alrighty in a nutshell i was with my girlfriend and it was better then amazing at first. but then i started getting insecure and always accused her of cheating even without any evidence of it. i would always break up with her like every other day over stupid things and she would always cry and beg me back like you wouldnt believe. i was too stubborn. i convinced myself that she was going behind my back. i was driven by jealousy. i ended up kissing another girl and told her about it. she still wanted to be with me anyways. she lies all the time now, for no reason. she likes this other guy and i found out and broke up with her but she would still cry and beg back even though she likes this other guy. i would give her more chances but i would always find out she was seeing this other guy. she was the one to finally end it and i think she is really done this time. i was so nasty to her. nobody wants us together. nobody. but i love her and want to fix it but it seems hopeless. what do it do
2007-11-19 03:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...sounds like you are the one who drive her to her dishonest bahavior, yet now you want to be with her and all to be right with the world.
I think you should move on and find someone new. I'm not sure how long you two dated, but if you start dating again, there will be TONS of emotional baggage on both sides...you would have to heal any lingering wounds FIRST before you actually tried to start a healthy relationship. It could take a long time for both of you to trust one another again. Sometimes it's just easier to find someone else and start anew.
And on a side note, if you love someone, you are not cruel to them like you were to her. Maybe you loved her because she was familiar and she put up with a lot throughout the relationship. True love finds the errors and corrects them in order to not hurt the partner again.
2007-11-19 03:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to find someone new...
If you were accusing her when she wasn't unfaithful and you now believe she is...
then it truly is time to look elsewhere...
maybe a long way down the road you two
would be ready again for a relationship with
each other, but it would probably just end up
the same way...
Look elsewhere for love.
2007-11-19 11:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would do something really big. Like singing beneath her window or something that she would really like that no one would ever do on a regular basis. Girls like romantic stuff. If she doesn't take you back then, well then it's time to move on. Oh, and also, if you get her back, treat her like a princess and prove to everyone that you should be together.
2007-11-19 11:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's scared of being on her own for any length of time
if i were you, i'd move on
it'll probably be really hard, but something good will come out of doing so eventually
good luck
2007-11-19 11:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP!!! You sound like a real drama queen.
2007-11-19 11:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Pam H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋