Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

Hey! Just curious, what type of guys are YOU into? Punk, preppy, blondes, brunettes? Green eyes, brown eys, maybe even blue?
Come on, tell us, what is true? [to your heart that is!]

2007-11-23 14:44:49 · 26 answers · asked by Alexx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

by the time they are 30

2007-11-23 14:42:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 14:42:00 · 35 answers · asked by Sufi 7 in Family

Ok, from the 1st time i met my inlaws, including his sister, i liked them , and they liked me... well a year has passed since and we recently got married... he is military so while he's deployed i am stuck here having to visit them and keep in contact with them, WHICH was GREAT.. i didn't mind it.. UNTIL recently.. his mom and sister made up some junk about a conversation we had.. pretty much turned my words around and made me seem like i was this crazy stuck up person... i know i didnt say anything wrong and he knows i didnt... but when they finally calmed down, they said they only did that because they were jealous because he was married now, blah blah blah.... so now i dont call or visit anymore... i wont because i dont think they are right for what they did, but he wants me to blow it off and just forget about it... Should i just suck it up or stand my ground?

2007-11-23 14:41:24 · 13 answers · asked by soldiersgurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is almost 20. He's not a bad guy or a pervert or anything, but he seems a little more serious than usual when he talks about me and him doing "things". I told him I want to hold out until I'm 18 to do anything beyond making out and he said he would be willing to wait and he respects my decision.

We've only been dating for a month, but we're both very serious about each other. It's not really a big deal for me to wait, I'd just like to look back in a few years and say that I made the decision to wait until I was legal.

I need a little help on whether I should do it or wait a little longer.

2007-11-23 14:40:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation: 2 people going through a divorce and they have one child. Though it's not final yet, both parties and lawyers have come to an agreement until the court date, as far as visitation, child support, etc.

He pays $440 a month for child support, and provides medical insurance for the child (and since they are still technically married, his medical insurance still covers her, as well.) They have agreed that, regarding the child, any medical expenses NOT covered by insurance would be split 50/50.

So my question is...when she takes the child to the doctor and has a copay, is the father obligated to pay half that copay? Or, would that fall under expenses she should pay with child support?

2007-11-23 14:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by SmartyPants 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We rented a home about 6 months ago, and he decieded he was tired of the family life and wants to move on. So he is leaving us penniless and with no available income. He is only thinking about himself and not about where the kids and I will be going. He is trying to rent the house to some other people, out from underneath me so he can get his name off the lease. Since both of our names are on the lease, doesnt he have to have my permission or dont I have to say I want out of the lease also. Can he just get someone else in here and have the management company hand me an eviction notice when hes through. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I am trying to rent out a room the master at the moment so that the kids and I have a place to stay but its taking a while.

2007-11-23 14:37:45 · 4 answers · asked by aalshafi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

k i like this guy named Adrian, and i seen this guy that looks exactly like Adrian-but this guy wore sunglasses........i'm always looking for Adrian downtown, so i seen a look a like of adrian today, how do i tell if adrian is stalking me, or trying to avoid me by discuising himself? now wich one is he doing?

(a) stalking me
(b) avoiding me?

2007-11-23 14:36:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Growing up I always ended up babysitting for families while their parents were out at New Years Eve parties. Since I've had my daughters, I have no gone away for New Years Eve. My oldest is 8 years old and my youngest is 9 months. Thinking about it now- I feel guilty for wanting to go out for New Years Eve- my oldest gets to stay up every year and watch the ball drop etc and she loves it. Am I wrong for feeling guilty and thinking we should stay home with our kids? Or am I just being 'crazy' and we should use New Years as an excuse to get out? What do you do for new years? Do you stay home with your children and have a party with them or do you get a sitter and go out?

2007-11-23 14:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hes been helping her parents work on their house..and so they started going out..and her parents seem oblivious...and they just dont even seem to care. my niece is also mad at me for trying to talk to her about how she is acting. how can i possibly fix this situation. she doesnt realize shes to young for this kind of relationship.

2007-11-23 14:35:07 · 42 answers · asked by babydol702002 2 in Family

im a bit lost at the moment as i dont know what the deal is with my bf, we've been 2gther for about 20months now and ive grown very attached to him as hes everything i want, but we both finished uni exams yesterday and he went off on a boys trip down the coast for a surf this wkend. I find this a great problem as really shouldnt he want to see me first, then go surfing??? his reasoning was its 2 days and then i have him for 3 months and he needs to get out of his room as he was locked in there studying for the past 2 wks non stop. I think that if u truley love some1 u would want to be with them , right???? my mother agrees with me and she put all these ideas into my head now which has got me thinking , is he inlove, he says he loves me but i think theres a difference. Or is there a point u get when your in a relationship that u are comfortable to do as u please?? He has never ditched me for his mates before and he thinks if he wouldve stayed that means our relationship is unhealthy

2007-11-23 14:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am tired of traveling into the city to see a Domme. Can anyone suggest a way to find someone in my area to dominate me?

2007-11-23 14:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by slaveboy_43 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and i broke up a few days ago.
I have plenty of friends to help me and guide me through the seperation process and to show me how to get her back but my ex has know one to talk to!
I have asked one of her old friends who i trust and get along well with to offer suport to my ex and help her work out her feelings for me.
Was this an ok move?

2007-11-23 14:29:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend ALWAYS wants me to wear heels with short skirts and a small top even at night. When I don't, he complains and tells me that I should've worn something different. I told him that I'm tired of freezing my *** off while other girls have jackets, jeans and uggs on to keep warm. He just told me that I complain too much...Am I being unreasonable!? I don't think it's fair that he gets to dress all warm with jeans, sweatshirt and timbs while I have to stay cold in my tiny outfit that's not even comfortable!!

2007-11-23 14:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With another married man at work? I want to quit my job, but I'm staying there because I need the health care and money and I can't afford to find another job right now. But I keep missing and longing for someone else who is not my husband. This other man at work, I think he no longer cares for me, but I still do.

What should I do? I don't want to hide it from my husband, but if I tell him the truth, I don't know what will happen.

2007-11-23 14:27:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You try to help people, Still they cheat? Why?

2007-11-23 14:26:44 · 3 answers · asked by Khartree S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do porn stars last so long?

2007-11-23 14:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that men with good jobs and money get the women? Its attractive to have a lot of money and a good job because it shows they can handle themselves?

2007-11-23 14:25:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like we have lost our sexual drive for one another. We have been together for 3 years and I understand that some off the sensation will be forgotten..but right now it's hard to even find it. Have you been through a similar situation and if so what cured it, if anything.

2007-11-23 14:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So heres the deal, i've been dating this guy for a month now and the relationship hasn't gone anywhere. i mean we've kissed... once. and he talks to me at school. he calls me maybe once every other week. he isn't really comfortable around me. i'm his first girlfriend, but the thing is... he's my 5th boyfriend. i'm ready to move forward and it doesn't seem like he is. we text sometimes... and hang out maybe once a week. and i like him still, but i feel like this is a waste of my time. should i break up with him?

2007-11-23 14:20:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17, a senior in high school with a younger sibling, my dad is an emotionally abusive alcoholic. An alcoholic so much so that he drives 1 1/2 hours to go to his favorite bar where he drinks all day long, and when he is ready my mom and I go to the bar to pick him up....we park and I go into the bar where I wait until he is ready and I find someone to help me carry him out to the car. After we leave, one of us rides with him and other one drives the other vehicle we drove and we start home....it always ends with him angry, us frustrated or sad, him belittling or pestering us to our last end, or sometimes he is really mushy and just wants to snuggle with everyone......I've dealt with this since I was 3.....how do I keep it from bugging me and how do I deal with it for my sibling when I go to college next year??? No wise cracks please....it isn't funny.
Distracting him wouldn't work....he leaves for the bar before I wake up in the morning. We don't have the resources to do anything.

2007-11-23 14:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here's the deal. I was told that my friend "JJ" was getting married. I had been having sexual relations with JJ for almost 5 yrs. It has never been a serious relationship or anything but I have deep feelings for him and he knows it. He tells me that he cares about me alot but that he cant commit because he has seen alot of failed marriages in his family. Anyways, 2 weeks before they told me that he wa getting married I had asked him if he was seeing or talking to someone else and he told me "no". Now, I dont know what to think about this news, what should i do?? I love him so much but yet at the same time I know that all he does is keep hurting me. Why do I allow myself such hurt?

2007-11-23 14:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Sandy H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 14:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by baby11kc 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a new man in my life. He is really great! We both have really busy schedules. The only time we can spend is on the weekend.
I feel that I'm addicted to him already and we've only been seeing eachother for 3 weeks.
When he left I got a little misty. What is wrong with me? I'm 32yo and I don't have any problems getting guys or attracting attention. Why is this situation any different from any other man I hang out with?
Should I back the hell off or what?

2007-11-23 14:13:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where would u rate it if 1 was ok and 10 being the worst.

2007-11-23 14:13:36 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

When I was 12 years old I had a crush on this guy, every summer my family and his would stay at the same hotel done in New Jersey (the families were not friends). One day I went to the movies with one of my friends and he was there, he and my friend were friends so we watched the movie together. Later on my friend and I got separated and I was left alone with him, we talk allot and it turned out that we had a lot in common. But after that night I never talked to him again.
Now I’m 17 and we attend the same school, he has a girl friend and I have a boyfriend. But it seems like whenever I see him, I don’t know I get this weird feeling inside, and he gives me this piercing look like he could be feeling the same.
I don’t understand it but I don’t know what to do either, he’s been going out with his girlfriend for three years. But this feeling I don’t know how to explain it, then again I was just one night??
What do you think??

2007-11-23 14:11:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so im a teen and i made out with this guy he was an amazing kisser and all i wanted to do is make out but he wanted more i didnt say no at first but would make excuses not to have sex cuz i didnt wanna hurt him we would make out on and off but it sux cuz he ignored me when we were at lunch and stuff ! and so then he told all hiz friends about us making out and now the whole school is bugging me about it !!!!
So i told him finally that i was never gunna have sex w/him i wasnt comfortable
and now hes ignoring me !
we have drama together 4 the whole year!!!!
how awkward can life get!!!!!
help pleez!

2007-11-23 14:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because she's having financial problems... she's very difficult to be around as it is. Does anyone have any advice before we make a decision either way?

2007-11-23 14:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by Shana B 6 in Family

I'm 29 and this lady is 53. Is it possible for her to get pregnant?

2007-11-23 14:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 2 1/2 years. My husband was a virgin. He just got back from Iraq and we're supposed to be trying to get pregnant. But lately he only wants to talk about bringing other people into the bedroom.

I hate the idea. Its grosses me out and makes me feel as though I'm not good enough. We've never had any problems til now. I don't know what to do.

The Bible is pretty specific on how God feels about sex outside of marriage and I don't want to violate God's Word but at the same time I want my husband happy.

If I can't satisfy him and I don't want other people with us should I tell him to go get it out of his system and I'll be here when he gets back???????????

If he does that then he may leave me or never stop the trysts but if I don't he might leave me or just recent me for the rest of our marriage.

He can't even preform anymore without talking about other people.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-23 14:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce