I'm wondering how many men will date a girl and try to sleep with her in order to judge whether or not she is worthy of another date? What I mean is, do you hope she wont sleep with you because that will make her more respectable in your eyes, and if she does, you just toss her aside? If so, why do you think this is okay?
2007-11-23 10:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men don't play those stupid relationship games that women play. Anyone that says they do is trying to impress someone.
The best relationships I've had were ones where we had sex after the 1st or 2nd date. We had chemistry and that's why it happened. You can't fake chemistry, which is why the infamous 3 date rule works.
2007-11-23 10:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister's boyfriend had her ask me if I would go on a double date with them and his friend. I wasn't dating anyone at the time, so I agreed to go to the show with them. This was a long time ago and I don't remember his name. I do remember that he didn't talk very much. Once we were in the show and watching the movie, he couldn't keep his hands to himself. I had just met the guy and wasn't about to let him put his hands somewhere they weren't supposed to be. He realized this and stopped trying. Anyway, a few days later I received a letter from him. In the letter he said that he was just testing me, that he was looking for a "nice" girl to date and that I had passed his test because I would not let his hands wonder.
I had not been very impressed with him to begin with since he hadn't really made an effort to get to know me. When I read his letter and found out that I had been put through his test, well it made me mad. I wrote him a letter and told him what a low-life that I thought he was. I told him that I may have passed his test, but he had failed mine. I never heard from him again. My purpose in answering his letter was to try to make him feel bad enough to maybe never put another girl through his tests.
I never knew if he really was testing me or if he was just making up an excuse so that I would see him again. Either way, I was not interested in someone who was so callous as to play head games or lie to me.
2007-11-23 11:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by grahod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look some guys look out for the girl there dateing thats why they get put of to the side.
2007-11-23 11:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would not make any difference whether or not the lady slept with me as far as wanting a second date ---- in fact if i did not want a second date i would not want to sleep with her ---- and if she does or not does not change how i feel about her (nor i hope how she feels for me) ----but then i am a LOT older and hopefully wiser --- best wishes
2007-11-23 10:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋