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we are going trough a distance relationship and overall, it has been great...but now with all the school work i have to do i find myself little time to dedicate to her....and she needs constant attention from me now....she says she loves me very much and that she doesn't want to loose me, i already told her to relax and that she doesn't have to think about that because its not going to happen, but it doesn't changes anything.........however she tried to change a few days ago....giving me a break so to speak...only to discover 2 days after she can't handle and needs attention from me....
she didn't needed this much attention one year ago, why do girls feeld this way?
2007-11-23 11:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It isn't necessarily that she needs attention, she needs to give attention also.
The phrase "Actions speak louder than words" doesn't just apply to grand gestures.
My fella tells me he loves me several times a day... you know all i want? All that i need? A kiss.
If he came and gave me a kiss every day, he'd never need to say that he loves me, well maybe occasionally :P
Some girls just need that physical contact and it isn't needy, its just the way she expresses her feelings.
The distance between you isn't allowing her to express that love or for love to be expressed to her i a way she appreciates it.
She doesn't need a length of time from you, she just needs 2 seconds of physical contact.
2007-11-23 11:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how you feel about her. But the thing is , your school work is the priority right now . You may just have to tell her , she either has to deal with it , or you need to take a break till school is out. If she is still available and if you are still interested then, go ahead and see each other.
2007-11-23 11:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's that high maintenance maybe you should consider breaking it off.
You mention that she loves you but you don't say anything about how you feel about her....my guess is that you aren't feeling as strongly about her.
I think it's great that you are focused on your schoolwork. That's where you SHOULD be focused. She is being childish and unfair and that is not what you need in a woman and/or a long-term relationship.
2007-11-23 11:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree totally with Lulabelle. My lover has been working away and out of range for weeks and weeks and can't call.....all I wanted was him to send me a text occasionally to let me know he's thinking of me. He didn't, and it drove me nuts.....I texted him too much and now he has disconnected his phone. I am distraught, and have probably lost him for good. It could have been avoided if he just kept in touch occasionally.
Women do need reassuring when they are missing their men....it's natural. Surely you have time to send her a kiss now and then! How much effort would that take? Don't you even miss her? Maybe you don't love her as much as she loves you.
Guess that's why women are from Venus and Men are from Mars!
2007-11-23 13:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh! brother..cut that out, you found yourself a needy whiner that wants you 7/24. no,no,no, you can not handle this kind, you have serious business to take care of now and you don't need to carry a baby that shits every 30 minutes and you need to stop what you are doing to change her diaper..........same thing, trust me.
Think, and keep up with the things that are worth it right now, not headaches.
Can't do it? deal with the consequences...Good Luck!
2007-11-23 11:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship are very hard for a girl, who sees their friends hangs together with their own boyfriends.
She probably really would love to do that with you, but you should tell her straight it will ruin your grade, tell her you'll call her back when you're taking a break.
2007-11-23 11:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something behind all of this you need to dig a little further and find out what is causing this constant insecurity?
Could even be you
2007-11-23 11:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Choose ME 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just keep in mind the fact is you do not know what you do not know.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 11:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋