Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

2007-11-23 16:40:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll try to summarize everything. We had to give my fiance's brother a ride to their parents vacation home 3 hours away. His brother told his dad that we were going to be late leaving, because I needed to see my mom... his dad went ballistic. He then told his dad that we'd have to leave their house early so that we could get back to see my mom--he still said no way.

My fiance said that if I went w/him, then we'd for sure come back. At 6pm my fiance told his dad "our dogs are home alone, this is her first t-giving w/out her dad.. and plus her friends dad died". (my dad died recently, my friends dad died yday)

His dad yelled and said "I have more sense than any of you, I'm a doctor and know what I'm talking about. Who cares if she doesn't see her mom-don't put her above us. Her friends dad is dead and it's over with.. and your dogs won't starve over night". This went on for 10 minutes.

How would you feel about this?

2007-11-23 16:38:06 · 15 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Family

2007-11-23 16:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by adriana g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so he my friend was pissed at me for things i said to my sister that has nothing to do with him. i was pissed at him cuz he didnt even go after me when walking and left me behind i tried to explain to my sister how i felt she said i was being jealous becasue he stuck up for her. i was shocked because i wasnt even caring i was saying things to you not him why does he feel he needs to do that i was his friend for 3 years. he has repeatedly been rude talking down to me and being very mean and my sister totally thinks its ok for this to happen yes i may have been rude we both were vut do i desrve to be treated like this havong my sister go on trips knowing he is being mean to me posting our private conversations on line fore every1 to see and saying hateful things to me because i was fighting with my sister. I just dont know what to do i apologized for the things i said to my sister. every time i try to tell her about how i feel aobut her and my friend she says iam jealous what do i do ???

2007-11-23 16:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by luv4majik 1 in Family

The other day I got really high and decided to do something I never did before....put my member in the vacumn...has anyone ever tried this???

2007-11-23 16:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband always passes gas in the house this is an ongoing behavior which i find very rude, i know its natural but this is all day every day i feel very disrespected am i wrong for feeling this way and is their any thing he can use for this ?

2007-11-23 16:31:46 · 15 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 16:20:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how long did you have to wait after buying the license?

2007-11-23 16:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Weddings

Ok on Dr.Phil today they were talking about young Ladies and the fact that their clothing is a bit too revealing like you can see too much skin and um other areas of their body especially the crotch and crack (think Sharon Stone basic instinct) how much influence do these singers movie stars and actress's these kids look up to play in this if they dressed more modestly would the effect trickle down to the young kids?

2007-11-23 16:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by triton 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-23 16:03:55 · 2 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4 in Family

i like this girl but i want her to like me so what can i do? ive just been myself and shes just friends with me, i really like her so what should i do?

2007-11-23 16:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jimbo 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and I've really been fighting with my mom alot, only verbal she hasn't tried to hit me yet, I don't think she will. But along with this I've been getting in trouble at school for ditching. This has been going on for the last month and before but not as bad as it is now. It may not seem like a lot but I've already got like a foot out the door and am about to just runaway. Is there any other alternative in the legal aspect or maybe just some advice any one can offer me it would be truly appreciated.

2007-11-23 16:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know if he's just not in to me or has been hit in the head too many times, seriously. Okay, there is a little slurred speech (for some odd reason I find it attractive) and he is slow to answer sometimes, but sometimes he just zones out -like into deep thought, and there is a lot of dead air sometimes. I don't know whether to take it as I'm boring him to death or he can't help it. When he comes back from day dreaming he resumes the conversation like nothing happen, and he either can't pick up on my aggravation or really doesn't care; he just smiles. And it is a clueless smile, so I can't stay mad. I don't know if he is a guy that is shy, not interested, or has lose screws (literally). And if the screws are lose, how do I deal with that?
He calls and talks on the answering machine, as if we are having a real conversation -I find that funny and sweet. Is that weird? I don't think he is trying to be funny though...but I can't help but laugh.
Seriously, Help!!

2007-11-23 16:02:07 · 5 answers · asked by tamoi 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for two years ten months. My husband and moved from our home because I could not accept the new him. I have not dealt very well with this situation, he thinks I should just accept that things did not work out and move on but he get extremely angry with me when I ask him for us to sit and talk about what really happened. I feel like I was not doing something right. I love my husband dearly and I feel like I can't move on until he lets me know what happened. What forced him to make the decision he made? I need closure

2007-11-23 15:49:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex wife keeps taking back my last name and she has been married 5 times now. Im her second. We have a child who is an adult now. Why does she want to keep taking back my last name?? wtf... Can i do anything to stop her. She getting another divorce.....i live in texas and she lives in fl??

2007-11-23 15:48:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have just started writing an independant blog/advice column for pregnancy/parenting/family issues and my readership is still kind of low. I know a part of it is because the page itself is still new, but I was wondering if part of the reason for the low numbers is because I do not have a psychology degree.

Do you think that people are less likely to take advice from someone who does not have a diploma in a related field, or do you think people appreciate "mom-to-mom" advice and I just haven't gotten enough exposure yet?

Thanks!

p.s.-If you want to see the kind of advice I'm giving you can go to http://www.askmrsm.wordpress.com

2007-11-23 15:47:08 · 3 answers · asked by lovelymrsm 5 in Family

2007-11-23 15:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by James 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you be ready, willing and able? If not, for what reason would you turn her down?

2007-11-23 15:46:00 · 13 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating this guy who is controlling, but I've developed feelings for someone else. I'm 28 and he's 20, we have a good connection. We are very good with communication, compatibility, compassion, being open about everything and we don't hold anything back when something is bothering either of us. Is it wrong that I was with a man for 6 years that's 29 and now I've met someone who's great to me who's 20? He makes me happy, he adores my son and my son adores him. We are so connected in so many ways and on so many levels. For a 20 year old, he's really mature about relationships and he's really patient and is willing to wait for me. I really care about this guy, but in the back of my mind, I keep asking myself if this is right? It's a big age gap, but I've been told that his age is just a number and it's how we feel about each other and if we make one another happy. Neither of us are looking for anything seriou, we just want to be together but I'm afraid that I'll be frowned on for this.

2007-11-23 15:45:24 · 35 answers · asked by Laverne L-H 1 in Singles & Dating

We have 4 little boys and since Leaving the Marine Corps a year ago my mild mannered husband has become a raging monster. I am 8 months pregnant with our 4th, he rips my hair out, pulls my hair, hits me in the head and face, chokes me and squeezes my neck. He is also verbally abusive to our 8yr old son calling him unspeakable things. I know that his Sgt First Class is aware of the situtation because I have informed his wife but the command is "powerless" to do anything to stop him unless I call the police and force their hand or he goes to them with his issues. I can't take anymore of this or him. He blames his anger and behavior on not having time alone with me and various other B.S. excuses. I was married to an abusive cocaine addict when I was younger and have a current 5yr order of protection, figures I would choose a loser the 2nd time around. I know there is legal on post but I'm not sure if the process is legal seperation first. The post in half in Ky and we live in Tn.

2007-11-23 15:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by nicolejmatthews 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went out with this guy for a couple of weeks but things didnt work out between us, and he dumped me because we hardly ever talked. During that relationship i became friends with one of his friends, and after it ended, i had a small crush on him. Right after the breakup my ex's friend also told me he had liked me the whole time i was going out with his friend, but coulnt do anything about it. A few weeks later my ex told me that he wanted to try again, and start over. But i dont know what to do. I still like my ex, but i like his friend at the same time. And i think it would be weird going out with my ex's friend, because of our history together. What should i do? Who should i pick/not pick????

2007-11-23 15:38:26 · 17 answers · asked by rosex 1 in Singles & Dating

so, I've met her and we adore each other. Now when we are all together, he holds back and let's me and her spend time together. he goes about doing his thing while her and I talk and play (she's 6). She's starting to ask to spend the night with me or to have dad drop her off at my house so she can be with me - he doesn't allow this because he has her part time and wants to be with her as much as he can. Is it possible he's letting us bond because he has deep feelings for me and/or he's thinking very long term on this relationship? She's at the point now everytime she's at dad's she wants to call me and wants me to come over. Tonight at dinner she asked her dad if I could spend the night - we both said no to that. I don't want to read too much into all of this, but I'm in love with him and of course I want things to work out. Your thoughts/opinions are welcome.

2007-11-23 15:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by Charleight 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 15:36:36 · 12 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, im a 38 year old woman. i have a younger cousin- shes 15. we were never very close until around last year, when she called me for advice, crying on the phone--we talked that day for over an hour, and since then, shes been calling me and emailing me, and when i see her, she always greets me with a big hug. i love that were close now, and i dont tell her mom anything she tells me, i keep everything between her and myself. i would just like to know if anyone else happened to just fall into the role of a mentor--why do you think she all of a sudden looks up to me this way?

2007-11-23 15:36:27 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I basically did anything to remove him, deleted his number, cut contact, deleted/trashed photos from facebook and all photos, and deleted him from my friends list. Then I get a message saying why are you so immature from him? He caused me a lot of pain and being reminded it of it everyday does not seem fair to me. So was i honestly immature?

2007-11-23 15:32:56 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 15:32:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im interested in buying a playboy magazine but i dont know where u can buy them? im also realy nervous to go in. what kinda stores besides porn shops can you find dirty magazines

2007-11-23 15:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom let me buy a few things off of the internet, but I bought about $40 worth of more stuff. I don't know why I did, but now I feel really bad. Should I tell her? I thought I would just sort of sneak the money into her purse or something, although I wouldn't be comming clean. I'm think I'm going to return the stupid extra items that I bought as soon as they come in the mail.

2007-11-23 15:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by deeptruth246 1 in Family

me and my best friend have known each other since middle school and i have had a crush on her since. today i was about to tell her how i feel about her. but before i had the chance to tell her she told me that she might be pregnant by her so-called boy friend and its like when she told me that my heart just dropped. so i am willing to take any advice at all please

2007-11-23 15:25:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-23 15:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce