how do i prevent my boyfriend from demanding sex?

Question

my guy is always on the demand for sex
if i refuse then his best option is to rape me. What do you think i should do

Answer 1

If this is a serious question, you shouldn't go anywhere near him ever again. Threaten him with the police if he continues to hassle you.

Answer 2

If you're not ready and consent anyway then sex will not only not be enjoyable for you, but might even hurt because you aren't turned on and your body knows that. You have to be ready for sex regardless of what he wants or not. Are you really going to let yourself be someone Else's sex box just because he is your "boyfriend" and he gets what he wants? Why don't you be the first person to stand up to him and tell him to wait until YOU are ready because in a relationship it's about the both of you. What if after you give in and do this, he wants it more and more and more. Because hell you gave in the first time so you can't get mad when he wants 10 more times afterwards. What happens if it does hurt and you decide you don't want to do this again and he leaves you because he thinks you're being unfair? There you are hurt and lost your virginity (I'm guessing) and he's off finding easier women. Be respectful to yourself, wait until you can think about sex and smile because you are ready and you know it will be a good, memorable experience! Either way you are going to remember this for the rest of your life and it's up to you to decide whether you want to look back on it full of regrets or look back on it and smile. I really hope this helped!

Answer 3

OK, this answer is not going to make me popular, but here is goes.

Do you enjoy it? (yes some women do -- NO!! I am not like that, but some women and men are into strange things, OK)

If you don't, then move on.

Legally, the guy is raping you. If I were a woman, and I didn't like it, I'd split as soon as the ink is dry on this post.

Peace

Jim

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Answer 4

It's all about the sex with him, not about you; so don't waste anymore time with this bum! Whether or not you have sex with him is your choice, not his right. Furthermore, date rape is against the law in this country and he can certainly be prosecuted for raping you. Let his sorry ash go; and If he does you any bodily harm, because you choose not to be with him, call the police and have him thrown in jail!

Answer 5

Umm let me think your best option is for him to rape you? You are silly. Break up with him before you have to go get a rape kit test.

Answer 6

Move on to a new boyfriend who doesn't think rape is an option. That sounds hideous.

Answer 7

Tell him that he can't rape you any more and that you're going to the cops.

Go to the cops and get a restraing order so that he can't come even close to you.

If you do nothing about it, then the legal system will say that your "no" wasn't sincere and that you were ok with it.

Answer 8

do not give in ; your right though :) you dont need a demandin boyfriend ; those demanding types are not good for relationships ; give him the boot ; you'd rather have a nicer boyfriend that is 100 percent less demanding ; happy new boyfriend hunting

Answer 9

You need to run and don't look back. He's telling you to your face that you are nothing but a sex machine to him and you're accepting that. Raise your self-esteem and start loving yourself. Get rid of that fruit loop before he ends up in jail.

Answer 10

Looks like he only needs a sex partner and not a girlfriend to share his life. Move on; you owe yourself something better. If you remain in this relationship, I cannot see any goodness in it except pain.