ok last part This is Part four of four on going sister issue?

Question

so he my friend was pissed at me for things i said to my sister that has nothing to do with him. i was pissed at him cuz he didnt even go after me when walking and left me behind i tried to explain to my sister how i felt she said i was being jealous becasue he stuck up for her. i was shocked because i wasnt even caring i was saying things to you not him why does he feel he needs to do that i was his friend for 3 years. he has repeatedly been rude talking down to me and being very mean and my sister totally thinks its ok for this to happen yes i may have been rude we both were vut do i desrve to be treated like this havong my sister go on trips knowing he is being mean to me posting our private conversations on line fore every1 to see and saying hateful things to me because i was fighting with my sister. I just dont know what to do i apologized for the things i said to my sister. every time i try to tell her about how i feel aobut her and my friend she says iam jealous what do i do ???

Answer 1

I don't want to be insulting, but I have a feeling this has been an ongoing dilema your entire life, since this sister got into the picture. You want to know why? BECAUSE YOUR ALL EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE!!!! Also neglectful. In ways that go beyond my ability in this medium to explain. But your sisters lifestyle choice could be a direct result of why your so emotionaless, you are, you need to be drunk to be honest for one, and two you don't get very close to your friends. You know how I know? BECAUSE YOUR SISTER CAN TALK TO THEM FOR ONLY A LITTLE WHILE, AND POW, their her friends. So your a distant charater, who most likly learned this from a parent, which your sister is also paying for in her own way. SO unless you can talk honestly with each other without drinking, this is why we have counsellors, no offense you have no power to change it. But your problems run deeper then her inability to leave your friends alone, and unless you can see that, your really part of the problem. SO take this seriously get some help from an outside force thats CONSTANT, not this little forum, but an actually other person thats willing to go thru the decades of history you guys neglected to go thru with each other. This, what happen to you guys, is what I call compound drama, which is that you guys have SO MANY issues with each other, that its going to take alot of time to get to the real nettie grittie, because I can tell you the problem right now, and you would just report my answer....

Your horrible sisters to each other and ever problem in your lives is because of this, thank the parents.....

Answer 2

giv it a brak cuz u noe how ppl need deir spaces gurl ppl need 2 b alon to tink 4 demselves and all that shiz ya its tru y dont u do urself sum good and hang out wit other pplz until every1 cools down n u all will be much hapier l8r on u noe wut i mean? meanwile keep notice of wut they doin cuz if he stil does dat to u yu he rly wunts to hurt u gurl now wut im sayin, u do rite by apolijizing 2 ur sis