Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

alrighty in a nutshell i was with my girlfriend and it was better then amazing at first. but then i started getting insecure and always accused her of cheating even without any evidence of it. i would always break up with her like every other day over stupid things and she would always cry and beg me back like you wouldnt believe. i was too stubborn. i convinced myself that she was going behind my back. i was driven by jealousy. i ended up kissing another girl and told her about it. she still wanted to be with me anyways. she lies all the time now, for no reason. she likes this other guy and i found out and broke up with her but she would still cry and beg back even though she likes this other guy. i would give her more chances but i would always find out she was seeing this other guy. she was the one to finally end it and i think she is really done this time. i was so nasty to her. nobody wants us together. nobody. but i love her and want to fix it but it seems hopeless. what do it do

2007-11-19 03:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 4 years as of October. I want to know your opinion. There is no 'right' or 'wrong' answer, I just want to vent. My husband works all day as I stay at home. I cook, clean, vaccuum, everything except for the cat litter. I'm scared to ask him for any help, because he gets angry easily. What do you think of this marriage? I try to do the litter, but it makes me sick to my stomach. I know that 2 of our 3 cats are mine, but I just can't do it! I've tried to do it, but after each time, I throw up or dry heave. The thing is, I'm scared to ask for ANY help! What do you think of this?

2007-11-19 03:26:28 · 23 answers · asked by Tiger Jae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so long and short of it. My husband was an idiot and cheated on me, in my house, in MY bed. FYI_ he and I are working things out with counsling. But this inconsiderate woman has posted pictures she took of the two of them together, her in my bed, anniversary gifts my husband gave to me, her in my car (which she had no permission to drive), I have VERY NICELY asked her to remove them. Do I have any legal recourse (don't wanna sue her, just want those pictures down) with my husband and I's involvement in the church and him working for a a family run family values company this is not only painful for me to see, but could potentially get him in trouble. Would this fall under privacy rights or defamation of character?

2007-11-19 03:26:16 · 19 answers · asked by shanamave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were just going to stay home and cook our own dinner this year in order to avoid the drama. I've had a menu planned for 3 weeks. My mom called to tell me that my aunt and uncle I haven't seen in probably 7 years is coming up Wednesday night and leaving Friday morning. My aunt is a self-righteous, arrogant, over-zealous Christian, and my uncle is an alcoholic in denial. I remember one Christmas when I was 12- my aunt ordered me to put on make-up Christmas morning before she would turn on her video camera.

When I was in middle school, I was pretty chubby, and stayed that way until high school. I'm only 5'2" so I pack on the pounds quite easily. My aunt has always made comments behind my back to my mom (through emails and phone conversations) about my weight on how to fix me with diets, herbal supplements, etc. Although I was never really thin, I was happy with myself. I was a size 11.

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2007-11-19 03:25:58 · 14 answers · asked by punchy333 6 in Family

Am Full of LOVIN for MY LOVE
I am LOVIN her in HEART MIND and SOUL

2007-11-19 03:25:36 · 4 answers · asked by NIFman 5 in Singles & Dating

Is a 39 year old dating a 21 year old woman weird? recently i met a nice girl who seems mature for 21 (still has the tendency to go party with her friends sometimes and be 21 but other than that seems really together). should i put any stock into this or maybe just cut the ties? I'm almost tempted to ask her why a 21 year old would want to be with a 39 year old guy that was divorced. Should I? At this stage in the game i don't have time to mess around. What should i do? drop it as a go no where thing or am i fooling myself. No i'm not buying her crap or being her sugar daddy. I'm careful with that. she's also incredibly attractive so the question is rolling around in my head why she is out with a 39 year old.

2007-11-19 03:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean REALLY likes me.

2007-11-19 03:19:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

level 4... and i know its not that amazing compared to sum, but i think its pretty cool and i cant wait... i dont even know what it means, but it feels good....

does that feel good for you too...??? and will you help me???

2007-11-19 03:17:14 · 21 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I really,like but he has a son by a woman that he was with for 5 years and there son is 2. They broke up in February and I know for a fact that they still communicate , but reportedly only about matters concerning their son. The other day she came over and went crazy when she found out I was there. Like really crazy, she wasn't saying that she was mad at my being there but starting going off about a whole slew of things. I belive that if they were completely through that she would have not reacted like this but he keeps assuring me that she only reacted that way because she wants to get back with him (p.s. they broke up because she cheated) But i'm not sure, he hasn't done anything to make me doubt him in the past but something doesnt' seem right... what should I do?

2007-11-19 03:16:24 · 20 answers · asked by Cece C 2 in Singles & Dating

should i believe this or not..before my cousin went back to india, he said he looks forward to seeing me in december..then the next day i talked to him on the phone and he said make some plan to visit india..a week later, i sent him an email and when he replied, he asked "are you guys planning to visit india???" when i talked to him in august, the first question he asked be was "are u guys planning to visit india"..now that my sister is going there after 13 years for work, he is happy..he hasnt seen her since 94..when i sent him her contact info, he replied "hope you guys are able to come with her..look forward to see you all..ccheerrsss..how do i know he means it and not just saying it to be nice..my last trip to india was in 2003..he was visiting the usa and i spent three days with him before he went back to india..do u think he misses me and wants to spend more time with me..he told me the more continous time i spend with family, the more i'm going to remember them..

2007-11-19 03:16:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I have been dating for 3 months now. And we have been talkin about haveing sex!! How do I know if it's to soon??

2007-11-19 03:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by Shannah 2 in Singles & Dating

what on earth do u lot gossip abt....share sum experiences plz

2007-11-19 03:15:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you have any experiences

2007-11-19 03:13:56 · 36 answers · asked by ayubchy 5 in Singles & Dating

im really curious why do you women say that prenups are bad things?

2007-11-19 03:13:03 · 2 answers · asked by Peter P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how much should i sue them for how should i go along with it and is there any good lawyers out there that i should use and how can i prove that my parents stole my cellphone away from me im 20 years old

2007-11-19 03:13:00 · 31 answers · asked by Stephen S 1 in Family

2007-11-19 03:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-19 03:10:47 · 29 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were only together 3 months but we had an undeniable connection. During the course of our relationship I was dealing with alot. Family issues that my ex saw and understood from the beginning. Towards the end again more family issues, a death (my grandmom) and a pregnancy scare. I guess he couldnt handle it was causing me to push him away but now hes gone forever. He doesnt even care what I was going through. He said you were a ***** for no reason. I just wish he could understand it was bad timing and I was dealing with alot of pressure. It seems he already has his mind made up about me. What can I do?

2007-11-19 03:08:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no, really... if ex's name was screamed out during the intimate moments, we'd be all very mad, but so why God? what does God has anything to do with it? why do i always hear 'OH GOD!!!!!'? i mean, last time i checked, my name isn't God or anything...

2007-11-19 03:08:07 · 32 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 03:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Weddings

Need advice.My BF is constantly putting his friends and other females before me. He promised he would stop, but he completely changed.I caught him talking to females 3 times. He's awalys partying..I just cant take it anymore.What should I do?

2007-11-19 03:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What to do?

2007-11-19 03:02:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 03:01:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you tell a guy you don't love him anymore ?

2007-11-19 02:59:53 · 1 answers · asked by Annie S 1 in Singles & Dating

Live for the moment or save for the future?
Some people i have known in my life have worried about saving for the future,pensions etc.
Invested alot of money for later years.
Only to find they dont live that long to enjoy it!
Or their health prevents them from enjoying it!
Is it really worth it?
Should we enjoy our money now..while we can?
and worry about later years..if..and when we get there?

2007-11-19 02:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it a right decision to be a house wife now in these times though the girls is having a professional degree?

2007-11-19 02:57:15 · 28 answers · asked by inquisitiveno.1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I split with this girl six months ago and all has been going well and then the holidays come around and I cant stop thinking of her. I dont want to contact her in any way and I dont want her! Any advice???

2007-11-19 02:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out that my parents were getting a divorce from accidentaly reading a txt message on my moms phone, so i thought i should invesigate, I found out my moms email password and looked through her emails and it turns out my parents have been planning a divorce since 2004, but havent told me and my siblings. My dad has been cheating on my mom since then too. She knows, but I had no clue. I am worried and sad they didn't tell me, .they are only together for financal reasons. My parents dont know that i know.

I want to know more about this. How do i get my mom to tell me about the divorce without explaining that i read her email?

2007-11-19 02:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my guy is always on the demand for sex
if i refuse then his best option is to rape me. What do you think i should do

2007-11-19 02:46:32 · 30 answers · asked by hertybaby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have been together for over 3 years. We have two daughters (2 and 7 months old) together. We've just gotten engaged about 3 weeks ago. Well I'm ready to set a date, have the wedding and get on with our married lives. Him on the other hand. Well that's a long story. He says he just wants the committment and is not ready to set a date and doesn't foresee a future date that he'll be ready. He got mad because I told my mom, my 3 sisters and his little cuzin. Everybody is extremely excited and happy for us and they want to know if we've set a date. I'm trying to be respectful of him and his feelings because I know that this is a huge step but at the same time I feel like he has a case of the "WHY BUY THE COW WHEN I'VE ALREADY HAD THE MILK" syndrome. And that he's using this engagement to say see I love you and I'll marry u eventually but just not anytime in the next couple of years. And I'm worth more than that. I'm ready to leave him, I didnt get a ring. So what u think?

2007-11-19 02:46:25 · 9 answers · asked by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 in Marriage & Divorce