Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

my boyfriend and i we have been together for 3 years and he never says he loves me! at the beggining he did it all the time, but we had so many problems and our relationship almost ended up!!!! we managed and got better, now we are so much better but still he doesnt say he loves me... he has said it in a few times( in a bracelet he customized for me for valentines day, and in a greating card) but not in a normal day life like any couples! so that makes me wonder!!! he always says how much he cares for me and that i am the most important person for him... and defenitely he shows me he cares in many ways,but i still wonder why he doesnt say it!

2007-11-23 11:24:43 · 3 answers · asked by edie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 11:22:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we live together, thinking of possibilities of even getting married. Problem is, while I was on holiday visiting my parents, he had a one-night stand with his colleague at our house, in his bed. I have been devastated ever since and cannot forgive nor forget what he has done.
But I do also have a feeling that I want to try to forgive him once because I really do like him and feel I may not meet anyone I can like again because it takes me a long time to feel like that about someone. My last relationship lasted 4 years and it took 4 years just to get over that one. I had boyfriends after that but never found anyone that was better than him... People say once a cheater, always a cheater and I am afraid of trusting him again. He says it was a mistake and it will never happen again and listens to whatever I say now, but I am just so scared, both to trust him and to lose him. Very confused, it is pathetic...

2007-11-23 11:22:51 · 37 answers · asked by Princess Marianna 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone, meet Linz. A very gifted person with the english language and a person who makes me feel at home here on Y!A.

Linz,
This one is for you kid! (but you have to say it like Bogie in Casablanca). Thanks for reconnecting with me and I am glad YOU are back.

Go USC (Hey, I had to get my plug in somehow).

Linz is a Buckeyes fan like some of you. I will let you discover who "they" are. LOL!

Semper Fi to all!

Gerry :)))

2007-11-23 11:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by Gerry 7 in Friends

do u find me attractive?

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2007-11-23 11:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by jojo 3 in Singles & Dating

My temporary restraning order was granted!!! When I go for my court date to see how long it will be in effect, do I have to prove my case or it is it usually a given. I'm concerned my my sweet talken jerk of a husband is going to come in and think he can sweet talk the judge into thinking I'm a lier and drop the charges.

2007-11-23 11:19:58 · 2 answers · asked by strgmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl & I split after 1-1/2 years (Long D relationship). We decided neither person was moving, & we both knew something had to change. She wanted to keep in touch, I said no, I need to go on & get over you. Well a week later I sent an email saying "was thinking, if you DO wanna call sometime, feel free. Would love to get our hands on each other if we are single in the future" (we were each other BEST lovers. NO DOUBTING IT.). Well I get a "cash in request" in email on my "sex" offer a WEEK later. But the email was "sexually" descriptive. No "miss U" or anything like that. I waited a week, & replied, and she called me IMMEDIETLY. I waited almost a week to return the call (teasing her) & said I was too busy (honestly, I wasnt over her, & was thinking WAY future, not 2 weeks after the split)! So I finally say "no". Too soon, and too many complications. Do you think it was really just "sex", or that she was using that as an indirect way to see me again? Or is it JUST sex (no word since)?

2007-11-23 11:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... so ONE prob I have is that the guess wanna third the bill which is FINE! but! they have personal refrigerators on aside that we have a big one in the kitchen. I had one before we has to start paying PGE by ourself and I decided to remove mines being that I knew it would consume a lot of energy. I told them this fact and they decided to keep theirs, which is fine but they are not willing to put in their third plus a little extra; 5 dollars for their Mini fridge. do you think I'm wrong for asking them to pay extra and/or what should I do? Remind you... the bill is under my name! Thanks in advance!

2007-11-23 11:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by HyPhY c0llege GurL 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going on a second date tonight with this guy. The first date we just did a little lunch at a cheap place and he paid for me even though i offered. Well we are going to dinner and a movie tonight. I am still in college about to graduate this year and he is out of school and has a good job. Should I let him pay for both things? Should I try to offer money? What would you do??

2007-11-23 11:11:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father, my best friend, died last January. It still seems like yesterday that it happened. I feel such an emptiness inside and miss him more than I can explain. Never to hear his jokes, see him carve the turkey on the holidays, and the empty seat at the table is just too hard. Have any of you found a way to help in the healing process over the holidays?I used to love the holiday season, now I dread it and the rest of the family doesn't seem to be having a hard time with it.

2007-11-23 11:10:25 · 23 answers · asked by heartwhisperer2000 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok yesturday my dad tells me that he has a 4 1/2 year old kid with this home wreacker crack whore ****. He lied to me for 4 years how mad would you be!!!

2007-11-23 11:10:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am in 7'th grade, 13 years old and at our school kissing is the biggest rule you can break besides fighting. On Friday me and my bf were practically making out in the hallway. A popular girl turned the corner and saw. She stared opened mouthed. I am scared everyone will find out. If they do find out and I don't get in trouble is that bad??? It wasn't embarassing... just akward afterwards.

2007-11-23 11:10:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You cannot deny the truth that many religions allow it and I do not know any religion that allows a woman to have more husbands to their liking. Centuries pass by, but injustice and ridiculous laws and ways of life remain in tact.
Any remedy?

2007-11-23 11:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by Nimit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you want to live your life as a celebrity with all the girls and money?

would you want to be a famous athlete?

would you want to be in the Olympics and represent your nation and pride?

or would you die for the better cause of man?

is money fame and girls better than all this?

2007-11-23 11:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how much longer should I wait?

2007-11-23 11:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father, my best friend, died last January. It still seems like yesterday that it happened. I feel such an emptiness inside and miss him more than I can explain. Never to hear his jokes, see him carve the turkey on the holidays, and the empty seat at the table is just too hard. Have any of you found a way to help in the healing process over the holidays?I used to love the holiday season, now I dread it and the rest of the family doesn't seem to be having a hard time with it.

2007-11-23 11:05:00 · 8 answers · asked by heartwhisperer2000 5 in Family

2007-11-23 11:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by bosox.girl23 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14, 20 years ago my dad had an affair..he was 30 and the girl was 17 i only found this out tonight...(23-11-07) my brother was already around when this happened...im confused and annoyed with my mum and brother because they didnt tell me.
my dad has never been interested in my school work or if i have problems at school. tbh i dont feel like hes my real dad even though i no he is. Please sum1 help me....ive also just lost a best friend we were so close then she just started ignoring me...shes already been through something like this before except her situation was worse i could REALLY do with her now. x

2007-11-23 11:01:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom is well a mom & likes to protect me.
On the other hand my dad let's me go anywhere.
I always ask my mom if i can go to my friends house.
"NO!" because she doesn't know the parents.
& i tell her that she can talk to them on the phone or
meet them when i get there.
STILL A NO!
I've talked to her but, nothing.
i need some advice to help me.
All my friends go out & invite me
but i can never ever go.
HELP?

2007-11-23 10:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So please tell me easier to do it on your own without a lawyer, filing out your own paper work or get a second job it's worth the money?

2007-11-23 10:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by strgmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been in a relationship for a little over two months with this guy. i really like him and he really likes me and all but everytime he trys hugging me or kissing me i push him away.i dont really know why i just do it without thinking and realizing until he points it out. what may be the reason for this happening??

2007-11-23 10:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by l3l31801 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 10:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by oooooolala! 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

alright so i am talking to this guy i like online.
what are some things i can say to keep the convo going?
like sometimes it just dies. and its like ok whatever. now what?
so what are some things i can ask/say.

2007-11-23 10:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by Criss 3 in Singles & Dating

Do I have the right to be pissed off that my future in-laws are too overbearing? Amongst other things which have occured, this evening I'm sitting along because my 25 year old fiance has to wait for his 20 year old sister to come home before mid-night while the parents are out. He said he doesn't want to hear it that he's already confronted his parents about it. I don't get it, once we're married next year am I supposed to be ok with him going home to watch his "baby" sister?????? Uggghhhh!!!! His parents say its not right for his 20 year old sister to be alone at night...is there something wrong with me that I don't understand this?

2007-11-23 10:50:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm wondering how many men will date a girl and try to sleep with her in order to judge whether or not she is worthy of another date? What I mean is, do you hope she wont sleep with you because that will make her more respectable in your eyes, and if she does, you just toss her aside? If so, why do you think this is okay?

2007-11-23 10:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Actually I asked her to leave after I caught her cheating on me. I still love her and have been reading self-help books to try to make myself more attractive to her. Sometimes she's super warm towards me and we even have sex. Other times she cannot stand me because she finds that I talk to other women occasionally. She still tells me how attracted she is to me but won't come back. My four little girls tell me that she tells them that Mommy and Daddy will never live together again. I tell the little ones to pray for our family to heal. At what point do I let go and quit trying?

2007-11-23 10:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 19 and my long term boyfriend and i have been having some problems lately. but we're working through it. so I told my mom one day just because i thought that shed be a good person for advice...what does she do, breaks down and cries and starts questioning me every 2 seconds "do you really think he loves you?" whenever I talk to her, its only about my boyfriend! and shes beeing going through my phone and trying to go on my facebook to find stuff out. and at night she cries and stuff. its been like this all week. im on the one whos going through the problem and I feel like I have to helo her through it! its crazy...I have never seen a mother this obsessed with a relationship. whenever im on the phone with him she wishpers to me what to say to him and she gets all mad if i walk away or just ignore her. then she tells me we're going to break up because I wont say what she wants me to say...shes always been crazy but it seems the older i get, the worse it gets. help!

2007-11-23 10:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad's been sober a month. He was sober for 4 years before this year because my grandpa died the day after my older half brother's 12th death anniversary who died of leukemia at 28. My dad kept on drinking after my grandpa died even though it was my maternal grandpa he was close to him but my paternal grandpa's still alive. And if my dad ask my mom to pick up a 12pack of Michelob, she doesit. My mom's never drank but a half of bottle of beer and a few glasses of wine in her life. She hasn't drank in 25 years. She buys it because my dad gets mad if she doesn't. My dad drinks up to 5-6 beers a nite sometimes just 2-4. It aggrivates me cuz if I ask him not to, he says, " Why don't we just perfect the world to your liking." In a snobby mean way. It makes me hurt because he's a great man and he's Christian and he just drinks sometimes. Now he's drinking a coke. But sometimes he'll get drunk and act crazy and wierd. Please help!!! Thanks?!><>

2007-11-23 10:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

now that my wife's estate is being settled, her twin says she should get half of my sister's estate because they were twins. Could this be true?

2007-11-23 10:45:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had to get a temporary restraining order against my husband, for Domestic Violence...Verbal abuse. My court hearing is coming up in 2 weeks. I have a 9 month old son whom is also on the protected order from his father. Does anyone know what I can expect, I have no money, I tried speaking to a lawyer and they charged me $100 dollars for a bunch of lawyer talk that didn't help much just to explain my case, then for them to help me for one court visit it would be $5,000. I know I have to do it on my own how can I prepare myself to ensure to keep my husband away from my son and I and to ensure I get granted custody???? Help anyone???

2007-11-23 10:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by strgmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce