2007-11-23 16:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by adriana g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one can make a committed partner cheat. For cheating to happen, the partner must have given themselves permission to cheat - the other doesn't treat me right, pay me enough attention, isn't sexy anymore, or whatever excuse they choose to use.
If your partner is tempted then have it out with them. The other woman is nothing to your relationship until HE allows it to be.
2007-11-23 16:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are young and dumb so I'm going to tell you a few things this way you don't have to learn them the hard way like most women:
1. There is no Santa Claus
2. All men cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies
Now you can plan your life accordingly or you can keep living in your little "normal" dream world and keep lying to yourself. Happy Holidays!!!
2007-11-24 08:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband has all the power in this situation. he needs to be a man and tell the ***** to **** off.
it will do him good to defend your marriage and feel like a man :)
it will inform her of what he thinks of her and that he is not interested.
it will make her listen and back off. if anyone else tells her she'll still be after him. trust me.
and it will make you feel more inlove with your husband then ever before.
2007-11-24 00:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by chilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, unless your husband is accepting her advances and then the problem you have is with your husband and not her because OBVIOUSLY he knows he is married...it's not like he would forget that "in the heat of passion".
2007-11-24 01:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is has he cheated on you before? if yes, then he will again and nothing you can do about it! get rid of him! if he hasn't then you probably have nothing to worry about! is he really worth keeping? most are not!
2007-11-24 00:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by momma_m_47280 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some way of showing them up for what they are.
2007-11-24 01:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing...because that is just going to make her want him more than ever.
2007-11-24 00:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. The person you can affect is your HUSBAND. She can be "after" him all she wants, but if he doesn't play, it doesn't matter.
If he DOES play, then your beef is with HIM, not HER.
2007-11-24 00:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
take your hubby for a vacation....fill his mind with negative thoughts about this other b****, and then let him get rid of her
2007-11-24 00:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋