I JUST started dating this guy and he seems to have a problem with my BEST FRIEND. I've always said in the past that if any guy I start dating ever has a problem with my best friend that I would stop talking to him. The thing is, that I think he only doesn't like my best friend because my best friend is a gay male. I told him that it's very important to me for him to get along with him. But it seems like he doesn't even want to get to know him. Which I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!! He doesn't even KNOW HIM!!! He met my best friend ONCE! and I thought it went rather well....but I guess he just doesn't like the fact that he's also a male. I think he might feel a bit threatened by the fact that there is another male in my life that I just absolutey ADORE!... and also...my best friend isn't flambouyant at all so it just seems like I just have some random "straight" guy always around or something....I don't know....what should I do!? What would You do?!
2007-11-19 02:34:15 · 3 answers · asked by tatttttsssss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it it quite common, for a guy to feel jealous about an other guy in his guls life, he is no exception, try to explain it to him when he is in his cool senses, well if he listens its ok...............
if he doesnt..............
and u leave him.............
u may have to face the same situation wit any other guy who comes in to ur life.............
its always difficult to explain the friendship between a boy and a gul............
anyways try ur luck...........
2007-11-19 02:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend. Don't accue him of anything; just ask him why he doesn't like your best friend. You said he "seems" to have a problem with you friend, but you didn't say why it seems this way or even if he does. Try inviting your boyfriend and your friend out to dinner; make sure they know the other is coming. If your boyfriend says he'd rather not, you'll know. Then ask him why. Talk to him about it. If you can't communicate with your boyfriend about issues that bother you, it's not going to be a good relationship regardless of your friend. So be honest and get to the root of the problem; you'll know whether or not to keep him after that.
2007-11-19 10:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to your guy about it and give him one more chance, but frankly, I don't think he'll change, and I think you'll need to kick him to the curb. Either he has a problem with you having male friends, or he has a problem with gay men, and either way it sounds to me like your views on things are going to be too different for things to work out between you.
2007-11-19 10:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋