ok so im a teen and i made out with this guy he was an amazing kisser and all i wanted to do is make out but he wanted more i didnt say no at first but would make excuses not to have sex cuz i didnt wanna hurt him we would make out on and off but it sux cuz he ignored me when we were at lunch and stuff ! and so then he told all hiz friends about us making out and now the whole school is bugging me about it !!!!
So i told him finally that i was never gunna have sex w/him i wasnt comfortable
and now hes ignoring me !
we have drama together 4 the whole year!!!!
how awkward can life get!!!!!
help pleez!
2007-11-23 14:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drama class as an elective lol !!!
2007-11-23 14:22:44 · update #1
The whole point of making out is to become sexually aroused. What did you expect from him. Obviously he only wanted you for sex and when you didn't give him any he moved on to try and conquer someone else. Good for you for not giving in to such a jerk!
2007-11-23 14:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now what he is probably doing is getting even for you being a teez (which is what guys do when they don't get want they want) Just wait it out until they pick on someone else. I know drama at school feels so strong but it will eventually blow over and if it doesn't talk to someone, a pastor, a counselor or your parents. If he's cute he'll get embroiled with another person soon. If you're friends say anything tell them you made a temporary error in judgment and if it's the worst thing they ever do, they will be lucky.
2007-11-23 22:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was ignoring you at lunch and when you were at school because he planned to use you for sex and then dump you. Pop up your chest girl, because that little voice in your head was your concience telling you that you would be wrong to let things go further with this guy and you were right on. People talk because they like other peoples drama. Don't let them have a show at your expense. If people bring it up, just say that was yesterdays news and move on. You are smarter than you think and as the old saying goes, 'this too shall pass"
2007-11-23 22:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just met the class clown. Poor guy can't pick up a single clue and on top of that, behaves like a pimp when he doesn't get his treat... You'll have to put up with him in drama. Brace yourself for more antics.
Take care of yourself and make some good friends.
2007-11-23 22:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean.
I had the same problem and the first mistake is kissing because when you kiss you will just want to do more, and I agree with you don't have sex with him.
in the end you will regret it, I've seen it to many times and it all starts the same.I hope you chose the right thing and good luck
2007-11-23 22:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by going2rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you control what you wanna do, you dont let no guy tell you what to do, you wait till your ready, and drama, theres always going to be drama, just try to ignore, but just keep your head up girl.
2007-11-23 22:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO he doesn't want to pay attention to you cuz you won't have sex with him? Honey, you are feeding his ego!! He's thinks you need him soooo much you'll do anything to get him talking to you again. He's being passive aggressive. If you don't want to do it and he turns away from you for it, drop him.
2007-11-23 22:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by coriafanforlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing...plus, he's the one who should feel like a jerk...no means no!
2007-11-23 22:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have been a gentleman and told no one about
your encounter.
he sounds like a first class jerk, stay away from him.
2007-11-23 22:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk!!
guys only want sex from girls (most of them)
but you will find mr.right
he's mean
and i suggest you dump him like trash
2007-11-23 22:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋