Question for women about jealousy? Guys what do you think?

Question

I'm not a very insecure person so I'm a bit of a realist on the topic but why is it that when a gf/wife catches us looking at woman who's better looking than her we are dogs and the girl is 'probably a *****', but when the situation is reversed and a guy says 'at least be descrite about it' , suddendly we get a feminist speach about being controling and supressing a womans sexuality or "excuse me.. first off.. I look at what the f*ck I want to look at, do you see me f*cking him?"

I think it's wrong on both sides to do it blatanely in front of your partner but I'm getting the impression guys aren't allowed to complain or correct anything a woman does without being of accused of being controling

Answer 1

As far as I'm concerned, just because a person is in a relationship does not mean they're blind. People should feel free to recognize beauty in other people. Just make sure that you look with respect. In other words, lurid stares are not appreciated by the ones being looked at, nor by the partner of the one who's starting. At the same time, I don't think it's fair for one person to be able to look while their partner gets in trouble if they happen to be caught looking at someone else. Just because a person sees something he or she likes does not mean that person is going to run off and cheat.

Answer 2

Depends on both people. There are girls out there that aren't messed up in the head and bent on controlling their boyfriend.

I was married for 4 years, and in a controlling relationship. I couldn't check out a girl, or even go to the grocery store alone. So, when I got out of that relationship (divorced), I looked for someone that had the views I wanted in a woman. Now, with the girl I'm with currently (and have been for 4 years now), we both look when we want, and who cares! It's a natural thing, just like guys looking at porn. It's the way it's always been and always will be. It's how we were made. And some girls (like mine-I'm proud to say), aren't jealous at all, and don't mind sharing sometimes if you get what I mean. They're are some good ones out there. Keep away from the controlling ones that would argue about something so small as to check another girl out when you're with them. Life's too short for all that.

Answer 3

Personally, I believe that what's good for one is good for the other. Neither person in the relationship should be staring down other members of the opposite sex in front of each other. It is disrespectul at best!