is fair or not. I mean if she does you you she shouldn't EXPECT you to do her right then and there. If you two do each other here and there or together no one should think it's not fair if they don't get it too. Grow Up.
2007-11-19 04:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoever wants to innitiate it should do it. Returning the favor is nice, but you should only do it if you want to. No one should ever feel pressured to do something they don't want to do.
2007-11-19 04:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question but the man should take the initiative since females hardly get any foreplay but that is just my opinion
2007-11-19 04:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think it should be shared. but not like."today's your turn cuz i did it last time." and it shouldn't be the same person over and over again. it'd be nice to have it returned , really nice. but if the partner doesn't want to, then don't force it.
2007-11-19 16:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men should do it first. Men in this world deny things because they think is nasty..but is ok for them to get a blow BS. Is a 50/50 you go first.
2007-11-19 04:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I would say either whom ever is really into it and if the other returns the favor then there really doing great.
2007-11-19 04:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋