I have a new man in my life. He is really great! We both have really busy schedules. The only time we can spend is on the weekend.
I feel that I'm addicted to him already and we've only been seeing eachother for 3 weeks.
When he left I got a little misty. What is wrong with me? I'm 32yo and I don't have any problems getting guys or attracting attention. Why is this situation any different from any other man I hang out with?
Should I back the hell off or what?
2007-11-23 14:13:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've talked with him about my feelings. Actually he talked to me first. We both have strong feelings for eachother. He told me today that I was the perfect woman for him. I really liked that.
Some of you have said that I shouldn't lose focus on my job, friends, etc. I haven't. I still maintain my lifestyle, its just now I have a new person in it.
Misty means- teary eyed.
2007-11-23 14:26:48 · update #1
You probably see something in him that you have never seen or had with any other person you have been with. Also, you don't want to lose him. Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you feel like you might be falling in love with him but at the same time you are not sure. Don't move too fast or he will think you are too clingy. Just take your time with him and everything will fall into place. He must be a great person if he has you feeling like this. I hope it works out. Best of luck to you.
2007-11-23 14:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee214 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dear. Take it slow...it's okay to feel the way you do. I am sure you are attractive and picky and sometimes its hard to find a guy that you really like. So, when you do its overwhelming. But, take it slow really get to know him and his flaws. Hopefully your feelings about him are true but dont give your all too soon. Still keep your outside life going such as hobbies, friends, career, and spending weekends by yourself. Dont put your eggs in one basket. But remember to take your time and really get to know who this man is. Let the man be the pursuer. All i am saying is take your time. It takes longer than three weeks to really know someone. I am sure he is different in a wonderful way but to be addicted after three weekends is too soon. Take care.
2007-11-23 22:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Maybe there is something about him that stands out. You only do weekends its not like you are with him every hour on the hour.
2007-11-23 22:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by chicken2008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not moving too fast. You seem like you know what you're getting into so if you think you're attracted to him like that, then there are probably better things to come.
2007-11-23 22:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me and we ended up married. He was the love of my life! You may be on to something really good here.
2007-11-23 22:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by ceegt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are being smart about intimacy, and not neglecting other parts of your life (work, friends, etc)...then it sounds like you're just smitten! Nothing wrong with that. :-)
2007-11-23 22:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by physicsmom04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not very descriptive, I could help you if you put more detail on whats happening with you two, what do you mean by "misty"
2007-11-23 22:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not because everyone gets someone new in thier life and it is not strange that you get attreacted quick to people. i do not think you are moving to fast
2007-11-24 12:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by china w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no monique your doing just right.... people think that you are moving to fast and you'll try to take it slow and broke it off with him and they'll steal him from you so you are doing just right... I say u go for it....
2007-11-23 22:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmynsky21 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just do what you feel is right in your heart or better yet, ask him yourself.
2007-11-23 22:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋