Okay... my boyfriend and I haven't spoken in 5 days. He won't return my calls or anything. I'm extremely confused because this is all out of the blue. The last time we saw eachother, we got along great. It's not like we got into a fight or anything. He's just being really unattentive and I have no idea why. Here's the thing... I still have feelings for my first love. He wants to pursue a relationship with me again. He makes me so happy and at this point, I'm really tempted to end things with my current boyfriend so I can be happy again. Then, in the back of my mind, I think about the good times I've had with him and I can't fathom ending it... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-11-19 05:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to his house and ask him what is going on. Maybe something happened and he is unable to call you. If he is upset about something sit and talk through it. You need to work things out in person. If he does not want to make an effort then ok, if you are happier with someone else, there is no sense leading him on and dealing with the silent treatment. I hope everything works out for the best, Good Luck!
2007-11-19 05:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by rlv1187 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation not less than 3 months ago. I had this relationship with this guy and everything was great until he had an accident at work and had to have surgery. He never told me until the day after I broke up with him and we eventually got back together but I sat down him and told him why I broke up with him because I was feeling like he was ignoring me and why he never contacted me to tell me that he had surgery. We worked it out eventually but not after we talked about our wants and needs and how we could prevent this from happening again. I think you should try really hard to get in touch with him and find out what happened before you make a hasty decision because this could turn out to be a simple misunderstanding.
2007-11-19 13:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by beautifulsexxynesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the boy you are with now doesn't show affection...such as returning your phone calls then he doesn't deserve you. How can he not talk to his girlfriend for 5 days? If you are happy with your 1st love then go back to him because even if you have some great memories...doesn't mean you should stay with a guy who doesn't seem to appreciate you.
2007-11-19 13:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by A chikk. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your current boyfriend isn't speaking to you and won't return your calls it sounds to me like you don't have to fathom ending it -- he's already made that choice. Move on, or move back to your first love.
2007-11-19 13:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make the move back with first relationship while you can as the present one is being far from respect full to you and put it down to an experience of life.Good luck.
2007-11-19 13:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure your current bf is definatly out the picture before you move on. There might be a valid reason for his behavior like a death, etc.. or maybe there isn't. But just wait it out first to be positive.
2007-11-19 13:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Anna ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you end up the relationship with your ex? If you think about that and the current one, I guess you deserve someone better than these two guys!
2007-11-19 13:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your current boyfriend is going to miss the boat. Sooner or later he'll realize what a schlub he was. Give it a go with your first love. You never know what'll happen unless you try.
2007-11-19 13:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rosesarered 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is treating you this way, start considering finding someone else. No one deserves to be treated intentionally wrong. There are other fish in the sea.
2007-11-19 13:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey babe
your bf now is being well not one of the nicest ppl at the min and u are still in love or still have feeling for ur x right? i cant tell u wat to do u got to follow ur heart , ur currant boyfriend isn't makin u happy at the min and u have doubt in the relationship dont be in it well i wouldn't!!!! does u x no u still have feelings 4 him?? and do u no if he feels the same wat about you?? to help u i need more info plz :) xx
2007-11-19 13:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋