Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

There's this boy I really like, and somehow his friend got to know about me liking him. Somehow other people started saying that I like this other guy, just because I hang out more often with him. Now he knows..so..How do I tell him that all those stuff isn't true and that i like him?

2007-11-23 12:10:53 · 20 answers · asked by Isobelle C 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating 11 months. This week, I discovered that he no longer has a job. The day after I found out, I confronted him. He told me he quit over four months ago! He also said he was planning on telling me this weekend...I don't know if I believe that!

I couldn't believe what he was telling me! I knew he hated his job, I wouldn't have cared if he quit. The fact is he didn't tell me. Plus, what has he been doing for four months? I know he did tell me about job interviews he was going on.

For the last four months he has been telling me he was at work. During the day we email each other and he lend me to believe he was at work. We don't live together, but when we would go out at night he would bring his suit with in the car to make me think he came from work.

What do I do? How do I ever trust him again?

2007-11-23 12:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by AKM 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to the mall. i noticed that guys focused on white blonde girls, even ok-looking, while gorgeous ethnic girls were ignored. this indian girl was soooooo beautiful...i would kill for her looks....but she was ignored too. why?

2007-11-23 12:10:41 · 14 answers · asked by urox555 2 in Singles & Dating

been feeling hopeless, he goes off on me every other day, how do I get myself out of this depression. I have to stay married because I can't take care of myself and I love him and he loves me, its just that he suffered awful abuse when he was a child, subsequent adult behaviour, etc. Its either stay married to him or go into adult foster care and I have already given up half of my social security to marry him. We have just bought a trailer together. I have got to make my marriage work, how do I bounce back ?

2007-11-23 12:10:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so I have twin girls 2years old
when i gave birth the babies father wasnt there so they got my last name since there he provides all the money part he does not live with us he live in a different state 2 hours from here everything was going ok but i told him that we can be friends nothing else because im done with him now he said to me that he want the babies to carry his last name which I dont have problem with they have the rite to carry his last name. but now his telling me that he will take my doughters away from me ? I have no mental problems i dont do drugs there is no men in my house i took care of my kids from day 1 bymyself n is not easy with twins they got all their medical records up to date they are very acive and im the mother of course i want my babies to stay with me his lawyer called me to ask for the ssn because the have to pass a DNA test before he changes the last name n he is telling me that he will take them away from me can he really do this ??

2007-11-23 12:09:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as i've asked in my another questions, what do i do.
once i didn't talk to him.
& he pinned me down and tried to make me, he was saying why wont you talk, what the +++ did i do, and all things like that.
and last night i was walking down the street & like 15 guys were yelling i'm hot and stuff, now he doesnt even want me up the street.

and last night i was on the phone to him, and i feel asleep, and i woke up with all these messages going, why wont you talk to me.
thanks for ignoring me, means alot.
and all this stuff, oh..
and whenever i want to go out, he lies about us making plan and said i thought we were doing somthing, and makes me feel really bad.


i'm so confussed.
should i stay with him to help him get over his mental problem?
or leave him.. and see him hurt..

2007-11-23 12:07:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He just told me he wants to separate because I am foo wonderful in terms of talent. I have a great carrer, and nothing he has negative feeling toward me.
Actually, I don't understand why the guys in general feel this.
However, he wants me to be a friend as if in the past.
Please tell me if you had those kind of experience & how to prevent from separating...

2007-11-23 12:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by priscillazoff 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm having special feelings for this lady who goes to the same university as me. I talk and hang out with her. She's 19, how can guys tell that if a girl like him

2007-11-23 12:05:54 · 22 answers · asked by wertyu 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 12:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It`s happend again in my mariage, I love the other man.He is youner than me, hundsome and he isnot mariage yet. And he love me so much. Almost every night we have a contact. But WJust talk and tell what we feel.

2007-11-23 12:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by riva n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

here's the conversation and should I stay friends if I should move on

James Says: ok before you go thoooo, so i should move on from you ye?

Emily says: lol

James Says: nooo its beter to no honest !

Emily says: i duno what to say

Emily says: lol

James Says: well no or yes

James Says: or, we'll see what happens

Emily says: keep your options open

Emily says: thats my advice :)

Emily says: lol

James Says: so no lol

James Says: well atleast u let me no, coz i can move on to someone else as long as u want that ;) jks

Emily says: lolll

Emily says: righty ooooh

Emily says: lol

Emily says: (i sound like my nan)

Emily says: yeah

Emily says: im goin bed

Emily says: lol

Emily says: night night :) xxx

james Says: ok :) well let me no a proper answer tomoro?

Emily says: oooookkkkkkk

Emily says: night xx

2007-11-23 12:00:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find it a little intimidating and as though I'm not "experienced" enough. I'm at 8. What if she is proud of all them and still thinks about them and it turns her on?

2007-11-23 12:00:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For example, I'm a Scorpio and according to the astrology, Cancer and Pisces would be most suitable for me. The two guys that I dated that were each a Cancer and Pisces proved to be the ones I had the strongest feelings for, but we didn't last. Now I'm with my husband who is a Tauras--and the one not recommended for me according to the astrology. We are different, sex is great, but the emotions I feel for him are not as powerful.

What has been your experience?

2007-11-23 12:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Not seriously dating a guy.

We had an accident.

I am pregnant.

We haven't talked much. We haven't seen each other since the announcement.

Is this it forever or is there a small chance we'll be at least friends.

i am two months. i told him October 14th i was pregnant. i saw him twice (once was to drive me to the abortion clinic & once was for a quickie that i called for...)

2007-11-23 11:59:29 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do peaple when your talking to them allways are distracted

2007-11-23 11:57:35 · 20 answers · asked by shotgun 2 in Singles & Dating

The movies that girls go crazy over. Do you think these movies make guys too good to be true, or do you think it portrays you in most ways when you are in love with someone?

2007-11-23 11:53:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a lott. and he dosent even talk to me anymore. we broke up about a month ago and he said he wanted to be friends, but he just ignores me on myspace and aim and thinks i hate him? wtf. and then on his myspace he puts up pictures of him and his little slu* that he claims to be "just friends" with, but i'm thinking she was the reason for our breakup. because theres no other reason i could think of. (she hates me).
but anyways, we dont have any classes together (my ex and i)
so we don't talk...at all. but i miss him a lot. what do i do? just forget about him?

2007-11-23 11:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering

2007-11-23 11:47:57 · 9 answers · asked by A$herette 2 in Singles & Dating

I love to shop and spend money, but I am also fiesty. I'm 26, and I want a man (not a boy) who is older than I am but is also my type. Why can't I find someone who can handle or "put up" with me.

2007-11-23 11:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hes funny ,cute, and just amazing but i dont know how hell react if i do ..................HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-23 11:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see that there are but don't know if they are taken or not? I try to but they are busy doing something?

2007-11-23 11:44:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

take a litlle time to read below

we are going trough a distance relationship and overall, it has been great...but now with all the school work i have to do i find myself little time to dedicate to her....and she needs constant attention from me now....she says she loves me very much and that she doesn't want to loose me, i already told her to relax and that she doesn't have to think about that because its not going to happen, but it doesn't changes anything.........however she tried to change a few days ago....giving me a break so to speak...only to discover 2 days after she can't handle and needs attention from me....

she didn't needed this much attention one year ago, why do girls feeld this way?

2007-11-23 11:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my x husband refuses to let my child come to visit me well hse is 12 and i think she might want to come and live with me. can i do this for free???i mean get custody of her.

2007-11-23 11:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by JENN-JENN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im miserable with my boyfriend, we've been going out for 4 months now but we've been out before. We also used to be really tight friends but lately hes become really distant. I didn't see him for a whole month and we barely talked once a week. He also didn't show any affection, like holding my hand or kissing me. I started to get really miserable and tried to end it but he sweet talked me back into it and said he would never hurt me again, but another weeks passed and ive only seen him once and hes never spoke to me on msn or text. So tonight i texted him a long text apoligising and saying that I can't be in this relationship anymore. Did I do the right thing?

2007-11-23 11:34:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for over 8 months now. he is jewish and i dont have a religion. i grew up in a baptist family though. his mom really does love me she says so, but will not allow me to be part of the family becasue iam not jewish...should i accept that and move on....or can we make it? i want to marry him and i know he loves me very much...but how can i explain to him that iam okay with us raising our children jewish and that i do want to marry him???

2007-11-23 11:34:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to buy for females at the bar?

The ones you dont know...yet.

2007-11-23 11:34:51 · 23 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 1 in Singles & Dating

We used to live together, because her mom was homeschooling me, but after about 5 months, it quit working, so i had to move out, me and my girlfriend are still together, but everytime we get on the phone, she has an excuse to get off the phone, like today, we hadnt talked all day and when we finally got to talk, she said she was watching a movie and didnt want to talk anymore.........but she says it's cause she is not a phone person. Am i taking this the wrong way, because i feel like she doesnt love me??? Or is it normal to not want to talk to the one you love on the phone? If your not a phone person? Please help, im going INSANE!!!

2007-11-23 11:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 11:31:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex has been nothing but nice to me but I have been very stand-offish to him. He tried talking to me for 2 months and getting me to hang out but I just needed space. I think he is returning the treatment back to me (Which i understand). We do not really talk in school. I broke up with him and we had an on/off relationship for 2 years. He has a big game coming up tomorrow afternoon and I want to send him a text tonight saying "Good luck tomorrow" but I dont know, would that be weird? We have texted eachother before as ex's and I have told him congratulations and he has said he saw me in the stands at the game and told me to say hi to my mom etc.. So yeah basically my question is would it be okay to text him good luck?

Sidenote: There's a girl that's interested in him and she follows him around sometimes at school.

2007-11-23 11:31:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Genaddt,
is an intelligent, caring, kind person. I anticipate that books we read will somehow cross - I also anticipate that I will learn quite a bit from her.

NCAA Football is a passion of mine here on Y!A; however, Ice Hockey was and always will be my first love. Genaddt played organized Hockey - I intend to "dig" new discoveries of books and other things I would like to learn from her in much the same manner a person "digs the puck out of the corner - dag nab it!".

Semper Fi to all of you!

Gerry :)))

2007-11-23 11:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Gerry 7 in Friends