as i've asked in my another questions, what do i do.
once i didn't talk to him.
& he pinned me down and tried to make me, he was saying why wont you talk, what the +++ did i do, and all things like that.
and last night i was walking down the street & like 15 guys were yelling i'm hot and stuff, now he doesnt even want me up the street.
and last night i was on the phone to him, and i feel asleep, and i woke up with all these messages going, why wont you talk to me.
thanks for ignoring me, means alot.
and all this stuff, oh..
and whenever i want to go out, he lies about us making plan and said i thought we were doing somthing, and makes me feel really bad.
i'm so confussed.
should i stay with him to help him get over his mental problem?
or leave him.. and see him hurt..
2007-11-23 12:07:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hoeny.. chances are that you are in a violent relationship.. very easily these can become abusive! (if not already). You dont want to be stuck in that kind of relatioship! These guys will feed off of your fear.. most the time they think they should be superior to you and they have to make you afraid.. tell a male adult! (or some guy you really trust). most the time if they do this.. it continues to get worse!! They may be able to attack a women (especially one that is afraid) but put them against a male.. they usually shrink! he is being possesive in a bad way! Honey.. just leave him.. I think you should read the book The Breakable Vow.. by Kathryn Ann Clarke... it may really help you! if your situation isnt so bad.. then it may just be prevention and/or a really good read! if it is bad.. it may help! you shouldnt stay with him.. he need professional help!! if he loved you he would let you step back while he got help!!
2007-11-23 12:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him before he hurts you if things are getting physical were as u put it makes him sound kind of like an insane mental case. If someone fell asleep on me i might leave one or two messages just asking whats up but not to the extent you are saying. Also sounds like he is extremely jealous and has trust issues. Break up with him in a place where people are around.
2007-11-23 12:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to leave this fartmonger in the trash heap of your past relationships. Find another guy, preferably not from the local mental health institution.
2007-11-23 12:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD NO NO NO.
listen to me. LEAVE. call the cops, do whatever .
he WONT stop.
if you dont leave now, tomorrow you can be on the 6 o clock news. please leave.
they never change. theyll pull you down with them into their miserable downwards spiral of violence and self distruction , and im talking about emotional.
i KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT
walk out NOW.
( sorry i know i sound kinda crazy.. but ive been in a situation and theyre like leeches)
2007-11-23 12:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by phukdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your other question, your boyfriends sounds very dangerous. The folks who are telling you to leave him are right, things could get seriously out of control. Be careful and talk to your parents it's for your own protection.
2007-11-23 12:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a total controlling JERK!
He should have never pinned you down like that! I had a bf who did that and that was the LAST TIME he did ANYTHING to me. I said SEE YA!!!!
You should LEAVE him and see HIM hurt, before it is YOU that gets REALLY hurt (physically!).
2007-11-23 12:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by YOUR MOM ™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM he is deffinatley isnt the kind of person you want to be in a long term relationship with. He obviously doest care about you so why should u care if he hurts?
2007-11-23 12:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by barrelracer113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw **** that if he touched you then call the cops cuz that **** aint right
your free to do as you wish its a free country ya know
lerave him cuz this could only end up bad for you
this kid needs help and if you are really confused then talk to a school counceler
they are there to help not just pick your classes
2007-11-23 12:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has some problems, and it hurts you.
If he's not a great guy and "the one", feel free to leave him.
If he is good and you DO LIKE/LOVE him (seriously) then help him, tell him you're scared and you feel for him, and that you're confused, but he needs help, if he's good to you, help him.
2007-11-23 12:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, there are many guys out there that will treat you the way you should be treated. This guy sounds like a jerk
2007-11-23 12:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by DAN K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋