2007-11-23 16:20:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love can strike people that way. My husband and I met on a three day coach trip with a club we were both in. When he got home he told his sister that he had met the woman he wanted to marry. It took him a year to convince me, and we are married 23 years now.
If he truly does love you, it will give him the patience to wait until its right for you too. If not, then its not true love, and you are better off without him.
2007-11-23 16:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. True story. My dad told my mother that he was going to marry her on the 1st date - she said he was crazy. Took him 4 years to get her to the altar, but they made 50 years together. Got this from both my parents and their best man.
2. Are you his 1st? This might answer why he thinks that.
3. What do you think of him? Can you see yoruself down the road.
4. If he is really serious, then you have to make a decision as to whether or not to go on from there and see how it progresses. I would recommend that you tell him that you need to think abut it for awhile and that you need some time away from him with no calls, etc for 2 weeks. That way you can see if he is the jealous type and bombards you with e-mails, calls, flowers, etc. wanting to know where you are at every minutes etc.
2007-11-24 00:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by fred f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a normal thing to do. He doesn't even know you by three weeks and you don't know him. Heck, Ted Bundy could probably act normal for three weeks! If he brings it up again, I would tell him that was kind of an odd topic of discussion given the amount of time that you have been seeing each other. Because my husband (24 years) loves me because (and in spite of the fact that) he knows everything about me and vice versa. We were friends for several years and then dated for a year before marriage. Tell him to give you a chance to get to know him. Ask him about himself. Let him know that you are interested but not willing to jump into something head first.
2007-11-24 00:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Gail S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this as a red flag sweetheart. Any man who's talking about marriage after only 3 weeks is very manipulative and is trying to get you to base all your decision-making regarding him, on your emotions. Its the oldest trick in the book. And you should ask yourself "okay, isn't it reckless to talk about marrying someone you've known only 3 weeks?" Then ask yourself "why exactly is he talking about marriage when he barely knows me? I mean why is he really talking about marriage?"
2007-11-24 00:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just know. No-one said you had to get married right away or even at all, he just knows he loves you that much. Lucky you.
When you've lived long enough, you'll find out that life is full of surprises. Love at first sight is not a myth.
2007-11-24 00:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by hoona_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of soon, maybe hes just looking for a wife, I dont think thats bad but its way too soon. I guess I thought about marrying my husband the first week I met him, but didnt say it. So if you feel the same maybe there is something there.
2007-11-24 00:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either desperate or crazy! 3 weeks is hardly enough time to know if your right for each other!
2007-11-24 00:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by chicata25 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I proposed to my wife after 1 week, and we're going on 12 years now.
Miracles happen.
2007-11-24 00:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Reverend Matthew 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a bit quick !!!! Better be cautious!! KNowing someone for only 3weeks, makes him a relative stranger!! It take time to REALLY get to know someone !! DOn't rush it !! Good Luck !!!
2007-11-24 00:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by casper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is still basicly a stranger.
Three weeks is too soon.
Wait.
Give it lots more time. If it's real, then it will wait.
2007-11-24 00:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋