I have been with this guy for a little over a year and before him i have never had a boyfriend. Well im a virgin and he is not and he says that it bothers him that we have been together for so long and i stil wont give it up.. what should I do??
2007-11-19 05:05:54 · 17 answers · asked by ripcityangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wait til you're ready honey.
If he's not willing to wait, then he's not worth it.
If he thinks of sex or making love as 'giving it up', then he sounds like a bit of a 'wham bam thank you ma'am' type. I wonder how he'll be in bed. Would he put you before his needs? As he's experienced he should put you first, not pressure you to 'give it up'!!
2007-11-19 05:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should respect you for who you are and not what you are. If he is not willing to do that then dump him. Dont do any thing until you are comfortable with it. Just believe in your self and do the right thing. If you think you want to lose your virginity then go ahead. Just dont regret. Have faith.
2007-11-19 05:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex when you're ready to do so. If you're not ready, then it doesn't matter how long you've been in the relationship.
If he's not willing to accept your feelings on the matter, let him walk. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-11-19 05:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could very easily get an unwanted pregnancy or an STD. If he hates you forever for not giving him your virginity, tough luck for him! Love is not measured by sex. It's measured by true caring and affection.
2007-11-19 05:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by the fire within 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont give it up until you are ready. If he truely likes you and respects you then he will stop pressuring you into doing something you dont want to. Either that or he will get it somewhere else.
2007-11-19 05:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything until you feel comfortable with yourself first. Another key thing to remember is that if he really loves and respects you he'll wait.
2007-11-19 05:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by mEgHaN 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything with him that you are not ready for. Hes pressureing you. and if he can not respect you, you need to move on. If hes into you, he can wait.
2007-11-19 05:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont let him pressure you into haveing sex with him.if he really loves you he will wait till you are ready.if he cant wait he is not worth haveing as a boyfriend.
2007-11-19 05:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until you are ready.... do not do anything,,,, dont let him pressure u into it. If he loves you and respects you,,,, he will be patient and wait... otherwise.... move on to someone who will respect your wishes... Good luck
2007-11-19 05:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by ******101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless YOUR ready. If he truely loves you , he can wait. He won't die without it. Plus, there are other things you can do besides intercourse like oral sex :) which is the best anyways^^
2007-11-19 05:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Anna ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋