Well At school yesterday my friend was sick, and at lunch he was all over this girl that is his friend, but that doesn't make it right in my book. She was in his lap, and he was flirting, well I decided to pull him aside and talk to him. Then I had my other friend talk to the girl and the guy. After that we went and talked the rest of our group. And he walked over and we started yelling my friend yelling at him and then I did 2. I was just trying to keep her from getting her hurt. So when I got home there was a myspace message saying " Good job for ruining my life". and we started talking and she hates. She said "He broke up with me because of YOU!!!"
I prayed to God because I honestly didn't know what to do
I've had problems with this group before, Right now I feel like they aren't good friends, and I should just cut my loses, and move on. This is what I think God is trying to tell me.
2007-11-19 23:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well u did whatever u could have, but if she doesn't needs you then move on......................try making some new and good friends...................good luck!
2007-11-19 23:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH ANGEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, the world wouldn't move around if it was left up to assumptions. Thinking that, that's what God is trying to tell you is wrong. I know that my FATHER loves me and does nothing but protect me. So why would you think that of HIM? Friends are like seasons, they come and go, but if she's a true friend then she'll realize that what she did was wrong and in the midst of it you can be wrong too. Sit her down and talk about it. If she wont listen, i know girls have other ways of communication, use it
2007-11-20 07:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by ttime_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD wasn't telling you a thing about that situation. After all He had His problems to deal with and look what happened to HIM. Just don't sweat it. If they were your friends or the group you deal with you'll know either way. Don't let them control your life. If you do then you will really have a problem!
With friends like that....you need no enemies! (As the saying goes)
2007-11-20 08:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my book you should cut your losses because if you think they aren't good friends then chances are they're not. And if God is telling you to do that they just listen to him and you will make other friends because from what you tried to do i can tell that your a good friend so it won't be hard.
2007-11-20 08:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by person_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinoin your friend is a snooty ***** but if she is really your best friend you and her should try to fix it honestly what you should actually do is wait untill she apoligizes because if she dosent then you know who your true friends are if you dont try to make up with her it will actually in the end make you the better person because then she will see that you dont play and then if you do decide to make up she will never ever be able to pull this dumb *** **** again
2007-11-20 08:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by jdstlkr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could either explain youself from the heart fully is one
option, the other, if you truly have had problems with thisgroup
before and feel god is telling you to cut your losses and move
on, maybe choose the move on option.
2007-11-20 07:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously isnt that good friend if she can't realize you were just trying to help her. why would she want a guy like if he is just gonna play her. tell her you jsut had her best interest in mind and if she can't understand that get new friends.
2007-11-20 07:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a personal prob lol..
2007-11-20 07:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Christle DeTurris<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, what did you do! i'm your best friend's BF and you helped me break up with her! i loved her!
just kidding! =P
2007-11-20 07:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch them and make new friends, you deserve better xx
2007-11-20 07:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋