The reason why he wants to break up is...?

Question

He just told me he wants to separate because I am foo wonderful in terms of talent. I have a great carrer, and nothing he has negative feeling toward me.
Actually, I don't understand why the guys in general feel this.
However, he wants me to be a friend as if in the past.
Please tell me if you had those kind of experience & how to prevent from separating...

I think he chooses breaking up even if we discuss. I think this discussion that he wants to have is he wants to make hi guilty be lighter...
I am not gonna attend thi discussion, and just tell him I choose separating, too.
What do you guys think?

Answer 1

Well he may be jealous. Also ask him what is bothering him and why he want to separate.Then you can try to help him with his talents. I haven't had this problem before.good luck! hope it works out!

Answer 2

What is your talent?

Sounds like a cop out. Like there is some other reason and does'nt want to hurt your feelings. If thats true, then dont indulge those thoughts, just move on.

Only thing else I can think of is, maybe your career really IS to big for him to be around. Maybe your on the road touring with Beyonce or something. Who knows.

Answer 3

I'm thinking he has some other problem with you. but that's a weak excuse right there, he has to have some other problem.
One small thing I can think of is tell him he's wonderful. I think he's feeling emasculated. If he's down on something (job, fitness, etc.) reassure him about it, and if he still feels that way, try to help him with that problem
(down on job= unemployment, or wants something higher)
(down on fitness= he thinks he's fat for some reason)

But I got to believe there is some other problem.

Answer 4

I've reread your question about five times and it still doesn't make sense. Maybe the two you have a communications problem, like making yourself understood.pp

Answer 5

It sounds like he just doesnt feel chemistry and so he made up a lame excuse.