Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

this guy seems to like me (he touches me alot- hes put his arm around me and always seems happy when im around and talks to me quite alot at times...)

He has my cell phone number and never texts me !!!

when i text him back he says short answers most of the time and then just stops texting me !

But once i called him a clever girl (inside joke) and he didnt text back..... then the next day at school he said to me 'ur weird Hayley u called me a girl'

whats going on and what should i do, i dnt text him that often...

and in my country its 10 buks a month for 2000 texts... and EVERYONE does it !

2007-11-23 09:09:04 · 3 answers · asked by La P 1 in Singles & Dating

I know my friend's parents who were married 40 years plus, and then died within years of each other.

Their son and daughter eventually got married, and both got divorced.

Why is it that this generation can't hold a marriage. And I find it funny why this son and daughter got divorced, because they usually say if a parent's marriage lasted so will their future generations? Can anyone prove me wrong or right?

2007-11-23 09:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family

I know my friend's parents who were married 40 years plus, and then died within years of each other.

Their son and daughter eventually got married, and both got divorced.

Why is it that this generation can't hold a marriage. And I find it funny why this son and daughter got divorced, because they usually say if a parent's marriage lasted so will their future generations? Can anyone prove me wrong or right?

2007-11-23 09:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was divorced before my son was born and now I started dating again. I am with someone whom mihgt be my long term partner right now, so it is time to introduce him to my son. Ideally, my son had a bio father who loves him very much, and a step father who is a great friend and good influence to him. I seem to be relaxed about the relationship between my son and my ex, and I know I need work on the relationship between my son and the potential step father. I am not sure how to do it. Any advise?

2007-11-23 09:00:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's not the only thing that matters, but I REALLY enjoy it...i just want too know everyone out look on it??

2007-11-23 08:57:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The longest I've been in one was 6 years.

2007-11-23 08:57:06 · 3 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Singles & Dating

Also, please consider the fact my father is in a nursing home recovering from a stroke and has limited mobility.

2007-11-23 08:56:19 · 5 answers · asked by Cookie777 6 in Weddings

i have been with the same woman for 7 years now and all of a sudden i have lusting after other women. I have never cheated on her and never would its just like i want to see them naked. I have never hinted at this to anyone its just how i feel inside. Its driving me insane please help. I need this to stop

2007-11-23 08:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by jasen s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex hadn't seen our son since Sept. He lives 4 hrs away. Mon. night I got a text from him saying that he was at his parents & I could bring our son over on Tues. So I took him over there at 5:45 Tues evening. I packed our son enough clothes to stay til Sun. Our divorce agreement states that he gets him Tues. at 6 til Sun. at 6. Yesterday he sends me a text about 6 asking where I want to meet to pick up our son. I told him this was his week & I would pick him up Sun. He says he has to leave & he guesses he will just let our son stay w/his parents since I don't "want him". The thing of it is...I always want our son..& I always have him...I am the one that takes care of him all the time. It seemed to me like he didn't want him & neither did his parents. I feel like they should spend time w/him b/c he misses his dad & loves seeing him. Am I wrong for doing that b/c now I'm thinking about just going&getting him. I just thought that they should share some responsibilities.

2007-11-23 08:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

tell her I don't want to stay in a sleepover in her house!


without hurting her feelings!!

2007-11-23 08:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

one of which cannot be found despite reasonable efforts to find them. how will the estate be devided? Can the executor of the will decide to put the fourth share in the bank , in case he eventually turns up? Or must the estate be devided among the three children who can be found. There is no wife in this scenario. Thanks

2007-11-23 08:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My page is blocked but you can still see my picture here

www.myspace.com/meggie_megs07

Would you say I was pretty, alright, ugly or what? I"m just curious.

Thanks!!

2007-11-23 08:48:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a beautiful woman as well as she is with me. We like everything the same as each other esp christmas our fav season. her husband hates it, claims its a suicidal season. He does not help her with anything, laundry, dishes, cleaning, cooking, bathing the kids, dressing them, he wont even go outside and play with his 4 yr old son... excuse " I work all week I want to relax on the W/E. He expects her to drop what she is doing whenever, wherever, and whoever is there, and give him sex whenever he feels like it which basically 24/7. If she refuses he gets in a mad about it.. ex. he has called her a whore b/c she refused, he has hit her, choked her for refusing. this is no lie I have had to throw him off her b/c of his anger problem his whole fam has ADHD and bi-polar disorder. He has a VERY VERY short temper.. He has litterly beaten his son for having too much fun as he says.. there is so much i could say just not enough room there is more you need to hear.. will you listen?

2007-11-23 08:47:25 · 14 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and she sends you this song:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=2PWfB4lurT4&feature=related

Can you take that as a confession that she likes you back??

2007-11-23 08:47:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy. i think he likes me but i really can't open up. it's hard for me to be comfortable around new people. like i can talk causally but i really want to get to know him. i just want to relax and be myself around him. thoughts?

2007-11-23 08:46:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend keeps correcting me. and saying everything i type( im with her right now) SHES ANNOYING AND WONT SHUT THE HECK UP!

and im seriouse she's annoying and im getting MAD as ______!

2007-11-23 08:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

whats up with blondes??
like seriously.
i like this guy but he likes blondes.
im prettier than some of them but it dont matter.

2007-11-23 08:44:41 · 24 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

No matter what I do, my family always makes me feel like a screw-up.

I'm 19 years old. I quit college because I decided it wasn't for me. I thought that I was wasting time and money because I didn't want to be there.

I have a good job, my salary is $25k a year with full benefits and a lot of room for advancement. When I decide I'm ready for college, I will recieve full tuition reimbursement.
I bought myself a new car. I help my mother pay her bills.

But no matter what, they always act like I should be doing better.

My sister is a drug addict and when I bring that point up, like if I say, "Well at least I don't do drugs..." it's not good enough.

I've actually considered going into the military to make them think better of me.


What else can I do?

2007-11-23 08:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is a really difficult question but one of my girl friends said in a joke that I better watch out because someone might try to take my husband. I started thinking about what she said and now I'm a little worried. He's really very handsome and masculine and he's been away from me since August in Infantry Training. I will get to see him again early next year and plan to introduce him to his newborn son. I met him when we were both 13 and we became friends. We started dating a few years later and over the years he did occasionally date other girls but always came back to me. I have a great figure but I'm not that pretty. I used to smile at him when he went out with someone else and say it was ok but inside I was crying that I would lose him. Usually he would e mail me or call me on my cell phone after a date and say "hi special girl". Then I would respond with what's up "puppy boy" and he would say "nothing is up because I miss you".That innuendo let me know he still liked me

2007-11-23 08:42:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you do when you like this guy and this guy likes you but you never know when he's dating this chick adn you really like him but your both afriad to speak up adn say somthing?
WHAT DO I DO????!!!!!!!!

2007-11-23 08:40:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 08:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About three months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. I feel like I’m ready to move on now, but I have become self conscious about my ceramic braces that I have had for about a year now. When I was with him, I didn’t notice I even had them, but now, I feel soooo self conscious. I’m 24 years old, and I was with him for a year and four months. Any advice? I especially get self conscious on dates, it’s a horrible feeling. I’ve always been really confident, and I have been told my braces are really cute, but I can’t shake the feeling.

2007-11-23 08:38:26 · 3 answers · asked by Lenka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom and dad are of the old school. Their culture (which I believe is behind 1000's of years behind but which I respect) dictates that if you bring home a girl/guy that it means you are serious with the person or bringing them home to be introduced to mom or dad as a precursor to marriage. So, hence we 4 kids in our late 30's are never allowed to bring anyone home unless for potential marriage.
Note: We kids respect our parents culture, however we are born here in America and go with the flow.
Example: My brother's girlfriend (who he will not marry) invited my family over to her home for Thanksgiving Dinner, but mom and dad refused to go because they are not serious, or considering marriage. My mother even told the girl kindly that it is her culture and explained it to her without offense.

So, what is your thoughts?

2007-11-23 08:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were together for almost three years and he wont talk to me at all what can i do to get him to talk to me

2007-11-23 08:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by babe88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man is suing his wife for divorce on the grounds of infidelity. Their first child and second child, whom they both claim, are blood groups O and AB respectively. The third child, whom the man disclaims, is blood type B. Can this information be used to support the man’s case? Why?

2007-11-23 08:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi... hey actualy im a businessman at 18, im very serious on my future, my ideology etc... im dead serious, as in my level of understanding isn't 18, yah i believe i can achieve my dreams at a early age.... here's the situation i was at school, i got disappointed of almost all of my friends cause they dont tend to support me on my venture, because on what the so called why im such on a hurry?!!!!, duh? elstupidos!, anyways so i detached my self from my friends, yet i noticed somone.. a girl seems strange.. yah so i heard she was a *****, she a drug a addict! everthing that a disturbed person has..... so what i did was this, i approached her, and later on i tried so know her really to her truest nature and i changed her, and made her understand there more things to life than just hanging on the past, and yup she changed unto the point she now 1ciagarete a day. now she's in love with me she cant let me go! and me also im kinda in love with her too

2007-11-23 08:26:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of a woman in the mid 20s early 30s range.

Once you are married, how many times a week do you see yourself wanting to have sex?

Do women ever want sex 4-5 times a week? Do brides want it much less than their husbands? Or would you want to have sex as often as possible with him? What's your ideal range?

2007-11-23 08:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Marriage & Divorce

...with a YOUNGER MAN ? This man who is 32, Im gonna be 49, REALLY adores me, and I him, but can this be a good thing ? Can anyone out there tell me their REAL LIFE stories about their older woman-younger man issues ? I askd him why he doesnt find a young thing that can give him kids, he swears he loves older women, and thats it. I believe him. But I dont want this to be a sex thing only...what happens if I get stuck on this guy ?What do you say ?

2007-11-23 08:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by kimmy3 3 in Singles & Dating

And why is the grass always greener on the other side?
How do you make a decision when the choice is very clouded?

2007-11-23 08:21:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And you can do it if you BaQ it any good?

2007-11-23 08:20:17 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships