ive been in a relationship for a little over two months with this guy. i really like him and he really likes me and all but everytime he trys hugging me or kissing me i push him away.i dont really know why i just do it without thinking and realizing until he points it out. what may be the reason for this happening??
2007-11-23 10:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by l3l31801 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just catch yourself the second you feel yourself wanting you to stop him and stop yourself
2007-11-23 10:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Count DiMera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks your relationship is more superficial than real so she looses patience in waiting for it to be real. Some people need proof before they can believe in things and until they get or receive it they can view situations more on the negative side creating more disbelief and doubt. I think this is how things get overlooked by simple miscommunication leaving things up to your imagination and without proof our thoughts change along with our imagination changing around the story giving it a different meaning and which might not have a fairy tale ending.
2007-11-23 19:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, assuming you don't have abuse issues in your past, perhaps you simply do not have a physical attraction to him! He might be a great guy whom you like a lot, but you can't force the passion of a real romance... Not to be too negative, but when this happens to me, it usually means "break up time." Whatever happens, best wishes!
2007-11-23 18:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by anon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that.Either you dont like guys, or you feel embarrassed, maybe you were molested the reasons are many.
2007-11-23 18:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this used to happen to me too. i think that there might be a lot of reasons for this...i mean do you really love him? are you comfortable around him? are you scared to get attached to people? all kind of stuff.
2007-11-23 18:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're not ready right now. take it slower...?
or maybe theres something on your mind
maybe he hugs & kisses you at the wrong times.
2007-11-23 18:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grandpa tried to slip you the tongue when you were younger?
The Rat
2007-11-23 18:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend - your intuition is TALKING to you - LISTEN TO IT!! on the other hand, maybe you just plain don't like people being so "touchy feely"...my bf is like that!
2007-11-23 19:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by Andra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him why do u do this? maybe ur scared
2007-11-23 18:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just dont like him
2007-11-23 18:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋