If you're ugly enough, you can't get love. Sure people might fall in love with you for who you are and have an emotional connection to you, but at the end of the day it'll still loom over you how ugly you are, and you're partner will often feel repulsed because the physical attraction isn't there. Sad fact of life.
2007-11-19 03:33:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not shallow, it just makes me sick how the world is.
2007-11-19 06:04:31 · update #1
analytically speaking, yeah we rely too much on this ONE sense of perception, sight, but we end up f*cking ourselves over for it. and we will never learn.
it's so sad because true beauty comes from within, but i'll be honest with you, everyone is more prone to be lenient and accepting of a physically-attractive guy or girl regardless of whether they're scum.
very few people are amazing enough to love a person for what matters.
hope you find someone who does!
2007-11-19 03:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by abby j 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude you're missing it all together. It's about love not about looks. What a shallow and insensitive pig you are. I hope any girl friends you have kick your butt for this one. Get a life looser. That's no way to treat a woman. How would you like it if all the women went around complaining that us men weren't quite up to their tastes for looks. Men would never have a girl if that was the case. So who cares if she's skinny with curves or skinny and all flat, or medium or big or what. It's who she is that matters. What a looser you are. You're gonna get bashed by a lot of women on this one and I'm a guy but at least I'm real and know how to treat the ladies right and with respect.
2007-11-19 03:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you because of the fact that you feel either that ugly or feel that someone you with is ugly. That is wrong. It is a fact that people alot of times are overlooked because of their weight or looks, but it is also true that most of the over weight and not so glamorous people are the best heartened people out there. I am by no means gorgeous, but my husband says I'm beautiful, and that makes my heart skip a beat. Feeling repulsed by your partner should never happen, and if it does happen, it goes to show how shallow and cruel they are.
2007-11-19 03:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That is completely stupid.
Maybe for YOU, looks matter more than substance, but thank goodness, there are people out there who are mature enough to see beauty anywhere.
I know people who are madly in love, sweet, attentive and considerate of each other. Intelligent and generous.
One couple is blind and not terribly attractive TO ME.
One couple is wheel-chair-bound with MS. They are my best friends, not not from what I can get from them, or what they look like, but what wonderful and lovely people they are.
My sweetheart is bald, fat, crippled by arthritis, and mentally ill. He is also the sweetest, kindest, most lovig and intelligent man I have ever met. He does not repulse anyone, except perhaps people who can't see past his outside to see his huge heart and mind.
I am not bald or fat, cripple or mentally ill. I am fairly normal and look just fine.
I feel fortunate to be able to live with and love this man.
Perhaps, as you develop your own self, you will be able to see the beauty that is life and the beauty of others. Your own beauty and miracle that is your life.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-19 03:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly isn't a problem unless it leads to low self esteem - I will give you a web site for that. Remember one of who I consider the ugliest people, Jimmy Durante, had a big nose, fairly bald, gravelly voice, and yet he was a person who stood out in a crowd and was a success in life and love. It is who you are rather than what you look like that is important.
2007-11-19 03:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
indeed, always be pretty. not. actually a lot of partners that are ugly feel the emotional connection for life and tend to not get divorced as much as people that marry for physical attraction because that fades away
2007-11-19 03:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i believe that very few people in the world are really ugly objectively... I think that we all look beautiful for some people... we all have different tastes...Even when somebody is not beautiful when he/she is wearing nice clothes , he/she takes cares of his/her body ,he/she is having a strong personality humor confidence... he/she will become attractive... When you have a relationship for long time you willbe loved by your mate in another level and appearence will have little value.
2007-11-19 03:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by ....................... 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh, beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. I've seen people who I thought were difficult to look at, and they had someone love them as a spouse. It's true, we are attracted (or not) by what we see. But, we STAY because of who the person is inside.
2007-11-19 05:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ignorant I see that. Take a good look at me pal. I got all kinds of women who would give anything to live here with me.
2007-11-19 03:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
some people can see the beauty in everyone.
2007-11-19 03:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by **Orange** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋