My bf and I have been dating for 3 months now. And we have been talkin about haveing sex!! How do I know if it's to soon??
2007-11-19 03:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by Shannah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur too young- its def too soon.
2007-11-19 04:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by tigerman910 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a big step within a Relationship. U should have 50% of what's in your heart and 50% calculating on what yo mind or brain is telling u. Is this guy is just 4 fun or something serious u see that make's you feel soooooooo.... much passion for that is the real deal. N-way, before giving it up, ask him some QUESTIONS. I mean 4-real. Cuz, it's nothing like getting your heart broken. That mess you up so bad, if you make the wrong decision.
2007-11-19 03:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Slim Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, so I'm assuming you're pretty young. If you're under 16, it's too soon no matter how you look at it. Period, enough said. No one under 16 has any business having sex. If you're between 16 and 18, you better be very careful and take precaution of what you're doing. 3 months dating is OK if you can handle yourselves in a responsible way, using birth control and/or condoms. No need to preach about it. You should know the deal.
2007-11-19 03:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you know if it's too soon. In the first three months (first six months, lol), sex and intimacy is usually pretty high on the desire scale; it's called the honeymoon period. The more you get to know each other, the more realistic you'll be in your relationship.
If you're a virgin, I'd seriously think about the consequences of your action. Otherwise, do it if you want to, but it will change your relationship.
2007-11-19 03:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you actually don't want to or don't know if you want to . . . . then DON'T. It doesn't mean that you don't like the guy. You just are not sure or are not ready for sex. However don't put on little clothes and act sexy. Just act like your regular, fabulous self. That's why he likes you anyway.
The only time to do something is when it's YOUR IDEA.
Not to be NICE or to make someone like you, or out of fear that he will runaway to another girl.
He likes you already. You won't like yourself if you do something that you really didn't want right then.
When you want those cool boots in the store, , , you want them , ,
this is the same . . . so when you want to do this . . . it will only be your idea
2007-11-19 04:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do what you gotta do. Don't let anyone tell you guys what to do. This is your decisoin to make. If you two are ready, then go for it. If your not, then wait a little bit. You both obviously like each other very much. So, just decide together what to do.
2007-11-19 16:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by corrola_1995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi , it is good to follow the doctrine of GOD , as the bible varse says LET THE BED BE UNDIFIED, dont do it yet if both of you are not yet be join together in only matrimoney, i pray THE SPRITI LEAD YOU IN A RIGHT WAY, byeee
2007-11-19 19:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's something that you really need to think about before you make a decision. It's not all about the guy,.
2007-11-19 03:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by K.K. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well that is up to you if you are ready go for it but if you are unsure don't do anything you don't want to,,in other words just use common sense and condoms if you do
2007-11-19 05:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by kev l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be consider only after marriage
2007-11-19 03:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋