Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

good at ansering q's. really, ive gotten some good ansers.

now here's the q.

im gonna be goin to vegas next semester and im really lookin for ideally a A) pretty girlfriend B) dating and stuff C) random 1 nighters

what are the girls like in vegas and how can i go about accomplishing this?

2007-11-23 19:10:36 · 11 answers · asked by Greg D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so it goes like this;
i just recently (unofficially) broke it off with my bf of 5 months, saying we needed a break because things werent going so well, and my family was starting to seriously worry that his guys was not at all right for me, and i was starting to see why. a few weeks ago, he told me that he was going out with some girl at his school (we go to seperate schools) and just 3 weeks ago broke it off with her. but wait, it gets better; a few days ago i heard from a source (not mentioning any names) that my bf, before we started going out, had an ex-gf that he knocked up, and when we met swore to me that he is a virgin. So now i've got a box of all his crap in my room waiting to dump it at his door. i"m just so sick of putting up with this crap, and it seems to always happen again and again. girls, what advise could you give a sister?
please, i really need help. i dont know what to do now. thank u for your time reading this ;)

2007-11-23 19:09:14 · 16 answers · asked by Alex M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am newly married to the man of my dreams he is the sweetest guy i've ever met in my life. Sounds great but it's Not! My mother-in-law isn't a nice person. It bothers her that he is 31 years old & i'm 18. She never even gave me a chance. She told people that she didn't like me before we even met. She refused to attend our wedding. Our wedding gift was her telling him> You've made your bed- you'll have to lie in it. I was excited i was spending Thanksgiving with his family until i noticed she kept rolling her eyes at me & she ignored me & talking to my husband. I've never felt so bad in my life. I went home & cried my eyes out. I have never done anything to her & i can't understand why she hates me. She has invited my husband on a trip with her this weekend & she didn't invite me. I really love my husband with all of my heart. Why didn't he just tell his mom to stop being mean to me & refuse to go on this trip? Can i do anything to make this woman ever like me?

2007-11-23 19:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont remember saying the things i may have said to hurt the one person i love and care about deeply. but i dont know what to do. he has avoided me all day and didnt even say goodnight to me as he usually does. i may have made an *** out of myself. any suggestions?

2007-11-23 18:57:46 · 26 answers · asked by Latoya B 1 in Singles & Dating

a) She possibly loves someone else
b) That she snuck around behind your back and you didn't notice
c) That other people might know
d) The actual sex act
e) The squirty bit at the end of the sex act and her getting it up her
f) That you kissed that mouth and...
g) other - what is the bit that kills you

2007-11-23 18:53:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As a kid I found it very funny to hit boys in the balls and did it allot. Now I don’t anymore but it’s still hilarious when a guy gets hit.

I have a son who is 13 and 3 months ago he was not feeling well, I asked what was wrong and he said that a girl on the block had kicked him in the groin. I started to laugh. I tried to remain serious and comfort him but I couldn't. 2 weeks ago it happened again, same result. This time he told me that the girl does this for fun and that made me laugh even more. I had to do something so I offered to speak to the girl to make her stop. Next day we went to talk to her and met her just outside our house. I tried to reprimand her but my big smile gave me away, she smiled back and said "so you don't want me to do this?" and kicked my son in the groin. I laughed and the girl to
How do I comfort my son when I think it’s so funny?
Should I talk to the girl again maybe tell her I did it too at her age?
Or is it fair that my son get what I put boys thru?

2007-11-23 18:45:50 · 7 answers · asked by Carina K 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont want to pay for it...thats not really my style. im lookin for more the "oh we just met lets have some fun" type night AND the "ya! i'd love to go on a date with you" type thing.

so i want to just get tourist type girls for the night, dates, and ideally a girlfriend.

whats the best way to go about accomplishing this kinda thing\ in vegass!

2007-11-23 18:38:40 · 6 answers · asked by Greg D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 18:18:35 · 21 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My high school sweetheart and I got a hold of eachother on myspace and we sent e-mails back and forth and Isaid a lot of things that I shouldn't have and didn't mean like leaving my husband and stuff. I am very happy with my husband and baby, I was just remembering High school and stuff. I would never leave my husband. My husband found out and read the e-mails and he took me back twice, it happened 2 times this year and I swore it won't again. I truly love my husband, I guess I was just leading my Ex on. My husband says it was cheating, I don't know. Do u think it is?

2007-11-23 17:58:05 · 16 answers · asked by JoJo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 17:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by gg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a MAJORLLY bad temper and i have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I find myself acting out of violence when a guy or one of her friends say that they want to get with my girlfriend, one of her friends grabbed her A** and she told me about it the next day....I drove to his house and beat his A** with a crowbar i had in my trunk, i went to court and was put on probation for 6 months and had to pay hospital bills. Well, now the same guy keeps calling my girl's cell phone leaving unnessecary messages (i love you, break up with your boyfriend, i wanna screw you etc.) I have sit and though of going to his house and dragging him out into the road and beating him to death! And my temper will make me do this if i dont find another way to cope. Any advice on what i can do, I turned 18 last month and i REALLY dont want to go to jail....

2007-11-23 17:50:50 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you a pretty girl and get told all the time how beautiful you are and how your skin looks so great..and ur hair and blah blah blah and how your body is so in shape and while most people would die to be anywhere near like you..on the inside you are a very depressed and sad person..and wish you could see or better yet just feel half of what others see in you? ??

But if u try and even tell someone your feeling this way they call you stupid ect and say you should be the happiest in the world your beautiful and skinny..as if thats all there is to life???

or am I the only one who does this??

2007-11-23 17:37:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been crushing into punks and gothics and my frinds say they like me back and Im to shy to ask them ???????

2007-11-23 17:35:02 · 1 answers · asked by Mckayla S 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past month i've been seeing this girl. Were together about 3 times a week. The first time we hung out we ended up having sex. She told me that you don't need to be in love to have sex, I agreed, but this was only the first time. After a couple a weeks, we ended up hanging out alot and we would do the same things couples would do. For example, constent kissing, holding hands, always wanted to be with eacother, sex etc. After all this time i've been with her i started to get feelings for her, but i've never told her. The other day I found out that she also been seeing this other guy, I don't know exactly what she been doing with him, but I have a strong feeling she's doing something. I also heard from another friend that she might have had a one night stand with this other guy. I asked her if she see's other guys but she denies it. I can't really get mad or say anything because were not officially dating. Should I stop seeing her? Am i getting played? What should I do?

2007-11-23 17:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by YoungC 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well tomorrow i am going to a friends house to watch the football games and my boyfriends going to be there but im afraid hes going to be all over the girls there.i love him so much and i want him to notice me and act like im actually his 'girlfriend'.Is there anything i can do to get noticed?

2007-11-23 17:33:48 · 24 answers · asked by liM ! 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in glen cove NY and so does he trust me I am the ultimate woman for him nothing gets unnoticed no stone get unturned I give him more than what he wants and some..
you what Ive noticed when he's happy im happy shi t Ill give you money to buy the smallest thong "which he loves along with that song " in his charger
god I love this cave man
the question is do you think that you can steel him from me ?
whos got the skillz
hes the man in the cheep watch who work for payless
but he's mine
I've studied long years to get his heart
I know its mine
not cocky,or arogant but a confident *****.

2007-11-23 17:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister have been chatting online with this guy for 2 months and they decided to get married in this 2 weeks time without us knowing. He even asks her to go to Canada alone, get married there and stays there. It troubled us so much as why she had made the decision so sudden. He is Pakistani currently applying Canadian nationality and also applying permit to set up business there and it is all in process so he told her. He couldnt fetch my sister here like most gentlemen do plus to meet my family first just because of financial problems. How does he going marry my sister with everything still uncertain and in a very suspicious way. I thought of syndicate of people smugling women and i fear my sister is one of the statistics. What do you think guys.. tq

2007-11-23 17:32:26 · 14 answers · asked by honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 17:31:10 · 29 answers · asked by Judith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife seperated about 4 months ago and now she has boyfriend of 20 (we are both 34!) I now have been living on my own for 2 months. I have been reading alot of divorce recovery books and am trying to heal myself, this is the question: Is it ok for me to start dating even though I am still married? I want to make friends of the opposite sex, I just don't know if it would be appropriate for me to do that since I am still married. I do not feel me and my ex will work things out. Women do you have any advice for me?

2007-11-23 17:30:51 · 18 answers · asked by Sylent 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 younger sisters and an older brother. Both of my parents physically abuse us, and every day, at least one of us cries. They hit us for anything, test scores lower than a B, missing homework, spilling something, breaking something, and not obeying them. Anything they can reach they grab it and hit us with it, and if there's nothing, they use their fists and feet. They've used spatulas, drumsticks, metal trashcans, wooden sandals, stools, and countless others. They've left bruises on me that lasted weeks, and I've even told my friends, but they don't seem to care. At my high school, they give out folders with Child Abuse Hotlines, but my parents have threatened us that if they get arrested, we'll become orphans and live on the streets. They are "pastors," and they justify their actions with Proverbs 13:24, 22:15, and 23:13. Please, I know that you guys probably can't do anything to help, so I just want to know, is it true? Will we really just be left alone with no guardians?

2007-11-23 17:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by fwifg 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-23 17:22:28 · 10 answers · asked by Famous_Girl 2 in Friends

My husband and I don't have a lot of time together. He works at night and sleeps all day. We spend the weekend doing things with other people, never alone. I was happy because I thought today we were going to be alone and go shopping together, but he has told some friends of ours to meet us where we were going, and we spent the day with them. I just want to spend time alone with my husband and son sometimes. He got up early this morning to go hunting, and so last night I only got about 15 minutes of his time (if you get me) and tonight our son fell asleep and I laid him down, and he was already going to bed. I told him that our son was asleep and that we could be alone, and he said "I'm going to bed, I'm going hunting in the morning again, and I need sleep" I was upset and said that all I wanted was a few minutes to sit together and talk, and he said "I'm GOING to bed" and did, then got mad because I got upset! Was I wrong for getting upset, when the weekends are the ONLY time we can

2007-11-23 17:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by ... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when my sister arrived in new delhi, my cousin called us, then he talked to me, then he gave the phone to my sister for us to talk, then when my mom came on the phone, my cousin talked to my mom for 2 minutes, then he talked to me..is it rude that my sister didnt talk to my mom when my cousin called, nor did he talk to my mom about my sister..

2007-11-23 17:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, I'm not engaged, and don't plan to be for....atleast 3 years lol....but I am having an argument with a friend about what a groom can decide for the wedding...

I was telling my friend(a girl) that I wanted all white flowers, and of a few specific kinds. She told me that I don't have a say because it's not about me...

Why is it a big deal if I just ask that one thing?

2007-11-23 17:10:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a really small family, my mom and dad, brother (and wife) and sister (and boyfriend) plus me, these are the only people at our family holiday dinners as I have no extended family and faux family members have married off into their own families- this year my boyfriend has requested that I attend his family party for christmas eve because he feels sad we're not together over the holidays (dont' get me wrong, i do too!) but my thing is this, my family is small and getting smaller (my sister and boyfriend won't even be at this year's christmas, they'll be at his) while my boyfriend has a huge extended family that gets together in full force- I'm not going to lie, i would feel ridden with guilt and probably have a horrible time thinking of my mom and dad and brother by themselves- I'm trying to hold my family together, what am I supposed to do in these situations when I look really selfish? I tried to explain but I know that doesn't change the fact he wants me there too... help?

2007-11-23 17:08:07 · 6 answers · asked by peaches11 1 in Family

i know that im only 12 but there is this girl in my english class named samantha and she has been giving me these weird feelings in my vaginal area. . . .. i dont know what it is or what to do. . .. its a tickly feeling and i just want to get on top of her. . PLEASE help me i dont know whats wrong!!!!

2007-11-23 16:55:54 · 2 answers · asked by Preston 1 in Singles & Dating

Behaviour of 50 year old men

2007-11-23 16:54:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll try to summarize everything. We had to give my fiance's brother a ride to their parents vacation home 3 hours away. His brother told his dad that we were going to be late leaving, because I needed to see my mom... his dad went ballistic. He then told his dad that we'd have to leave their house early so that we could get back to see my mom--he still said no way.

My fiance said that if I went w/him, then we'd for sure come back. At 6pm my fiance told his dad "our dogs are home alone, this is her first t-giving w/out her dad.. and plus her friends dad died". (my dad died recently, my friends dad died yday)

His dad yelled and said "I have more sense than any of you, I'm a doctor and know what I'm talking about. Who cares if she doesn't see her mom-don't put her above us. Her friends dad is dead and it's over with.. and your dogs won't starve over night". This went on for 10 minutes.

How would you feel about this?

2007-11-23 16:51:41 · 23 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

ok there this Cute Guy in Two of my Classes and we cool and everything Like he gives me a Nickname and everything and we talk but he is Like cool that a lot of Girls like Him But Not Like That Just play around But what Im asking is How do i make him ask for my number and get him Interstead in Me! Like a maybe ask me out or something! But Im not Like Skinny Im a Little Bigger Then Medium Size so How do i still make him Like me?????????? Please Help

2007-11-23 16:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, she's cute. But I already have someone in mind. I don't want to break her feelings, but she's kinda annoying me while flirting. What should I do?

2007-11-23 16:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by noogai 1 in Singles & Dating