Ladies, what would you do?? (girls only please)?

Question

okay so it goes like this;
i just recently (unofficially) broke it off with my bf of 5 months, saying we needed a break because things werent going so well, and my family was starting to seriously worry that his guys was not at all right for me, and i was starting to see why. a few weeks ago, he told me that he was going out with some girl at his school (we go to seperate schools) and just 3 weeks ago broke it off with her. but wait, it gets better; a few days ago i heard from a source (not mentioning any names) that my bf, before we started going out, had an ex-gf that he knocked up, and when we met swore to me that he is a virgin. So now i've got a box of all his crap in my room waiting to dump it at his door. i"m just so sick of putting up with this crap, and it seems to always happen again and again. girls, what advise could you give a sister?
please, i really need help. i dont know what to do now. thank u for your time reading this ;)

Answer 1

I love how you call an old lady of 92 a sister, but my girl, here is what you do....
Have you ever done some spring cleaning?
It is a very thorough clean out that we women usually do at the onset of Spring.
It gets rid of all the old musty, dusty winter dirt...
It leaves the house fresh and lovely, and ready for a new season.

Time to do some Spring cleaning in your life....
Get rid of the dirt, the hurtful thoughts, the bad vibes and ugliness in your life.
Make your mind and spirit clean and lovely to be ready for when the real man of your future walks in....
Much love
Granny Rose

Answer 2

If you are really sick of this crap, you are absolutely right. He is not worth it, he lies, he wants breaks, he has the nerve to tell you about her other girl...etc.etc. enough is enough, don't you think?
You need to be smart about this guy, the best thing to do is, nothing, absolutely nothing, you should not even be hurt by his actions, because they come from a loser......call him, and tell him you have his stuff and you'll like him to have it back, no questions, no explanations, nothing, behave like a lady and ask him, that you can bring his stuff to a friend's house or give it to one of his friends, so he can receive it.
He should tell you where he wants it, if this arrangement works for you do it, if not then tell him where you can leave it, this is how you can really do it. Do not do any extra mile for this.
Treat him as a regular person you know, no faces, no show, no drama, nothing, strictly business, and done. He might be surprised of your reaction.....but he'll know that he means nothing to you........please don't look back...........

Answer 3

I am glad you getting rid of this fellow sounds like nothing but bad news to me. As for this sort thing happening again and again....I truly am not trying to be to brutal here. It happens in part because you are letting it. I'd say first focus on yourself, find out who you are what you like what you don't like. Work to make yourself the type person you will be proud to be, as you are doing that if you find someone the fits well with who you are then great. Just make sure it's person that can grow with you and not take over who you are. If we act like victims or choose to let ourselves be victims you will attracted those who will make you exactly that. You seem like strong person since you sound like you acting on the information you found out about the guy. That's great!!! Keep that up. And it sounds REALLY corny but I do believe it, there the right person out there for everyone. It just takes time..you will find him. There another way I like to say it. Sometimes you have to kiss lot frogs to find Prince Charming....but never never settle for a frog.

Answer 4

It was the same for me except i took longer to brake it off with my boyfriend of 18 months. the only difference is that my boyfriend was a virgin and wasn't a father to any ex- gf's. i have to say that you are doing the right thing by putting all his stuff in a box. so good on you for doing the right thing for yourself. oh by the way families are right about things like this, i had the same problem. You make most of us females proud and good luck.

Answer 5

He definitely seems like a loser and jerk, not a guy that any girl needs. Guys are like this, especially when young...they just aren't mature and well some are lucky to mature by the age of 25. I would get rid of him and show him that you are better without him in life. Get that box of stuff to him as soon as possible so you can let go of him and move on to a better guy :)

Answer 6

You already know what to do. Take the box of his crap and dump it at his door, and find a man who thinks you are the most beautiful, most intelligent, funniest woman in the world. You deserve it!

Answer 7

It seams that you have already made your mind up about this guy. The real question is where to dump his stuff. Try dumping it off at his old GF house. I bet she would love to give it back.
And find the right guy he is out there for you.

Answer 8

Hi Alex, If he is really doing things like this and has gotten an ex girlfriend pregnant this guy is a total loser. Drop him before you become a victim on his growing list. Always listen to your heart my friend.
A Friend,
poppy1

Answer 9

Do you really want to be with someone who treats you like this? I'm sure that you have enough self esteem and good looks to go out and put him behind you and find someone that will appreciate you. Think of it this way...you are cutting your losses short.

Answer 10

I say, let him go, he's not worth it. You can find someone better then him. If he lied to you once, how do you know he wont do it again. Throw all his shits in front of his house and if he sees you, tell him how much you hate him and his lies, and get the **** out of there.