2007-11-23 10:16:03 · 37 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well kids because your kids depend on you and trust you, and their smiles mean joyness to you they love you because you brought them into the world and they are very glad to have you with them to go through the hard times. and your husband he could or could not but im shure he loves u with all your heart
2007-11-23 10:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Xavier R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always argue with my husband about this, they are two completely different types of love in my opinion, you cant even compare the two. I think your spouse should come first and then your kids, you have to live with your spouse forever, your kids move on and find a spouse of thier own.
2007-11-23 10:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That question cannot be answered. No one can every know how much love one has for another. Most would says kids, however...your spouse can love you just as much, maybe more. They've been with you the longest, stuck through the good, the bad the ugly. Your kids have a different kind of love. So, you can be loved unconditionally by both, just in different ways.
2007-11-23 10:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel that it is my spouse because that is a complete choice. Your children may have a natural love and connection, but keep in mind that they would love anyone who fed them. Your spouse has to make a choice. I can't say if your spouse loves you, but it is so much more to have the love of someone who gives you there heart because they chose you and you them. Your children love you alot I'm sure, but like I said, they would love anyone who cared for them.
2007-11-23 10:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by mbl75051 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a different type of love when it comes to spouse and kids. So there is no real way to know the answer to this one
2007-11-23 10:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by jstchel 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My kids love me, but NOBODY loves me like my husband. We have been married 46 years and have seen each other through all the good and bad times. No one would put up with me like he does. I'm crazy about him!
2007-11-23 10:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cat Lady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What came 1st the chicken or the egg?
This is a ridiculous question , your kid's love you more because they came from you , it's a no brainer.
It's just a pity some mother's who dont deserve to be mother's seem to think their spouse come 's before their kid's and his need's are met before the children's are.These women shouldnt reproduce.
2007-11-23 10:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Kids have an unconditional love that an adult can't give.
Both loves are completely different.
The love of a spouse is to protect you and love you.
The love of a child is knowing you will protect them and love them NO MATTER what they do... . where as a love of a spouse 'may' change if he cheats, drinks, beats you...
just different.
2007-11-23 10:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Kelly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My kids, they are insanely jealous of any quality time i spend with my husband and they think they must be with me 24/7 and it can get to monotonous... but i love my husband and i love my kids equally... I am crazy in love with them all and it makes me feel good to know that everyone loves me for me...
2007-11-23 11:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe there';s an answer for this one...All people love differently,& in families there are different types & levels of love...
2007-11-23 10:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋