okay well tomorrow i am going to a friends house to watch the football games and my boyfriends going to be there but im afraid hes going to be all over the girls there.i love him so much and i want him to notice me and act like im actually his 'girlfriend'.Is there anything i can do to get noticed?
2007-11-23 17:33:48 · 24 answers · asked by liM ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he's "all over the other girls" while he is actually WITH you, you shouldn't be with him anyways. You should have more respect for yourself then to be with that jerk. You shouldn't have to get his attention if you're in a relationship.
2007-11-23 17:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by scott03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him - then he will notice. Don't be a ***** or anything, and don't hang on other guys. If you see him hanging on other chicks - don't say a word - don't even look at him - go along as if he isn't even there. He is just trying to get a rise out of you anyway if he does that stuff. He sounds like a jerk if that is what he does in public when he is with you. A man who is completely into his woman would never do that. ;) Watch the signs!
2007-11-24 01:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyDiamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is, why are you with him if he makes you feel so insecure? If you see him "all over" other girls tomorrow, dump him in front of everyone, make a huge scene out of it and enjoy it (just kidding).
Any way, there is a reason why you guys date in the first place... If he doesn't feel the same way, then move on to someone better. You shouldn't have to do something drastic just to get him to notice you.
2007-11-24 01:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by watermelonpopsicles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You could "throw" youself at him, but that's a turn off to most people because it makes you look desperate which is never attractive. If he is all over the other girls, then he is clearly not that into you.....and you deserve someone better than that! You deserve someone that wants to be with you and only you and who would not ignore you in a group of people.
2007-11-24 01:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit by him and if that doesn't work....if he is all over the other girls, then be all over the other guys to make him jealous!!! If he doesn't notice you then, the maybe you need to find someone who will treat you like is actual "girlfriend"
2007-11-24 01:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by i ♥ Sour Patch Kids! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be all over the other girls in the first place, he has got issues, he should be with you and no you shouldn't do anything to get noticed.
2007-11-24 01:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by anonomous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dump him. And while your at it get some self esteem. You should not have to compete with other chicks. If a guy doesn't respect you enough to give you your place as his lady HE AIN'T WORTH IT. Beleive me, I talk from personal experience. If he's not showing you respect it's because he doesn't have it. And he's not the only one disrespecting you, you are too. Have more respect for yourself and if you have a selfesteem problem I urge you to get some help!
2007-11-24 01:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by getreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be extra flirty. Act like you did when you were first intersted in him. If that doesn't work and he starts flirting with other girls, casually bring it up next time you talk to him. Say something like, "I wish I could've talked to you at that party more, but u seemed too interested in al those other girls."
2007-11-24 01:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just hang out with him everywhere he goes and hold hands most of the time if you can. That way the other girls know to back off.
2007-11-24 01:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by chezzy555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is you boyfriend and should not do that! You need to talk to him about it. Also, if you want to show off wear something really amazing. Take more time than usual and make yourself look great.
2007-11-24 01:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Renee23; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋