here's the conversation and should I stay friends if I should move on
James Says: ok before you go thoooo, so i should move on from you ye?
Emily says: lol
James Says: nooo its beter to no honest !
Emily says: i duno what to say
Emily says: lol
James Says: well no or yes
James Says: or, we'll see what happens
Emily says: keep your options open
Emily says: thats my advice :)
Emily says: lol
James Says: so no lol
James Says: well atleast u let me no, coz i can move on to someone else as long as u want that ;) jks
Emily says: lolll
Emily says: righty ooooh
Emily says: lol
Emily says: (i sound like my nan)
Emily says: yeah
Emily says: im goin bed
Emily says: lol
Emily says: night night :) xxx
james Says: ok :) well let me no a proper answer tomoro?
Emily says: oooookkkkkkk
Emily says: night xx
2007-11-23 12:00:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you could have sent her an email or a fax...those could have been worse choices. Maybe.
But you don't need to run, either.
Do you already know her or see her? If so, next time you see her you can laugh it off. Say something like..."OK, texting you to go out was kinda silly. I'm so comfortable around you that I want to spend some time with you in person...let's get a coffee. I'm buying."
If you don't see her, don't press her for an answer anymore. If you IM her again, don't even bring it up. If she texts something first to accept, you're in luck. Go out with her and if it comes up again in person, make a joke about asking her out over IM.
If she texts something negative, your response should be something like "lol...i can't believe I did that. it was so stupid..." Then go back (relationship-wise) to where you were before you asked her. The ball is in her court. She knows you're interested and she'll respond if she's interested, too. Then, if you see her in the future, you're also OK to ask her for that coffee.
Just don't force her to give you an answer. You might not like her response.
2007-11-23 12:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by dave13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
James, yeah don't just move on, run!
2007-11-23 20:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell would u ask someone that????
dude...she moved on a long time ago. so you should too.
2007-11-23 20:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by heretohelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋