My boyfriend ALWAYS wants me to wear heels with short skirts and a small top even at night. When I don't, he complains and tells me that I should've worn something different. I told him that I'm tired of freezing my *** off while other girls have jackets, jeans and uggs on to keep warm. He just told me that I complain too much...Am I being unreasonable!? I don't think it's fair that he gets to dress all warm with jeans, sweatshirt and timbs while I have to stay cold in my tiny outfit that's not even comfortable!!
2007-11-23 14:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I explained to him AGAIN right now why I don't want to wear the scantly clothes that he likes but he just feels that I'm being unreasonable...He said, "FINE. Then just wear something warm. You complain too much..." I asked him to wear flip flops, shorts and a tshirt at night so we could BOTH be cold and he dismissed it by saying, "that's not DRESSING UP for guys thought so I don't think I should dress like that...."
2007-11-23 14:30:23 · update #1
I'm a guy and I think you're being reasonable. You're bf seems to be an @ss. He doesn't care if you get cold or not and having the chances of catching a cold.. All he cares is how hot/sexy you dress so it can satisfy his desires.
2007-11-23 14:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Romeo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't like what *you* choose to put on *your* body, then he is the one who's complaining too much.
Some night when it's cold out, tell him to wear a pair of shorts and a muscle t-shirt, or a fishnet shirt. No coat.
You're not being unreasonable: *he* is being unreasonable. Wear what you want. If he doesn't like how you cover your body, then he can stop having access to it.
2007-11-23 22:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by septegram 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont care what she wears as she looks fabulous in anything --- he is being unreasonable --- he is only doing it to show off --- lookatme and the wonderful girlfriend i have --- tell him you want him to dress in a muscle shirt (all the time) with shorts and sandals --- tell him he looks sexy and see how long that lasts --- if not he does not really seem to care all that much for you ---- best wishes
2007-11-23 22:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, your boyfriend is being totally inconsiderate!! yes, all guys love it when their girlfriend dresses up pretty and sexy of course. but not when it's freezing cold and you can't stand it! he's being selfish. you should dress how you want. it's nice to give your boyfriend a treat of dressing a certain way here and there, but you shouldn't be forced to wear it.
2007-11-23 22:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by girlygirl8 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
simple. look clean and comfortable and dress warm. that's crazy you going out in the freezing cold like that. and i think hes being selfish getting you dressed like that in that freezing cold.
2007-11-23 22:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Li Syaoran, CardCaptors ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your body, so you choose what you want to wear.
let's put him in some skimpy clothes and throw HIM outside. see how he likes it. :-P
2007-11-23 23:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋