I went out with this guy for a couple of weeks but things didnt work out between us, and he dumped me because we hardly ever talked. During that relationship i became friends with one of his friends, and after it ended, i had a small crush on him. Right after the breakup my ex's friend also told me he had liked me the whole time i was going out with his friend, but coulnt do anything about it. A few weeks later my ex told me that he wanted to try again, and start over. But i dont know what to do. I still like my ex, but i like his friend at the same time. And i think it would be weird going out with my ex's friend, because of our history together. What should i do? Who should i pick/not pick????
2007-11-23 15:38:26 · 17 answers · asked by rosex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too much drama to go with either. Pick someone else.
2007-11-23 15:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by mudgei 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first guy, the "Ex", didn't work out & neither of you seem to be right for each other. Why waste time on that?
It is okay to develop a relationship with his friend, and that should not have anything to do with them being friends it they are objective about it. Don't feel wierd about it.
2007-11-23 23:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by cookpat.geo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one..Never go back out with ex's!
They are you ex's for a reason and they will do this..
Once you go back out with them..they will breakup with you..and go back out. (Because they know you can't let them go)
It's a never ending cycle that causes a lot of drama!
You like his friend! Don't crush him!
Your ex had a chance and he blew it.
Live life and be happy!
2007-11-23 23:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulxsoulx2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should pick your ex's friend. Why? Because it would be a different relationship, and there are other fish in the sea besides your ex. If it doesn't work out with you and your ex's friend, go back out with your ex, if he isn't mad at you for going out with his friend.
2007-11-23 23:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You went out for a couple weeks, and you call him your "ex"...and he "dumped" you after a couple weeks...I think I'd stick with the new guy if I was you. The other guy dumped you after a couple of weeks...
you call 'a couple of weeks' history?
2007-11-23 23:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by sitko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the friend. It's not like you are going to all of the sudden have something to talk about with the original guy.
2007-11-23 23:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Damocles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha
you make me feel better.
im going through the EXACT same thing. the way i see it, if you go out with your ex, yall are just gonna break up again. yall broke up for a reason. go for the friend.
i just hope that it works out for me as well as it did for you lol i dont know for sure if he likes me or if he is just trying to be a close guy friend...
2007-11-23 23:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by summer girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i woudl pick ur ex...for one i dont think its right when one of ur ex's frends does that to u... my ex's frends do it to me and im like no.... if i dont like him why would i like u ...ur prolly the same way lol thats what i say to most of em... they kinda laugh and think im kidding but im really not when i say that but n e wayz i would try going back out with ur ex if u still like him and have feelings for him cuz if not then u will be thinkin about him while ur going out with his frend.... only becuz u know what yalls relationship was before..... and u wouldnt be doing that if u went out with ur ex....becuz u wouldnt have a relationship to look at (on his frend) since u all didnt have one....if that makes sence to u
2007-11-23 23:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
either drop them both and be at peace with the next one, or tell your ex. the truth and go with him. the good thing that comes out of this is; 1- he will know his friends better. 2- if he continues to go out with you, you don't have to be worried about him finding out.
2007-11-24 00:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by northwoodian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you and your ex's relationship didn't work.
Usually things like that don't change.
Try the friend!
2007-11-23 23:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by smileshurtsweetly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋