My mom is well a mom & likes to protect me.
On the other hand my dad let's me go anywhere.
I always ask my mom if i can go to my friends house.
"NO!" because she doesn't know the parents.
& i tell her that she can talk to them on the phone or
meet them when i get there.
STILL A NO!
I've talked to her but, nothing.
i need some advice to help me.
All my friends go out & invite me
but i can never ever go.
HELP?
2007-11-23 10:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom has met one of my friends.
When she picked me up from school, she wanted to meet my mom.
My mom said "hi" in a friendly way & that was it.
But she knows that my friend isn't crazy but most of my friends think that she doesn't trust me.
I might think the same.
do you think i should sit down with her & talk? get back to me A.S.A.P
2007-11-24 10:46:01 · update #1
Have your friends come to YOUR house so she can meet them and have her parents to come in and meet her.
ANY parent who lets their 14 yr old go anywhere with anyone they want to go with is an idiot.Many times 14 yr olds see things as they fantasize them to be not as they really are, this is why they need parents to look out for them.At least you have one good parent, your mother.
2007-11-23 11:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
one specail thing you have in life is a mum, she loves you more than anything in the world , she knows whats right and wrong for you. she doesnt hate you or your friends , she simply knows what happens when 14year olds go out alone.
am not old myself (17 years old ) but ive seen things in a different way, mum told me someting once when i was 14 and i thought naaa shes only tryna keep me away from my friends but someting happend when i was out with my friends and thank god it wasnt someting serious , so listen to mummy ,
most parents like too meeet your friend and their parents and they will tell you if you are playin with the wrong group ,
so be wise and mummy loves yaa!
2007-11-23 11:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by RaS Vybz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to show her that you can handle that responsibility of going out by yourself. Introduce your friends to you parents, if you have weird looking friends, then that's going to be a little harder. Talk about what you guys plan on doing at your friends house.
2007-11-23 11:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by adioposer63 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go or ask your dad then he says yes then go.
Your mommy has been watching too much TV, which tends to brainwash and make her paranoid.
There is always the risk that something will happen to you but even a greater possibility that nothing will happen to you.
So thank your mommy for ruining your life. At least nothing bad will happen to you.
2007-11-23 11:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Arrange for your Mom to meet some of your friend's moms and they can meet, know each other and soon your Mom will be fine; it is the not knowing who they are that she has issues with.
2007-11-23 11:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you are 14. Maybe if you were 17...
-Sorry.
2007-11-23 11:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you,
you have a good mum!
Simple truth is, is that she is responsible for you until you are an adult. She is doing a good job.
2007-11-23 11:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋