I love to shop and spend money, but I am also fiesty. I'm 26, and I want a man (not a boy) who is older than I am but is also my type. Why can't I find someone who can handle or "put up" with me.
2007-11-23 11:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know exactly what you mean. You just haven't found the right person out there yet. But there is that one person for you, you just need to give it time and it will happen when you least expect it. I keep telling myself the same thing.
2007-11-23 11:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because there is MORE to life than just shopping and spending money. Did you ever stop and think that maybe YOU have the problem and that's why you can't find someone? I have dated a lot of men, and unless he's gay or just that FASHION CONSCIOUS, men DON'T LIKE TO SHOP! Judging by what you've written it sounds to me like you're a very superficial person. All you mentioned is LOVE AND MONEY. You didn't say anything about looking for someone who is caring, loving, funny, goal oriented...etc...THOSE are the things you should be focused on. Money comes and goes. Shopping is a hobby. So why don't you "tweak" your priorities a little bit and you just might have some luck.
**You say spend money. Are you meaning HIS money? If so,,,yes, I'm sure there are men of that caliber out there. But it's not FREE sweetheart!
2007-11-23 11:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have gotten feedback from others or intuitively KNOW that you are fiesty and alot of men can't handle or 'put up' with you, it sounds like you may want to look at why that is? Are there parts of your character or personality lead men to belive you would be 'high maintience'? Men don't want that. You mention you love to shop and spend money? OK, but those two traits don't exactly draw men like bees to honey! Sounds like it is time to do some real soul searching...it's more work, but also more rewarding than shopping! :) Good luck.
2007-11-24 21:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mystic Renegade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you aren't asking the right questions of your boyfriends. Do they have your same goals in life, do they want children and how many, what are your religious beliefs, do you have the same morals, are you on the same path in life? Marriage is a job interview not just love and sex. When you have these things down and someone fills your expectations, you may have met the right man.
2007-11-23 12:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you need to do is to stop looking. Looky looky no findy findy... Get my drift. We spend so much time looking that its like a humungus beacon on our forehead saying 'DESPERATELY LONELY AND WILL TAKE ANYTHING'.... Find something, anything to take you're mind off the hunt for a guy and focus on just having fun and enjoying yourself. Go out with friends, find a hobby but stop the man hunt. Eventually, He will find You!!! You're young. It will happen when the time is right for you.
2007-11-23 12:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by chiccigyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to change your outlook on life and what's more important in life. To most men you sound shallow and immature and there isn't too many men like myself that would want to put up with a grown child.
2007-11-23 11:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have had the same luck with women. Since my divorce it's been hard to find someone I can click with. It's not a question of finding someone to put up with you it's finding someone who complements you. hope that helps
2007-11-23 11:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It may be that your "Standards" are a little to high. Maybe there is something you need to change. Or just stop looking for Mr. Right. He'll come to you!
2007-11-23 11:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lisita 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2007-11-23 11:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe not every guy has money to spend?
just stop looking. the right guy for you will come to you.
2007-11-23 11:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋