My ex and I were only together 3 months but we had an undeniable connection. During the course of our relationship I was dealing with alot. Family issues that my ex saw and understood from the beginning. Towards the end again more family issues, a death (my grandmom) and a pregnancy scare. I guess he couldnt handle it was causing me to push him away but now hes gone forever. He doesnt even care what I was going through. He said you were a ***** for no reason. I just wish he could understand it was bad timing and I was dealing with alot of pressure. It seems he already has his mind made up about me. What can I do?
2007-11-19 03:08:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be glad that it was over, I'd move on to a new relationship and start over, get someone that is caring and cares about you and your feelings, you don't need a looser like that pulling you down, when things get better and he may want to come back later, say you left me when I needed you most and now I don't need you, your telling the story as if you were a female but have a guys name and a guys profile,
2007-11-22 16:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I am going through the same thing only I have 61/2 years investeted. March would have been 7. During the course of our relationship we had been through everything under the sun. You have to let go. And move on. Yes it is hard when you feel that person is the one but if he is acting like that then there is no hope he is done. Men are a breed of their own and for most when they walk away they harden themselves to everything, And unless he really loves you he will not give in. Just be glad that you are not in my boat and have to rebuild everything that you have all over again. I never married the man I was with but the process I am going through is just like getting divorced only there is no paperwork. Good Luck on your future and find the one that is waiting for you.
2007-11-19 03:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be glad that he is gone. If he really cared for you he would have tried to help you during that time but I think the connection you felt was just reaching out to another person and he was the wrong person to reach out to since he wasn't reaching out to help you. I will give you a web site you can look at and perhaps get some emotional support and if you were very close to your grandmother, you can set up a memorial at the web site "memory-of.com" which may help you and your parents deal with that. Remember you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince and he was just another frog!! Good Luck to you!
2007-11-19 03:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing hun. If he's not willing to give you a second chance you can't force him. Move on. It wasn't meant to be - he wasn't mature enough to deal with you not being perfect ( because of your family issues etc). In future though - learn from this and understand there is only so far someone can be pushed. The first three mths of a relationship shud be carefree and fun. It sounds like you put quite a lot on in him during the early stages. Good luck.
2007-11-19 03:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 06:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there wasn't as strong as a connection as you had thought. You relied on him too much and took advantage of him. You need to work on your issues before you get caught up in a relationship. It takes two people to have a relationship
2007-11-19 03:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 3 months is not enough time to get all this heavy emotional stuff going. You had pressure and he was not ready to deal. Nothing you can do, deal with what you can do something about. Forget the rest. It will get better, I promise.
2007-11-19 03:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by litl m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life. If he left you and couldn't understand what you were going through when you really needed him then why should you need him now when he's left you all by yourself. I would never accept him back in my life even if he came crawling! But that's maybe coz I'm very sensitive and that makes me cruel and unforgiving sometimes!
2007-11-19 03:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If he could'nt see what you were going through and continue to stand by your side, then you dont need someone like that. He is selfish and it's a good thing to find out know.
Just take some time for you and get yourself back on track.
2007-11-19 03:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by TAS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to clear your head first before you start a new relationship. You do not want to go into a relationship with problems it is not fair for your partner to have to try to help you out with your problems when you are starting out a new relationship.
2007-11-19 03:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋