a) She possibly loves someone else
b) That she snuck around behind your back and you didn't notice
c) That other people might know
d) The actual sex act
e) The squirty bit at the end of the sex act and her getting it up her
f) That you kissed that mouth and...
g) other - what is the bit that kills you
2007-11-23 18:53:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
g)That it might excite me if I saw it.
a)There might have been a moment where they held hands, laughed, or said "I love you". That would kill me.
2007-11-23 19:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by 35 and loving it! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship where I was cheated on (with a very close friend). The hardest part for me was the betrayal...that they were sneaking around and I was completely clueless.
The second thing is actually something that you didn't put up there. It's wondering what was in their minds...did they think about you? What happened to make him decide to actually go for it? Did he regret it immediately after? Stuff like that....
2007-11-24 03:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Been here before 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine would have to be f, that you kissed that mouth probably right after she did. The one you don't have up there that made me the most hurt and angry was the emotional bond that he formed with her long before any sexual acts happened. I would not have been half as mad if it had been some random chick.
2007-11-24 03:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by shannanm2783 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above as well as what he done was a violation of everything that we promised to be for one another. It put something between us that can never be done away with, its like she is a ghost that always somewhere close. If that makes any sense.
2007-11-24 06:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would absolutely kill me if she gave him head. I might actually kill me if she swallowed. If she banged some other dude, you know, big deal, I would move on. We bang, so it wouldn't be that much of a killer. But she never goes down, so if she did that for/to another guy, I would prolly end up with cancer of the heart.
2007-11-24 03:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by lovinglifeina69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
h. That he was willing to throw away our marriage in a blink of an eye. That he thought more of his own self-gratification than our marriage.
That hurt the worst; that he knew what honesty and faithfullness meant to me and knew I could very well have left him in a split second. That is the hardest part; not the trusting
2007-11-24 14:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I haven't really been there but I think it would be asking myself why she did it, no matter what the answer is it still hurts.
2007-11-24 04:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Don_$armad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that my trust was betrayed and he didn't love me enough to give me respect to not hurt me so bad.
2007-11-24 03:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by shan140399 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a
2007-11-24 02:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H) All of the above.
2007-11-24 05:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Frosty-pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋