i am 16 yrs old male
i remember my past when i didnt knew meaning of porn it was so happy and nice life ppl liked me and i was cool
from last 2 yrs i been going on porn sites and now the addiction is too much my attitude and thoughts have changed in all fields
i want to stay off it but i just cant something happens to my brain and i just go to the sites and after 10 mins or so i than regret what i did and i dont want to talk to my family or any1 about it so i am posting it on yahoo
i also think its making me religiosly weaker and keeping me away from god which is why from past few months whatever i do i am not successfull
all i want is your help to stay off it by force or by changig my thoughts some1 please help before i turn into a devil soldier
its only the 10mins i cant control
i hope i will get help here rather than crtisizim and hatred
2007-11-23 10:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by Pace R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for one thing did you pay alot for your computer have you ever heard of ETD your gonna give your computer something it cant get rid of also im a parent and from time to time i check whats been going on with the internet browsing you think you can hide it let me reassure you you cant now with that piece of information go to your parents for help it is natural for you to be curious but enuf is enuf if you are serious about your problem ask them to adjust the parental controls to restrict your internet access this is easily done also talk to your dad or mom about getting you a dirty mag to look at when you feel the need its alot cheaper than a new hard drive and a hustler mag wont steal your personal info i would suggest a thorough sweep of your computer those site will download viruses that will attach themselves to every exe. file on your computer have you ever felt like someone is watching you well guess what they are as far as god goes he is all knowing and all seeing so quit it get a grip and go to church but remember you are not abnormal just a little obssesed
2007-11-24 10:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some advice that helped someone else break the addiction, but it will take some will power and committment from you.
Take your computer and disconnect it.... then place it in another room... not in your room.
Next time you think you want to look at porn.... before you do, do two sets of 50 push ups. Then, if you still want to look, go get your computer and set it back up. When you are done, disconnect it again and put it back in the other room.
Do this for a week and see how you feel about porn after all this. If you actually stick to it and don't cheat... you will find you feel alot differently.
2007-11-23 10:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a book by Tommy Orlando and start meeting some real women. In my opinion, it's much more fun than porn.
If you really need help, http://www.xxxchurch.com may have some options for you. I don't agree with the way they do things, but it may have worked for some people. And I am sure there is a "porn anonymous" program out there. Doesn't sound like you really need this stuff though. Teenagers like naked chicks.
2007-11-24 18:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age no doubt it is tempting and anybody would have same feelings as you have. Porn sites are a menace spoiling the young minds. You must have strong will power and you are the only person to be decided and any amount of advise will not have any effect unless you put into practice.. You can definitely come out of it since you are feeling guilty. Better consult psychiatrist in this regard. Come out of it early otherwise you will be spoiling your future.
2007-11-23 19:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by sreenivasa m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have a sexual addiction and need to seek professional help. You are 16 with raging hormones so looking at naked women is nothing new to the world of boys becoming men. However, if this is bothering you as much as you say it is, then go talk to your doctor or pastor (or priest) and get into therapy. The problem is you do need to talk to someone.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 10:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by dstluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some major issues with this. Maybe best that you take a break from the computer for a while. Or leave the door open and let people watch you when you use it.
Agree http://www.xxxchurch.com may be a good idea.
2007-11-24 20:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had EXACTLY the same problem and i got off by trying to think of 'non-pervy' things when i wanted to go on porn and, blocking explict material content wherever possible on the internet. Just try and do more 'other' stuff to steer your mind out of the gutter and eventally you'll find that you no longer feel the need to go on it or be as much as a perv.
2007-11-23 10:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by nihonzit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant really hep you on that... But just have faith man. Pray about it. And try your DAMNEST!! Habits are hard to break, especially ones like that. It will take alot of self control, and ALOT of determination. But if the will-power is there. You can do it
2007-11-23 10:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by psychedchicken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a support group.. believe it or not, they can be really helpful Any kind of group for control issues would be helpful.
2007-11-23 10:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off and stay off of the computer. Go outside and enjoy life.
PS There are girls out there!
2007-11-23 10:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋