a lott. and he dosent even talk to me anymore. we broke up about a month ago and he said he wanted to be friends, but he just ignores me on myspace and aim and thinks i hate him? wtf. and then on his myspace he puts up pictures of him and his little slu* that he claims to be "just friends" with, but i'm thinking she was the reason for our breakup. because theres no other reason i could think of. (she hates me).
but anyways, we dont have any classes together (my ex and i)
so we don't talk...at all. but i miss him a lot. what do i do? just forget about him?
2007-11-23 11:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with only 30 days gone,what youre feeling is pretty much the norm. It looks like what he is doing is meant solely to "get" to you and it seems like its working. Guys hate to be ignored so that is exactly what you need to do to him and see what happens. Good luck
2007-11-23 11:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about him. He obviously knows you're on myspace right? Still he puts the pictures up of him and his "friend" or whatever she is. Obviously he's moved on and is enjoying life. Be fair to yourself and do the same. Don't waste your emotions or your time thinking about this guy. You guys aren't together for a reason. Don't start getting into deep thoughts wondering why you guys aren't together, you will drive yourself crazy. Missing him is normal and I'm sure everything reminds you of him but still the fact of the matter is that you need to just let it go. Your only torturing yourself by checking his myspace page and stuff. Trust me when I say leave him alone. You will eventually get over it and he will be just another page in the book. I promise : ) I'm gonna be 32 yrs old soon and I know what it's like so trust me on this one.
2007-11-23 12:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! :) I'm sorry to hear about you two breaking up... I know its hard... The whole you cant stop thinking about him and remembering the good times.
You just have to ask yourself is it worth it? I think you should focus on his bad points. I think he is at a place where he wants to be with girls and have no commitments. You cant change his views for now unfortunately.
Look I think you should forget about him and focus on yourself and realise your a beautiful great girl who deserves better!! :) When he sees a confident girl walking past him ignoring him, he might just realise what he's missing out on. If not, you WILL find someone who wants and loves you for who you are!!
2007-11-23 12:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, forget him. There are plenty of men out there. If he chooses not to talk with you, you do the same with him. As soon as you start ignoring him, he will come back. At that time you can chose what you want to do. It always happens, you ignore them and they come running. Good luck
2007-11-23 12:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Simbha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too hard to just forget about someone. But it sounds like you need to just move on. I know it is easier said than done, but this is really what you need to do for your own self. In time, this will lessen.
2007-11-23 11:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. There's more fish in the sea. :)
Guys always say "Nothing will change. We'll be friends."
It smooths things over at the time.
2007-11-23 12:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by calgontakemeaway2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.........you are still young and there are lots of fishes in the sea. You deserve better and will find better. Love someone that love you, don't waste time with someone that doesn't care for you. Life is too short
2007-11-23 11:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by PANGTA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you go on with life. You forget him (if he's shoving the other woman in your face he's not worth your time anyway).
Find someone who will respect and love you.
2007-11-23 12:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh c'mon... when he said that he wanted to be ur friend... that jst mean that he dsnt like u anymore... its one of the popular lines gurl... and dnt miss such a looser like him!... its not worthit... change ur picture on myspace... put ur best pics on it and if he snd msgs?... ignore it... let him realize how stupid he is for breaking up with u... and dnt view his profile!... he jst wanna make u fall for him still... while he's having fun with other girls!.. he's a looser!...
u can do it gurl!...
2007-11-23 12:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by nicole1606 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
missing him alot is normal. but think about it. do you really miss him? or do you miss the good times and the possible good future you wished for? don't waste alot of your time missing this jerk. there's a reason he's an ex.
2007-11-23 11:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by ProudM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋