Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

what is better?...to love or to be loved?...answer please...

2007-11-19 04:15:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im an 11 yr old girl, im really tomboyish. except i dont like football, baseball or any of that kind of stuff. i love dogs! because im in dog obedience classes. so help please?

2007-11-19 04:15:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i live with my boyfriend for almost 7 years, but i can't let him continue to play the games he plays. He is always hanging out with other females. He oftentimes comes home after work 5 or more hours after he gets off. I find telephone numbers all of the time in his pockets, most of whom I know but don't necessarily care for, he never takes me out anywhere except for breakfast or dinner (not fancy ever) and doesn't take me with him when he goes out @ about. We argue all of the time and I try telling him that it is not accptable to have female friends that I have never even met. And I don't believe that it is alright to have to hang out with them on a daily basis, especially when I am at home waiting for him. When he takes off, he says that he'll be right back, but doesn't usually come back for hours. He has called me to say that he'd be home soon and didn't for two or three days. No phone call, no reason whatsoever. And then has the nerve to question me why I get so pissed off.

2007-11-19 04:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so your man quit his job for semi right reasons at the very wrong time- works side jobs since then a year and a half! Ladies how long would you put up with this?

2007-11-19 04:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's been almost 2 months since her broke it off with me and still care for him the same like if we were still together. I know that, that relationship is dead. Even if he were to ask me one day to get back with him i would not be able to do it. We were only together for like three months but I don't understand what happend to me. I completly feel over hills for him. It's funny but when i go out with another male so i can forget him i end up getting worse because i wish he would be the one across table. Is it still normal for me to feel this way?

2007-11-19 04:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, im taking a vacation day from work tomorrow and my fiance is off work as well..i need some destressing ideas...we've got some big decisions to make as far as wedding plans go....

Cheap destressing ideas needed! Thanks

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2007-11-19 04:12:20 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

a married man with a small child leaving his wife for someone younger?
does that really happen? i mean i know you hear lots about it but can a man really "stop" loving the women he married and had a child with? and if they do why do they do it?

tell me what you think.

2007-11-19 04:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know , it's in the Arab world . any other place ?

2007-11-19 04:09:07 · 10 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a married man for about 2 years - His wife found out about us and has moved on and out of their house. Would you go in and sleep on their bed? :-?

2007-11-19 04:09:07 · 14 answers · asked by twirler 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a married man with a small child leaving his wife for someone younger?
does that really happen? i mean i know you hear lots about it but can a man really "stop" loving the women he married and had a child with? and if they do why do they do it?

tell me what you think.

2007-11-19 04:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 04:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to be able to talk to both boys and girls about a year ago without feeling uncomfortable and alot of my friends were boys then but I hung out with a few girls.
About half a year ago I met my exgirlfriend's bestfriend and then I met my exgirlfriend and we're bestfriends and I gradually stopped hanging about with boys and lately alot of my exgirlfriend's exboyfriends have been around and I found it really uncomfortable and I've talked to these guys before when they were going out with my ex and I didn't feel this uncomfortable and I was also being very moody around other guys today and felt the exact same and one of my ex's exs made me abit angry and I slammed him against the wall without thinking about it and then my ex's boyfriend made me angry and I slammed him against the wall and I just felt really uncomfortable today around any guy and I was very moody around them, when I was just with the girls I was ok but I just felt like killing any guy I saw.(Oddly my exgirlfriend...

2007-11-19 04:08:01 · 6 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

We came close. He withdrew when I got more involved. I fell in love. He has some feelings but not enough. He says he just wants to be good friends. he calls everyday. We meet each other (we are long-distance though) as often as we can. I have decided, that although it will be painful, I will be "just his friend". We have ended up coming physically close (no, no s** yet) so we eventually end up coming close when we do meet. But in our next meeting, if I don't give him ANY indication that I want to come close, and just play it 100% platonic (afterall, he just wants to be friends), will I be doing the right thing? I do want to win his heart eventually though. But by stopping myself and being 100% platonic in words as well as actions, will I be doing the right thing and will he actually admire me more for that?

2007-11-19 04:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I want to let my date know that I'm attracted to her. I was thinking over dinner would be a perfect time. Advice?

2007-11-19 03:56:53 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A dear friend of mine is recently divorced. She has been insulted so much so her self esteem is in shatters. She asked me crying "What is wrong with me?" Do I tell her how to start fixing some of the problems I see? Do I offer to take her shopping or for a girls day at a Spa?

She has the inner beauty, and could possess the outer beauty as well....or am I setting myself up for loosing a friend...This unusual, because most of the time I would just blurt out what the problem is and how to fix it....

This has bothered me....the wanting to help and unsure as to how.
Any ideas....especially from those of my contacts....
Peace.

2007-11-19 03:56:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok she dumped me 5 months ago and the other day she said she wanted to figure out if she wanted to be with her current b/f or me so she called me and we were talking and she said that she wanted to start her life ( she's 18 and im 19) so i asked what she meant by this and she said she wanted to be engaged b4 her b-day ( this June) and married when she's done school ( she has 3 years to go) so I agreed that I could do those things for her then we got of the phone and I thought about it for a bit and realized that I would also like to do those things but not on a schedule like her...so I called her back and said that I couldn’t give her what she wanted and she also seemed to be pushing me away by bringing stupid stuff I did from the last relationship. like oh u weren't with me all the time at my house u chilled a lot with my bro ( witch I now know is a mistake) so then I tried talking 2 her yesterday, cuz I’m still great friends of the family and well( my friend was with me, who is a chick- and she said to me (the ex) oh i thought u were just friends acting all jealous, I thought and I asked her if ur with ur b/f y does it bother u so much and she said cuz she's ugly and has shaggy hair and some other negative things about her ( and she's not ugly she’s cute) and I asked her well by what is seemed the other day u were just pushing me away and it felt like u didn’t even want to be with me u wanted him...and she said that she wanted me and that I made it pretty clear that I wanted nothing to do with her but I told her that wasn’t it that I wanted to be with her but I didn’t like the fact that she wanted everything planned out and scheduled...cuz I feel like if I propose to her that I should do it on my terms and that it should be a surprise, and now she's saying that its not that big a deal if she got engaged b4 her b-day and stuff and well she was kind of ignoring me so I said glad to c u matured up and left her room...when she was leaving she was acting all nice, sayin bye smiling and well saying bye like 3 times….should I tell her this? Thanks

2007-11-19 03:52:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are having 200 people at our wedding, but our bridal party are our best friends and the only ones "our age" attending the wedding. a few months ago my fiance and i made friends with a great couple. a mutual friend with some of our bridal party members. We grew to be great and very close friends and a few days ago they were over. my fiance asked the guy if he wouldnt mind being a groomsman. so at that point, his girlfriend said, " so, am i the only one going to the wedding and not in the bridal party? my fiance didnt know what to say, so he said, oh.... (my name) meant to ask you. ( but i didnt mean to) and she was thrilled! so now i have to make her a bridesmaid or what? i have 4, and he has 5 groomsman, but i already got 4dresses and they dont have anymore, so where do i get another one? or how do i get out of this commitment that i never meant to be in in the first place?

please help.

2007-11-19 03:50:06 · 31 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

2007-11-19 03:50:02 · 48 answers · asked by porsche d 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl works in the gym I go to everyday, so I don't want to make a complete as*hole out of her or me, after all I'll have to face her nearly every day. Im quiet comfortable and confident around women in general, but you know how cramped gyms can be. The trouble is I can never seem to catch her on her own. I reckon she is reasonably interested but cannot come up with a clever enough tact to discreetly talk to her about it.

Any ideas what I could do or opinions on how I could approach her without giving the game away to her collegues?

Thanks

2007-11-19 03:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by Point 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 03:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

watch them and please comment so they can see , what they do is wrong!!!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Tx00EhWm4HE

2007-11-19 03:44:23 · 9 answers · asked by BEST PERSON ALIVE 1 in Singles & Dating

do you want for christmas? Now listen you girls, Don't take liberties. You know that theres not a lot in the pot so don't put us on the spot. (I like that sentence, don't you?) Even if you don't want anything then say something anyway so as we can get some ideas. Most of us are talking about £100 or thereabouts. Got to be realistic cos theres all your family as well. And mine, Yikes I almost forgot about my own family. Anyway, tell us what you want and we'll see what we can do.

2007-11-19 03:43:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-19 03:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

At lunch ill be standing talking to my friends and this girl will pass by with her friends and laugh and then they stand across the walkway and stare and laugh at me, but whenever my friends say do you like him she'll say "no". Im really frustrated she's sending out so many signals i dont know should i ask her out, because she is quite pretty.??

RB

2007-11-19 03:41:11 · 12 answers · asked by robertbeare 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a few nude photos on my cell that I was attempting to send to my bf, but one accidentally got sent to my ex. (Their emails are crazy close.) I didn't realize the mistake until the next day, what should I do? I am completely humiliated.

2007-11-19 03:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To fantasize about someone you have known for a long time but you will never have them for various reasons and you know he is fantasizing about you and he knows he can never have you for the same reasons. Yet you sit across the busy room from each other in separate circles and pretend the other one isn't even there, but you can feel his eyes on you from time to time and I am sure he can feel the same. What can you do to forget this person? The attraction is extremely hot and no matter how hard I try I can't seem to get away not even when I sleep. BUT ITS WRONG!!!!! Help??

2007-11-19 03:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Marriage & Divorce

....in regards to "checking out" guys

2007-11-19 03:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you're ugly enough, you can't get love. Sure people might fall in love with you for who you are and have an emotional connection to you, but at the end of the day it'll still loom over you how ugly you are, and you're partner will often feel repulsed because the physical attraction isn't there. Sad fact of life.

2007-11-19 03:33:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think you should. Especially if you have children who were born before hers. She is after all taking money away from your kids. So why shouldn't you take it away from her. I think it is totally unfair that the woman in an affair gets rewarded while the man has to pay out the nose. Thoughts or opinions?

2007-11-19 03:30:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this guy
and im pretty sure he likes me too,
once he asked me if i wanted to go out with him and i said...
no only because i didnt want to drink
now i REALLY want to go out because it will be a time where just me and him can chat,(even though his mates will be there)
problem is that he never asks me anymore.
this friday we dont go to school because the teachers have some special day,
ill probably do nothing all day so i really want to go out with him, thing is i just dont have confidence to invite myself out with him,
what should i do?

2007-11-19 03:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating