It seems like we have lost our sexual drive for one another. We have been together for 3 years and I understand that some off the sensation will be forgotten..but right now it's hard to even find it. Have you been through a similar situation and if so what cured it, if anything.
2007-11-23 14:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've got to be tender and understand that she has needs too. Ask yourself what she would like, and keep in mind she's not a light bulb that you can turn on at your every whim. It's a relationship that your in. Make it so that she WANTS it. You can do it. Good Luck, ;-)
2007-11-23 14:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're bored with each other.
My advice is very simple...role play.
Yes, role play. You be the single dad with daughter/son she is the babysitter that just turned 18 two days ago. The kids are out of the house at mom’s/your ex’s house and she came over to get paid. Take it from there.
Its not for everyone. If you ever get bored with that let me know I have other ideas.
Note: Please refrain from the "Super PI Bashing" he asked the question and I am trying to offer a solution if you don't like my response please don't get ignorant. And have a happy holiday season!
2007-11-23 22:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Super PI 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
3 years together you should still be after each other,what is it going to be like 10 years from now. You better find something to get you back on track. When i got like that i started to think about the first time we made love what it felt like.The very first time i saw him and the very first kiss,the butterflies i got in my stomach. I pretended that it was the first time we made love and it worked for me. Do you watch porn if you do pick out a girl you like and pretend your wife is her.What ever works right?
2007-11-23 22:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am in a similar situation, but the wife decided to let it go, as she had no real interest in sex.
YOU need to sit down and talk to one another in a non-incrimatory way
2007-11-23 22:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When my wife had kids thats when her sexual drive decreased. I was being too aggressive to her about my sexual needs and that was a mistake. I started to be patient and told her I will give her some space and so far it has worked.
2007-11-23 22:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think you're just in a slump.
i like ALL the ideas i've seen here so far.
relax and don't be so serious. you could even show her the ideas here.
try them..have fun. take it slow..that's sexy.
worrying about it makes it seem "perfunctory".
i find talking about it really helps. when you're alone. it can be a turn on.
2007-11-23 22:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
divorce cured my ex's loss of sex drive... my 29 year old g/f has more than i can handle now and i am loving it.
divorce was worth every penny
i highly recommend it to all men in that position
2007-11-23 23:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm in a similiar situation. I can't be much help to you but I can keep you in my prayers and I will do so. Good Luck
2007-11-23 22:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Playing and laughing, doing fun stuff together...that always fixes it here....laughter really is the best medicine.
2007-11-23 22:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try oysters a bottle of jack daniels and some soft candle light :)
2007-11-23 22:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋