Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

I'm 13. I am too young to be thinking about sex, i know. i'm not planning on having sex anytime soon.
But, when i'm in my older teens, and when i'm not married, i already know i will probably lost my virginity.
But, i want too, but dont want to because i know God doesn't approve of this.
can someone tell me something to convince me that i shouldnt have sex before marriage?
tell me your opinions on sex before marriage.

T.M.

2007-11-23 10:43:44 · 9 answers · asked by T.M. 6 in Singles & Dating

My family just recently found out our house is being foreclosed.
We don't know where we're gonna live.
I'm a junior in high school with a 3.9 GPA, but no money to go to college.
I am basically raising my little brother.
I'm in love with my best friend, and it's a really screwed up friendship, because she's not sure if what she wants.
Whenever my friends make plans with me they back out last minute.
I'm in a "I don't care about anything" phase right now, just because I'm pissed about everything that's going on and I think it'll be easier to just forget about everything and live life alone.
I don't want to talk about any of this with my parents because they try so hard and none of this is really their fault.
Advice?

2007-11-23 10:39:46 · 26 answers · asked by ryansamuel 4 in Family

The guy I like is from korea...he just asked me what i thought of him (online) and i told him the truth...that i like him. he told me that he really likes me too, but he is worried about our "cultural differences" and he said that even though he really likes me he doesn't know how to express his mind in english....what do i write back??? i'm afraid that if i write that that is a stupid reason, i'll sound like i'm begging...and if i write that the only thing i was concerned about is the fact that i'm always too nervous to talk to him a lot, i'll sound like a wimp. PLEADSE HELP!!!!!!

2007-11-23 10:37:55 · 1 answers · asked by April 3 in Singles & Dating

Im just curious?? I know my bestfriend Corey use to visit his crushes page alot?
I use to visit my x boyfriends page alot and I just wanted to know if guys visited there crushes myspace page alot?

2007-11-23 10:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by Layuh May 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so im with my bf for 4yrs now. im sick at home, and he has gone out to a party he had planned weks ago. so he has gone to the party instead of been with me, he also hasn't even called to ask how i am, does he still love me?

2007-11-23 10:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by Dumbie 3 in Singles & Dating

He's in one of my classes..and he sits next to me.
He talks to practically everyone but me....I'm not sure if that's good or bad........but he's like the least shy person in school.
Anyways..sometimes he'll just randomly look back at me..and the other day he turned around and was holding his head up with his arm just looking at me...after about 10 seconds..I looked over at him..but he turned around reallyy quick....

I know I should talk to him..but I get really nervous..
I just wanna know if he might like me =D

Thanks

2007-11-23 10:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a teenager and My mom can't buy food intel she gets paid. I'm home right now on a Friday night with nothing to do. I feel like jumping off a clif. WHO invited money???!! curse them.

2007-11-23 10:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 16 yrs old male

i remember my past when i didnt knew meaning of porn it was so happy and nice life ppl liked me and i was cool

from last 2 yrs i been going on porn sites and now the addiction is too much my attitude and thoughts have changed in all fields

i want to stay off it but i just cant something happens to my brain and i just go to the sites and after 10 mins or so i than regret what i did and i dont want to talk to my family or any1 about it so i am posting it on yahoo

i also think its making me religiosly weaker and keeping me away from god which is why from past few months whatever i do i am not successfull

all i want is your help to stay off it by force or by changig my thoughts some1 please help before i turn into a devil soldier

its only the 10mins i cant control
i hope i will get help here rather than crtisizim and hatred

2007-11-23 10:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by Pace R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have braces..
i like this guy also
he likes me aswell
i really want to kiss him but i have braces
is it okay to french kiss him with braces
or will my braces turn him off?
adive please :)

2007-11-23 10:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...i love australia and i want to know a lot of people living there ,so i give you my e mail nassima_ock@hotmail.it.....i live in italy and my dream is to talk with someone from australia in order to improve my english and make acquaintance with you...i look forward to your answer...nassima...ah sorry i 4get im 17 years old...

2007-11-23 10:27:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well i love the guy im with now even though we have only been dating for about 2 months i dont want to be with anyone but him all the time! i melt in his arms and i hate it so much when we fight but hes getting me a huge ring for christmas and i dont no what to get me but his step mom already told me what ring it was and its an engadgment ring and im only 16 but i really wouldnt mind being with him for the rest of my life but i dont think my parents would like it what should i do!

2007-11-23 10:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Question 1. would you consider sleeping in a Funeral Home
next to a casket with a Deceased person while all the doors
and windows are locked and you get left inside sleeping next
to an open-casket ?

Question 2 - for $200 dollars would you stay the night in The
morque in with the bodys in the freezer for one whole night till
6am ?

2007-11-23 10:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's really got me very confused. He called me on the phone one day and said i really like you but things aren't working out. I dont understand... I thought things were fine. Im friends with his ex and she said he's never ever broke up with a girl for someone else or for a stupid reason so im confused. Did he maybe just think i didnt like him enough or something? Which doesnt make sense cuz i've tried to make plans with him fr the past couple of days but he was at th doctor's and with his mom. So how can he say i dont wanna have anything to do with him? Maybe it was because whenever he called i was busy and couldnt talk?

2007-11-23 10:25:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in college and I have been unoffically dating this guy for 7 months. We are really in love I even took his virginity. But the reason why I say unoffically is because our parents dont really know we're dating. Anyway we have met each others parents and stuff and my parents love him and vice versa. Well like I said he was a virgin cause he was raised to save hisself for marriage and just resently hia mother asked him is he still a virgin and he told her the truth. She now knows we date and are having sex. Thats not the problem, the problem is now she's pushing for grandkids!!! She claims she can feel we are to get married in the future and she's ready for grandkids now. We're in college we dont want kids right now and not saying we wont get married, we dont know.....but thats a huge commitment. We both have dreams and want careers. How should we handle this problem???

Thanks for your help

2007-11-23 10:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by smilez 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 10:24:39 · 33 answers · asked by H*R*M* 4 in Singles & Dating

im a girl ands tonight im going to a parade with my boyfriend. but im afraid to kiss him.(french or not) ive french kissed a guy before and he slobbered me-bad experience! any tips?

2007-11-23 10:23:43 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 10:23:27 · 4 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy goes from making out with you during one day, to just a simple peck on the lips the next date,
does this mean that he's losing interest in you?

2007-11-23 10:23:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone think i should change my wedding dress this is it
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/vendor/designer/larahelenebridalatelier/detail/142515/?offset=2&page=1

i love it but i also like these ones
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/vendor/designer/larahelenebridalatelier/detail/121050/?offset=24&page=3

http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/runway/designer/adelewechsler/detail/132164/?offset=22&page=3

please note im having a small wedding and i dont want a big dress!

2007-11-23 10:22:53 · 45 answers · asked by Confused 3 in Weddings

WAT KIND OF THINGS SHOULD I DO IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY HUSBAND???>>>........A QUESTION FROM AN ADVICE COLUMN

2007-11-23 10:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by Donika J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. I am 13 years old and 80 percent of the time treat my parents like trash. I tell them to go away, their embarasing me, or just am not very nice. Do parents (you) take it hard or get over it and realize we are just being normal teens.... thanks.

2007-11-23 10:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Emily xoxo 2 in Family

this guy i like picked me over any other girl to hangout wit. even the girl hes datin they werent dating at the time but they were talkin. i told him i liked him and he said he likes hanging out wit me. i asked him if i was wasting my time likin him and he said he dont know, just not rite now. what should i do i love him!!
we use to like each other but then we just stopped talkin.he was my first kiss and when i look in the future all i see is him!
what all this mean? are we ever gunna get together
and the only reason he told me to date the other guy is b/c hes dating her rite now!. he always thought i stopped likin him along time ago and liked this other guy now! but i finally told him i liked him and it was too late b/c now him and that other girl are dating but do yall think he could be dating me instead?

2007-11-23 10:19:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i am 17 years old and going througha a difficult and stress fujll time in my life...college serch and all that fun senior stuff.

My mother has not spoken to me in 2 years 4 months and 28 days

You have no idea how painful this is for someone my age to have gone and go through everyday. I have tried writing her a letter apoligizeing for all the wrong i have done, givven her presents and she has just thrown them out.. she sees me c rying and it does not faze her. I have tried so much...and honestly i dont think i can go on lliving anymore. I cant deal with this..i love her more than anything in the world..and she will not speak to me.
Please anyone with any advice...you have no idea how muich it would mean to me if you could help me.
thank you for even taking the time to read this.

A lonely heart <3

2007-11-23 10:19:34 · 16 answers · asked by green and blue knight 3 in Family

I know not just attractiveness but personality wise what makes you notice someone?

2007-11-23 10:18:30 · 32 answers · asked by foralleternityxx 2 in Singles & Dating

LOok im the type of gurl that s not the gold digger, looking for money and material things from guys, but i alwayz end up with losers who have no sort of future.
Is it time for me to start being more selective and put myself up on a pedistal saying "your not good enough for me? n look down on guys

My current ex manz is broke, an ex felon did 8 years in and out the Penitentary, gets fired from his job all the time, lives at home in the living room of his mothers house in the housing projects in the g , two kids by two differnet babys mothers, drug deals on the corner some time, no car, i met him 6 months ago , he still hasnt moved up in life or anything.

My ex mans of 3 years lives at home with his moms, drives a old car, has sort of a job, has a babys mom and a son, he s the same place i met him in his life 3 years ago he hasnt moved up the lader and he's not hard working go getter typ

2007-11-23 10:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by ErOtIC DeSiReS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone thinks im a cute cause im well not very tall more on the short side and everyone thinks of me as their friend!

2007-11-23 10:17:08 · 13 answers · asked by Cecelia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 10:16:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-23 10:16:03 · 37 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has decided that we shouldn't get each other birthday gifts because she may be spending more on my gift than I am on hers? And she may be getting me more gifts?

I told her not to spend too much...but she said she wanted to and then because I'm not able to spend that much at the time she says that she's not buying anything for me then?

What do you guys think about this?
I mean...that's just dumb to me. It's not about how much it's worth...sigh.

2007-11-23 10:16:03 · 23 answers · asked by JunkYardPuppy 2 in Singles & Dating

which was a secret.

2007-11-23 10:15:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating