Not a perverted question....Just wondering?

Question

I really enjoy going down on my husband!

He says I am great at it .... BUT there is always room for improvement so....

1. What are some tricks that you like to use OR What are some tricks guys like to get

2. How can I get my husband to direct me to what he likes or what he wants more of .....

Again not a perverted question .... just asking for advice

I do ask him and all he tells me is that im great at it and couldnt get any better .... BUT I know I could I just dont know what else he would lilke

Answer 1

I love it too! Here are a few tricks I've learned...

1. Hand and mouth in sync. Let your lips rest on your first finger and thumb. Move up and down in rhythem - add a few moans in the mix too letting him know you enjoy it.

2. Lick from bottom to top. Pay close attention around the head. Don't use your hands and watch him squirm.

3. Not many girls can do it but if you're one- have him grab your head and force it down your throat just before he blows.

Answer 2

There was a great HBO short-subject on this very topic. In addition to your mouth, use both hands in a spiraling motion.

Edit:
Oh yeah, and to you women who say, "just ask him" that doesn't always work, because if we gotta give you blow-by-blow stage direction, then what do we need you for? It's just like masturbation. Michelle, you're doing the right thing by asking the folks here; he'll love the new stuff, trust me.

Edit 2:
And more important than your technique is the swallowing. By far, the most important thing.

Answer 3

I love doing that for my hubby too......he calls me his super freak!! Anyway, you could try using your hand as an extension of your mouth kind of? I guess what I am saying is masturbate him while also giving him oral, he will love it! Just try different stuff, you will know if he likes it or not. I ask my husband all the time if I am doing it like he likes or if theres anything I could do better, and I always get the same answer "oh no you are the best, just keep doing what you are doing. I think it helps ALOT if you actually like doing that for them!!

Answer 4

Tell him to "direct traffic". Tell him to talk you through everything you do...that's very fun for me!

Also, mind the surrounding area. Use your hands a lot...not necessarily on your husband's shaft, but the 'step-children', the inner thigh, grab his butt, rub his chest & stomach all while you're performing.

Oh yeah.... and when you have a mouth full....HUM! The vibrations feel GREAT!

Answer 5

Try swirling a couple of ice cubes in your mouth for a few seconds before doing the deed. He'll appreciate it. Also, try some of the sweet Liquere flavors on his member. Amoretta is a good starting point.

Answer 6

While going down on him give him anal stimulation with a finger or a vibrating toy, but be very careful because his orgasm will be over the top he will shake violently a lot of men get toe cramps when done like this... men won't admit it but they love to be stimulated anally during sex..

Answer 7

my wife does this great two handed move where she counter rotates her hands on the shaft while shes bobbing up and down. very very nice. She also grabs on with her thumb on the underside and rubs on that little knobby place close to the corona. lickin the sack and suckin balls is nice too.

if your husband isn't moaning some, or anything, then tell him you need to hear feedback. He probably likes to hear you moan and scream, so tell him you need some too. tell him that it turns you on for him to moan a little and tell you what to do.

Answer 8

Have you ever asked him??? When your down there doin ur thing..listen to his breathing/moaning etc...you should get the clue from that if he likes it..
Or just try something completely diff..and ask if he likes it..
The biggest thing in any relationship is COMMUNICATION-either in a serious talk/or bedroom...its KEY!!!!
As for as the tricks men like: every man likes his (service) differently...to find out what he really likes or what he'd like for you to do...ASK!!!!

Answer 9

Well, first ask your husband to talk to you and stroke your head while your doing it.

One thing you can do is spread whipped cream all over it and lick it off. Or one of my personal favorites, the abc game, to the abc's with your tongue on his penis. I hope this helped.

Good luck.

Answer 10

OK..I know what your asking..But i can't tell tell you here because the yahoo police will have a fit..If you email me i will try to help..You are right there is a difference between great and amazing..both ways..